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[Merged] Persiapan Lepas Kahwin...What should buy n What shouldn't?
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My advice: Pelan-pelan beli & beli whatever you can afford sahaja. Tak apa kalau kena susah-susah dgn suami - dia akan appreciate kita dan insyaallah akan ingat sampai bila-bila. My husband's family dulu orang susah, so of course i kena tolong dia banyak. Nasib baik my father baik hati, kasi kitaorang duduk one of his condos lepas kawin & kasi pakai his old volvo. We all beli barang semua yang essential aje (yelah, hubby kena hantar duit kat makbapak dia lagi..) Electric goods punyalah survey dulu baru beli - cari yang murah, murah lagi .. Bila ingat balik, i cannot imagine how susah we were and what i had to go through .. i dah biasa hidup fairly comfortably, tiba-tiba dah kahwin, nak makan McDonald pun macam luxury .. kesian tak..
Alhamdulillah, sekarang both husband and myself dah ada career yang kukuh, anak dah 3. Rumah pun selesa - corner lot di subang jaya and baru ni, hubby dapat promotion jadi GM and dia belikan I honda stream so that senang I angkut anak-anak I semua. (Kan I kata hubby akan ingat pengorbanan kita ..)
Take care .. |
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shah nak kawin.....? ... jgn lupa jemput saye ye..... actually shah org mana sebenornye eekkk? hubby asal org mana..? klu dia duk kt jln imbi... maknanye dekat la ngan opis leen nih..... :ah:
bila majlis nyer tuh...?
mcm leen kan rasa bersyukur sangat .. leen ngan hubby cuci kaki, tangan, muka,kepala...kira satu badanlahhh.... semua dah ada.... rumah,pinggan mangkuk, electrical product, perabot, dapur gas, .... semuanya ibu mertuaku yang sediakan..... kira rezeki murraaahh sangat..... cuma 2/3 thn ni je start beli brg sendiri.. sbb tak semua brg yg sedia ada tuh baru... sebahagian besarnya semua lama... yelah dulu mentua duduk situ...( la ni duk kg sbb ada umah lain kt kg ) bila kitaorg kawin dia bg umah ngan brg2 sekali kt kitaorg.... so byklah brg yg kira old season gitu....  |
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Originally posted by bLUe_jaMBu at 5-1-2005 04:37 PM:
so planning mmg penting..list down apa yg perlu..ekceli me pon tak banyak keluar duit..hubby yg banyak..tapi takdelah sume sekali harung..one by one lah..
bila ingat semula i thin ...
that is a good investment blue...iye la..umah ni makin hari makin mahal kan..:ah::ah: |
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Originally posted by eRiKa at 5-1-2005 16:37:
lebih kurang aje la kite sheeby...:ah:...ika langsung x dpt toaster sbg hadiah tapi ika dapat 4 biki rice cooker...cooking pan sampai 5 set...tu e x masuk lagik tea set yg sama sejibik dekat 2- ...
hhehe, kita tukar jer la ika, i amik rice cooker u, and u amik one of my toaster,,;)
ekcelli. tuh citer i last 2 years, now sure ika pon dh almost complete kot.
tuh lar, kekadang elok gak ikut style orang putih, semua guest dh list or chop siap2 nak bagi aper kat org kawin. so, tak der lar terclash sampai 5 , 6 toaster, 3, 4 rice cooker. tapi budaya kita, tak manis cam tuh. aper org kasik kita kena terima, and bukan mintak2 ekkss...ter off topic plak i :stp: |
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Originally posted by ahysa at 5-1-2005 01:05 PM:
adoi storm....syah pun tengah poning dok pikir pasal ni....
syah bukan pindah rumah jer...terpaksa pindah negeri skali.
sbnrnya barang yg ada kat rumah skarang ni semua syah nyer. tapi kalau ...
syah dah nak tawen..????? tak bgtau haz pon yer...:no::no::no:
babab dia nih bila haz jumpa kang...:geram::geram::geram: |
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Originally posted by serenity at 5-1-2005 04:40 PM:
My advice: Pelan-pelan beli & beli whatever you can afford sahaja. Tak apa kalau kena susah-susah dgn suami - dia akan appreciate kita dan insyaallah akan ingat sampai bila-bila. My husband's f ...
suka nyer haz dengo citer serenity....:ah::ah:
mmg la...lepas kawen macam2 masalah, especially duit...
haz pon slowly nak beli electrical goods...such as tv, fridge, washing machine...
keter dah ada...and maybe akan beli tv in these few months...
electrical goods yg kecik2 mmg tak beli..pasal biasanyer akan dapat as present masa kawin ...
dining sets & cooking pots...my mom dah prepare...
my mom dia suka beli all these things banyak2...dining sets, pots, woks...
kitorg lak anak2 selalu tanya dia...apsal laa waste money beli the same thing banyak2...
bila dah beso skit nih baru ler paham...she will hand down all those yg dia beli utk anak2 dia masa kitorg kawen nanti...
semua brg2 tu dia tak pakai...dia akan simpan jerk...sampai berabuk..
rupanya nak bagi kitorg gak...
terharu kengkadang tingatkan mak haz tu... :cry:. |
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Originally posted by haz at 5-1-2005 18:34:
syah dah nak tawen..????? tak bgtau haz pon yer...:no::no::no:
babab dia nih bila haz jumpa kang...:geram::geram::geram:
apa lak tak bgtau...haz lah org yg pertama kat forum ni yg syah bilang tau...
tapi mungkin haz tak pasan...
kan kat email aritu syah dah hint yg syah akan jadi penduduk tetap KL :cak: |
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whoaaa... IKEA SALE skang?? sampai bila arr??
btw.. kalau persediaan bebarang electrical kecik cam rice cooker.. toaster tu semua dah ader.. furthermore.. nanti time kahwin for sure mesti ader hadiah barang2 ni punyer.. so.. konsenteret on sofa.. kitchen and bedroom set...
the rest cam fridge.. tv, hi-fi, DVD, washing machine dah ader hasil hidop membujang... :lol |
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meh juju cite experience juju lak...kitaorg masa kawin pun tak de berbelanja besar sgt...kira duit hantaran semua...juju bagi kat parents sebab diorg yg keluarkan duit untuk set katil , cadar & hidangan tetamu datang...
after married....dgn juju & husband baru start keje.....duduk dgn in law ...memang tak mampu nak sewa rumah masa tu...after that my husband beli kereta honda second hand...which senang for us nak pegi keje & nak hantar my father in law...yet juju pegi keje still kena turun bukit for 15 minutes...after that naik bas.....turun bas naik LRT...pastu jalan kaki nak sampai opis about 20 minutes....masa tu kebetulan mengandung anak sulung...lagi pun jalan nak ke tempat keje tak sama.....so juju kena berkorban sikit...pagi2 my routine basuh baju...tak de washing machine ....dapur pun pakai dapur biasa je...since tak bayar duit sewa so kita org beli le dapur baru & oven utk in law...tu pun buat monthly payment through court mammoth...pastu beli washing machine lak.....nak raya my in law berkena set dinning table yg marble...so kita org belikan gak...so in my room ada TV je & rak kabinet......anak2 tidur kat tilam pastu alas dgn cadar.....kira sampai anak 3 le kita org duduk tidur berhimpit dlm small room
my advise tak payah beli brg2 byk2...cukup le pinggan mangkuk satu set, pisau, graphu satu set...kalau tak mampu beli washing machine...apasalahnya basuh tangan...bukan byk pun baju ....better simpan duit sikit2...tapi for those yg bergaji lebih tak pe....like my self kira cukup2 je...tak de nak luxury2......
now alhamdulillah getting better :bgrin: |
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Originally posted by Juju at 6-1-2005 07:31 AM:
meh juju cite experience juju lak...kitaorg masa kawin pun tak de berbelanja besar sgt...kira duit hantaran semua...juju bagi kat parents sebab diorg yg keluarkan duit untuk set katil , cadar & ...
betul tu...
bagi lara...kalau takde rumah sendiri..for me membazir nak beli perabot terlalu banyak...tapi sementara ada rumah sendiri simpan la duit utk beli perabot cantik cantik bila dah ada rumah sendiri nanti.
tapi barang barang keperluan seperti dapur, washine machine, tv, dan keperluan yg wajib tu..ok lah beli..
me barang barang dapur tu byk la..rice cooker pun waktu kahwin dpt 4,plus barang barang electric yg lain..kira saving la x payah beli..keperluan lain semua dah ada...cuma x beli barang decoration yg lain jer...sbb belum duduk rumah sendiri..rumah sewa jer.. |
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Originally posted by eRiKa at 5-1-2005 01:59 PM:
mcm ika..stuff macam tv,dvd player tu die beli sendiri..but the other stuff,we all share beli sama...cam washing machine,fridge,kitchen stuff...iye la..kami ni sama2 susah,hubby ika bukan org senan ...
:setuju::setuju::setuju:tapi dia tak kasi bayar ler...storm cakap nak share beli..alih2 dia yg bayar... |
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Originally posted by storm at 6-1-2005 08:38 AM:
:setuju::setuju::setuju:tapi dia tak kasi bayar ler...storm cakap nak share beli..alih2 dia yg bayar...
kalau dia mampu apa salahnya..
kalau x mampu tu baru sama sama kongsi..
hehe lara mmg prefer semua lelaki sediakan..baru dia tau tanggungjawab unless kita tau dia x berkemampuan..baru la kita tolong.. |
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Originally posted by LaraCroft at 6-1-2005 08:22 AM:
betul tu...
bagi lara...kalau takde rumah sendiri..for me membazir nak beli perabot terlalu banyak...tapi sementara ada rumah sendiri simpan la duit utk beli perabot cantik cantik bila dah ada ...
itulah yg storm dok fikir...sebab storm menyewa nanti...rugi kalau beli furniture sebab kalau nak pindah nak kena bukak balik...beli yg basic..dining table yg storm beli tu pun 4 seater jek...yg lain mmg tuan umah dah ader furniture pasang siap..ala2 IKEA gak lam bilik buat simpan baju... |
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Originally posted by Juju at 6-1-2005 07:31 AM:
meh juju cite experience juju lak...kitaorg masa kawin pun tak de berbelanja besar sgt...kira duit hantaran semua...juju bagi kat parents sebab diorg yg keluarkan duit untuk set katil , cadar & ...
congrats sebab Juju tabah hati menjalani hidup ngan hubby...terharu baca kisah Juju nih...tapi Allah tu Maha Adil kan...kalau dulu hidup x semewah mana tapi tetap bahagia...Hidup mewah pun kalau tak bahagia :gila: jugak dibuatnya kan... |
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Originally posted by serenity at 5-1-2005 16:40:
My advice: Pelan-pelan beli & beli whatever you can afford sahaja. Tak apa kalau kena susah-susah dgn suami - dia akan appreciate kita dan insyaallah akan ingat sampai bila-bila. My husband's f ...
:setuju: memang betul cakap serenity tu...belilah apa yg perlu dulu.Dan juga memang betul suami akan appreciate kita dan ingat sampai bila-bila. Kak Sal juga mengalami situasi yg lebih kurang serupa dgn serenity dan rasanya itulah juga yg salah satu sebabnya kami dpt mempertahankan perkahwinan kami hingga sekarang. (20thn yg penuh dgn pengorbanan dan kebahagiaan). Ter off topic ke ni?:hmm: |
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Originally posted by white01whale at 5-1-2005 10:35 PM:
whoaaa... IKEA SALE skang?? sampai bila arr??
btw.. kalau persediaan bebarang electrical kecik cam rice cooker.. toaster tu semua dah ader.. furthermore.. nanti time kahwin for sure mesti ader h ...
IKEA sale sampai 9 Jan nih...Some items bleh ler beli sebab memang murah..some items...mahal gak..but the dining table yg Storm beli...memang ramai yg envy...sebab dia murah n cantik...sampai kakak storm pun sibuk nak g IKEA lagi...nak beli dining table tuh... |
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Originally posted by haz at 5-1-2005 06:41 PM:
suka nyer haz dengo citer serenity....:ah::ah:
mmg la...lepas kawen macam2 masalah, especially duit...
haz pon slowly nak beli electrical goods...such as tv, fridge, washing machine...
keter d ...
beli haz jangan tak beli...
benda2 tuh kalau simpan lama pun tak basi...
Itulah sometimes memang kita tak pernah fikir one step ahead...orang yg dah makan garam banyak mcm mak2 kita dia lebih tahu...that's why dia yg sibuk2 beli pinggan mangkuk, kitchen utensils..sumer tuh utk anak2 dia kan?...:hug: mak |
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Originally posted by tina^^ at 5-1-2005 03:27 PM:
smart cooker tue bagos jugak storm...tapi mcm one of our frenz cakap kat atas tadik..mostly bebarang dapor sumer tue leh dapat masa adiah kawen nanti.
tapikan...tina rasa utk those yg kena s ...
itu lah bakal hubby pun suh beli yg tuh...tambah plak storm suka makan porridge..bleh ler beli...my fren said better beli smartcooker dr oven..sebab oven ader effect on health...smartcooker brand panasonic...RM219..ader ker orang nak kasi hadiah mahal macam tuh?..mcm storm kenduri kat kampung halaman tercinta...orang tak bagi hadiah sangat...orang bagi kudrat jek..tolong2 mana yg patut...so memang storm tak expect orang nak bagi electrical items nih...,
so far barang2 basic hampir lengkap...sudu, garfu, ader beli kat JJ ader beli kat IKEA..harga pun hampir samer jek..kat IKEA RM24.90 for 24 pcs..Kat JJ..RM5 for 5 pcs..;)
Bekas garam gula dah ader..
Tiggal nak beli rice cooker jek lagi...Cam toaster tuh Storm tak perlu sangat sebab jarang makan toast bread... |
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blue pon sukeeee sangat kalo masuk rumah cuci kaki jek biar hubby prepare sume..dan sekiranya die dah berbuat begitu kite sebagai isteri tokleh nak gaduh2 sgt or ungkit2 & kena totally dgr cakap dier kan...ye;ah sebab kite masuk pon dah relax2 xder susah payah..
tapi for me kalo share lak die nak arah2 kite sangat pon sure tak sampai hati coz sama keje kuat utk kehidupan kan...itu untungnya bagi blue lah..
tapi kalo dapat hubby yg cukup memahami alangkah beruntungnya...
baguslah kalo lelaki sekarang ni tahu tanggungjawap prepare sume brg utk isteri, biar die sedar bukan senang nak bina rumahtangga..
my hubby pon ada plan nak belikan kereta tapi die juz bayar d/p lah monthly me bayar sendiri..ahaks...tapi selalunya die cakap jek bila time bayar die bayar sengsorang..(alhamdullilah) |
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Best nye topik ni..Tapi jas not s lucky s some forumers kat sini :cry:
Jas akan start sewa rumah in March..meaning after wedding (next week :cak stay ngan MIL dulu, lagi pun wedding blah lelaki end of feb sbb double wedding..
Jas sewa rumah aunty jas sendiri..Furniture xbeli lagi..umah aunty ada la basic2 items so nanti dah tinggal sana baru nak cari apa2 yg patut beli..Ni suma kena share..
Katil n almari 4 our room guna katil 2nd hand, beli from another aunty..nanti dah ada rezeki, this set akan letak into the 2nd room n beli la set baru..
Electrical goods yg kecik2 xnak beli..nak tunggu wedding gift :bgrin: our family practise this 'wish list'..tapi among us sahaja la..so dah tau la certain things that we would b getting :cak:
Washing machine jas akan beli, TV my partner will buy n we will share the money 2 buy fridge..Kami kena share 4 almost everything sbb he is the eldest in the family n my FIL pulak ada 2 'cawangan' so byk benda yg my partner has 2 handle 4 his mum n siblings..Dia ada byk komitmen, jas plak anak bongsu n xde kena bayar apa2 every month..lagi pun i know of his commitments from the very beginning so i am much prepared..Apa2 hal, harap2 everything goes well :pray: biar x mewah asalkan cukup makan pakai..:hug:
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Post time 5-1-2005 04:40 PM
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