How to change yourself dramatically!!

dami,..kita pakai tudung,..mcm tak manis kalau baju tu singkat atas buntut kan...so,..pakai la baju yg ngam2 tutup buntut...ok la,..tak labuh sgt,..tak singkat sgt...

mrs_livingstone

Originally posted by bbpie at 16-2-2006 11:48 AM

nak ikut bole??..heheheheh..da lame berangan nak gi korea tapi xdok kawan nak gi...dok pikir nak gi sorang2 tapi susahnye gi sorang nak amik gambo susah!..

amboi.korea nak gi..
senegal ni tanak mai ka?

mrs_livingstone

Originally posted by damiqula at 16-2-2006 04:08 PM

hehe..memang sesuai pun kalu kite yg rendah ni pakai baju singkat sikit,kalau labuh nanti nampak pendek..tapi kadang2 bile nak pakai baju pendek2 ni,rase segan lak..sbb nampak butt kite..hehe..ma ...

mrs tak kisah apa jenis baju asal cantik dan mrs selesa...
labuh kanampak merayap ka..me jalannnnnn
hahaha

Originally posted by mrs_livingstone at 16-2-2006 05:20 PM

amboi.korea nak gi..
senegal ni tanak mai ka?

ok..ok..jom kita buat trip ke senegal..ceriakan mrs..kat saner..

damiqula

Originally posted by mrs_livingstone at 16-2-2006 05:22 PM

mrs tak kisah apa jenis baju asal cantik dan mrs selesa...
labuh kanampak merayap ka..me jalannnnnn
hahaha

eleh..kalo org dah cantik,pakai baju ape pon cantik...:cak:

damiqula

Originally posted by miau at 16-2-2006 04:17 PM
dami,..kita pakai tudung,..mcm tak manis kalau baju tu singkat atas buntut kan...so,..pakai la baju yg ngam2 tutup buntut...ok la,..tak labuh sgt,..tak singkat sgt...

time kasih miau ingatkan..alhamdulillah setakat ni baju dami sume tutp muntut..yg ketat2 pun dami elakkan..Tuhan marah..mak maah..bf dami pun mrh..aritu kene lecture free je ngn die sbb pakai baju terketat skt..:kant:

reynna

amboi.. dari japan nak ke korea pastuh nak ke senegal.... mana haku nak korek duit? :kant: ini baruuu betul kena tanam pokok duit ni....

putri

Originally posted by reynna at 16-2-2006 10:18 PM
amboi.. dari japan nak ke korea pastuh nak ke senegal.... mana haku nak korek duit? :kant: ini baruuu betul kena tanam pokok duit ni....

Hah reynna...alang2 hang dah tanam pokok duit tu, meh arr melawat halu skali kat ireland ni :cak:

damiqula

yea!!dah stat cuti!!boleyla melaram puas2 lps ni..n nak realisasikan impian nak make over..hehe

Originally posted by putri at 16-2-2006 11:16 PM


Hah reynna...alang2 hang dah tanam pokok duit tu, meh arr melawat halu skali kat ireland ni :cak:

Apa kata..reynna buat trip selama 2 bulan untuk visit kitaorang kat luar ni..best rasanya ada kawan dari K'el datang...

Originally posted by damiqula at 17-2-2006 02:30 PM
yea!!dah stat cuti!!boleyla melaram puas2 lps ni..n nak realisasikan impian nak make over..hehe

Waa dami..ari2 melaram laa..bagus..bagus..tu..nanti dami tulis sikit pengalaman make over dan tanamkan semangat untuk kitaorang sama..cam ice buat tu..

bbpie

Originally posted by mrs_livingstone at 16-2-2006 05:20 PM

amboi.korea nak gi..
senegal ni tanak mai ka?

mrs ko jangan..haku pantang org ajak..asal ade tempat duduk..ok jek :bgrin:..ade ape menarik kat sane? :cak: tahun ni lum lagi dpt location  nak gi jalan nih..hehehehehe

bbpie

Originally posted by Bintangku at 16-2-2006 12:00 PM




ok..jom..jom..welcome to korea..hik..hik..Anyong Ha seyo...

hehehehe...jap nak chek tiket bepe hengget...

mrs_livingstone

bintang-...a ah ye lah tuuu:lol and apa maksud oppa tu?sayang ehhh?

dami-t pasal la dami leh pakai baju ape aje dami kan cumei!!!dan good luck on make ver.nanti citer perkembangan ekkkk

reynna-bila pokok duit tu dan ade anak,mrs mntak nak semai la anak poo duit tu:lol...tak pun duit byk2 tu kalau tak mau,let go  kat thread freebies:lol

bbpie- dtg lah kalau sudi login ngan makan foc,mrs leh sediakan tp tambang sendiri aaaaa:lol
dtg dulu mrs bawak gi tempat best2:bgrin:kan best,accessories best..tp gn berangan nak beli mekap lah.kih kih,nak mekap beli kat airport:lol

reynna

Originally posted by mrs_livingstone at 18-2-2006 05:57 PM
reynna-bila pokok duit tu dan ade anak,mrs mntak nak semai la anak poo duit tu...tak pun duit byk2 tu kalau tak mau,let go  kat thread freebies

hahahhahahhah guling2 reynna baca ...

Ice_Q

Terima kasih pada kawan-kawan yg beri respons pada posting ice that day. I hope my long posting membuka mata, hati dan semangat you all to change your self. Bak kata lagu Salt n Peppa 'Body Beautiful' tu.."whatever the mind can concieve and believe, you will achieve".

Sorry to dami and the other forumers sbb posting ice menyentuh tentang dramatic change yg paling basic dan bukan dari segi advanced fashion spt tujuan asal topic ini. I feel that ramai boleh beri better input tentang fashion terkini dan tercantik, tapi tak semua orang mendapat peluang untuk mengubah yg paling asas iaitu fizikal sendiri, dramatically. So kat situ ice boleh tolong sikit-sikit utk memberi dorongan.

Answering the questions - Macam mana ice boleh berubah bentuk dulu tu, jawapannya ialah doctor's pills, portion control dan high protein diet. Ice dah cerita secara detail dlm thread 'Serious Nak Kurus? ' yg dibuka oleh sis Peona satu masa dulu.

Tentang nak menerapkan semangat dalam diri tu..Sebenarnya mudah aja..Cari perasaan yg boleh bawa you all kepada perubahan itu. Cth- kerana kasihan kita beri sedekah. Kerana cinta- kita berkahwin..Dan kerana ________ kita change ourselves.

In my case it was kerana frust tak boleh shopping baju pelbagai pesen. Saiz normal mmg tak muat. Jeans perempuan saiz paling besar pun nak terpecah jahitan sisi..Dan lagi satu kerana tanpa disedari, i felt very-very hurt dgn kata-kata and persepsi orang. Mmg on the surface i did not care, tp bila terlalu banyak..ia berkumpul dan rises to the surface. I was hurt + angry and that energy seeped through my veins and blood and i began to challenge them silently..Watch me, watch me closely.. and like Maya Angelou, the poet wrote :

"  You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
you may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I'll rise. "

So me tukar rasa kecewa dan marah tu kepada tenaga dan semangat utk berubah. After that few months, mulut org start terganga, and mata macam nak tercabut keluar dr socket, and yg pernah perli tu terkedu, menelan air liur sendiri..

Tak perlu tunggu badan sebesar cam ice dulu utk lakukan cara mcm ni. It could be applied to your situation whether you think your face is plain sbb tak reti makeup ke..or you rasa rendah diri sebab tak pandai berfesyen cam orang lain ke....Or you feel you don't have the budget to look as nice as other people. Or you feel you're generally plain..and takde yg speciallnya. Of course you can change, trust me..you can..if you put your head and your heart to it, it'll happen.

Don't forget to find satu pembakar semangat. Be it a picture of your favourite model, a dream wedding, a picture of stylish clothes or anything. Mine was buku Jemima J by Jane Green. Tentang seorang perempuan gemuk yg menjadi kurus. Light reading. But itulah pembakar semangat sayer . Setiap hari semasa first-first nak berubah, me baca buku ni..tersenyum, tergelak, ternangihh...hihihihi.. Sedar tak sedar sayer pun berubah gaks..

Kepada yg teringin nak make a change..congratulations, you're on the way. Kepada yg dah change pun congratulations gak and share with them how you got there.

Just remember not to look down on other people. Me nampak dalam forum ni terlalu banyak labelling and mengutuk fizikal orang..i mean kutuk yg kaw-kaw punyer..But i guess ia tak berlaku sangat dalam BFT kan? If it does, let me know n i'll bash their head for you . You definitely don't deserve all that. You are special and unique. You do not need to meet any expectation or standard, other than the ones you set. You are beautiful, in any way u define/interpret what beauty is all about. You have the inner strength..cuma sometimes you forgot to use it

To rinn: MNG punya latest collection warnanya agak dull..but beg yg macam bakul, with a black ribbon tied around it looks gorgeous.

[Woii ngantuk dah ker? Baru cakap sket dah nguap... ]

Taaaa...

sany48

2. jaga kulit - nak even kan skin tone & buang jeragat yg hinggap masa peknen (hubby dah nampak difference)
  ...

Ade untuk lelaki tak ubat tuh? ke untuk orang beranak je...?

Originally posted by mrs_livingstone at 18-2-2006 05:57 PM
bintang-...a ah ye lah tuuu:lol and apa maksud oppa tu?sayang ehhh?

dami-t pasal la dami leh pakai baju ape aje dami kan cumei!!!dan good luck on make ver.nanti citer perkembangan ekkkk

reynn ...

Oppa..maksudnyer..abang untuk kekasih laa..lebih kurang laa panggilan sayang.

Originally posted by Bintangku at 19-2-2006 11:36 AM



Oppa..maksudnyer..abang untuk kekasih laa..lebih kurang laa panggilan sayang.

sorry nak tambah balik..oppa untuk kekasih dan yang lebih tua..yang rapat..

KarmilaBalqis

Definately 100% agree dgn Ice (eventhough tak kenal). Percayalah.....in each and everyone of us there ia a 'beautiful' asset. A very beautiful asset that we have to find out. Once it is found, the beauty will be ours forever. Hehehe.

Frankly speaking, ramai org puji akak cantik. I look calm and I do have a lovely smile. That's what people have been telling. But at the same time, ramai juga yg kata badan akak tak equally proportioned. Mcm buah pear. Bontot lebar sgt. You feel sad kan? Tp itu la hakikat yg kita kena terima, we cannot be 100% perfect. HOWEVER, jgn le pula kita biarkan camtu aje kekurangan yg ada dlm diri kita. At least kena la berusaha dan gunakan kelebihan yg kita ada dalam masa kita berusaha utk mengatasi kekurangan tu.

4 tahun akak berusaha utk kuruskan badan. Mungkin usaha tu tak cukup...on off mcm tu, so, takde la nampak improvement sgt. But over the time...I still do receive the compliments for my 'strengths'. That boost my self esteem a bit.  

Kekadang org kata nmpk kurus dah....tak sampai 5 minit lps tu, jumpa pula org lain...dia kata eh...dah berisi yer sekrg. Habis tu camno? I'm still trying....at least ada baju yg dah boleh dipakai.

p/s Lepas kena kata2 laser dr sorang penjual baju dulu, akak jd bersemngat balik. Ingat lg kata2 dia....
"DAH CAKAP DAH.....BADAN MCM NI MEMANG SAIZ XL" Aduhhh....pedihhhhh...pedihhhh sedangkan pagi tu punya la happy sebb boleh pakai blouse lama. Sekali kena pula tembakan laser dr akak tu just because I asked for L size.