Kalau macam tu, bagaimana saya nak pikat org bujang?

gadabout

In my previous topic...saya ada kata sya bosan topik yang bersangkut paut dengan suami org ni...walaupun saya cintakan suami orang ni kali ni saya nak mintak kakak2 dan abang2...bagaimana hendak saya tawan hati lelaki bujang....

Betul soal jodoh tu ditangan Tuhan ....tapi my opinion , jodoh itu boleh juga di rancang...

Bagaimana saya nak menarik perhatian lelaki ? dari gaya bercakap? rupa paras? tindak tanduk? tempat bagaimana harus saya pergi....saya mahukan lelaki yang educated, flexible dalam segala hal...soal harta ..secondary sama sama boleh cari duit ..

Lilia

Hendak seribu daya..... byk lelaki bujang tp xbest arrr....

faraway

Originally posted by gadabout at 9-4-2007 08:09 AM
In my previous topic...saya ada kata sya bosan topik yang bersangkut paut dengan suami org ni...walaupun saya cintakan suami orang ni kali ni saya nak mintak kakak2 dan abang2...bagaimana hendak  ...

jadi aje diri sendiri.. ini paling penting....
kat mana nak jumpa tu, susahlah nak sebut..
kalau takdir nak jumpa bujang, kat pasar malam pun boleh...

best apa jumpa bujang.. belum jadi bekas ppuan lain...

DianaA

macam mana nak pikat lelaki bujang eh?

soalan ini pernah my cousin tujukan kepada D... Pertama, berdoalah supaya mendapat pasangan yang baik untuk diri kita, keluarga dan agama.  Ini kira usaha dari kita sendiri.  

Ada perempuan memang susah nak kenal lelaki macam D dulu jarang suka senyum kat orang lelaki kalau jalan menonong until my cik abang usha.

Soal kita sebagai perempuan nak PIKAT, D tak pernah fikir pasal bab nak pikat lelaki.  Advice yang berguna dari my mum biarlah lelaki itu sayang kita lebih dari kita sayang mereka.  In another words biar lelaki pikat kita and never the other way around.  InsyaAllah kalau ada jodoh ia berpanjangan.  

DocYana

nak pikat lelaki bujang senang je...

nak cari lelaki bujang yang berkaliber, bermutu dan berkualiti tinggi je masalahnya...........

DianaA

Originally posted by DocYana at 9-4-2007 10:38 PM
nak pikat lelaki bujang senang je...

nak cari lelaki bujang yang berkaliber, bermutu dan berkualiti tinggi je masalahnya...........

ayat DocYana macam ayat dari my kazen... nak cari yang berkaliber, bermutu dan berkualiti tinggi...

ntahlah kalau difikirkan bila kita bina mahligai susah senang mesti bersama tak dinafikan kita mahukan yang terbaik... tapi it will be a sweet success if the couple back up one another and move forward in life... normally couple yang dah dapat rasa susah senang bersama hubungan akan lebih intim and they will then to appreciate one another....

life isnt a bed of roses...

nashra

Originally posted by Lilia at 9-4-2007 10:12 PM
Hendak seribu daya..... byk lelaki bujang tp xbest arrr....

aku punya husband best jek lilia...

bak kata docyana, "lelaki bujang yang berkaliber, bermutu dan berkualiti tinggi"

nashra

Originally posted by DianaA at 9-4-2007 10:42 PM


ayat DocYana macam ayat dari my kazen... nak cari yang berkaliber, bermutu dan berkualiti tinggi...

ntahlah kalau difikirkan bila kita bina mahligai susah senang mesti bersama tak dinafika ...

agree..

MamaIlya

Originally posted by Lilia at 9-4-2007 10:12 PM
Hendak seribu daya..... byk lelaki bujang tp xbest arrr....

Agaknya u selalu jumpa or mix around lelaki bujang yg x best...or maybeur taste yg sukakan suami org kot... My hubby okayyyy jer... best, and berkaliber enuff to be a good husband...

DocYana

lain org, lain definasi 'berkaliber, bermutu dan berkualiti tinggi' tu...hehe...

mine pun OK jugak.....org lain mungkin pandang dia as reject tapi he is perfect to me....

MamaIlya

Menjawab soklan tuan rumah pulak... entahlah... I met my hubby thru internet... but maybe dah jodoh...x sampai sebulan kenal, he wanted to meet my parents...and a few months after that kami bertunang. The best thing is, he's almost everything I want in a man. Memang x sangka jodoh sampai awal. Actually bab jodoh ni bukannya boleh plan sangat... and tak payah bersusah payah nak memikat lelaki, just be ur good self... x perlu hipokrit whatsoever... InsyaAllah ada la mana2 lelaki yg sukakan u for who u are...

sH0paHolliC

Mix around with all the single and available bachelor around you

*tp susahnya nak jumpa lelaki yang ada confidence level yg tinggi, bertanggungjawab dan berkaliber

sH0paHolliC

1. Semua orang ada jodoh atau pasangan yang menanti dan biasanya ia berada tidak jauh dari anda. Jarang orang bertemu dengan jodoh yang berada jauh darinya.

2. Jodoh itu ketentuan Allah dan kita wajib berusaha. Doa, usaha yang betul dan bersungguh-sungguh disertai dengan tawakkal, insyallah akan menemukan anda dengan pasangan anda.

3. Ramai orang masih belum bertemu jodoh kerana mudah patah semangat. Teruskan usaha sehingga anda bertemu jodoh.

4. Seimbangkan hidup anda dengan sempurna agar diri anda jadi seperti 搈agnet

Nisda_

Yang penting jangan terlalu memilih, first impression is not always right.
Since you dah pernah berkawan dgn suami orang, orang bujang cara layanan tak se-romantik suami orang (apa yg kwn i ckp) so jgn lah compare. Kalau nak ikut sangat your wish list, rasanya orang mcm ni dah byk berpunya, jgn memilih sangat, yang penting baik and setia.

Cuba cari kat website...

[ Last edited by  Nisda_ at 9-4-2007 11:14 PM ]

sH0paHolliC

31. Orang mudah tertawan kepada bakal pasangan yang mempunyai persamaan daripada berbagai segi seperti kefahaman politik, aktiviti keagamaan, sikap terhadap harta, wang dan hobi.

32. Dua orang yang amat banyak perbezaan boleh serasi antara satu sama lain jika mempunyai satu atau dua persamaan yang mendalam seperti suka kepada kucing, suka melancong atau suka ramai anak.

33. Tindakan yang serentak akan menarik bakal pasangan terhadap anda. Contohnya, serentak berpaling, serentak angkat gelas, serentak berdiri, serentak nak ke tandas.

34. Tawan hati bakal pasangan dengan pamerkan emosi yang sama terhadap sesuatu kejadian atau peristiwa

DocYana

tapi.....kadang2 Yana terfikir....untuk berjumpa dgn pasangan kita tu....macam menang lottery pulak. Maksud Yana dari segi kebarangkaliannya.....maybe untuk org yang cantik and tak putus dgn org yang menagih cinta, maybe it's not much of a problem kot...

I mean, ada 6 billion manusia di bumi Allah nie....and satu ditakdirkan jadi jodoh kita......how lucky are we, (yg dah jumpa your life partner / soul mate etc) to have found that one person?

sorry ye off topic tuan rumah....jgn marahhhh....

DocYana

Agree dgn Nisda....

sometimes, dlm bab cari life partner nie....kita kena lower standard sikit....and by that, bukan Yana maksudkan terima sembarangan org...tapi, prioritise your criterias.

for example, pada Yana, kriteria yg mesti ada -
mesti ada ambition/keinginan memajukan diri sendiri
family oriented
pandai bergaul - mesti ada ramai kawan tapi bukan jenis yang terlalu mudah bergaul with the opposite sex
open minded
well read - or at least amik tahu jugak la perkembangan semasa and bukan tahap pandai hal2 remeh macam gosip artis ke apa...

yang lain2 like - rupa paras, duit, status family, romantik ke tak - tu yana letak belakang2.....

and alhamdulillah, walaupun lewat jugak, i finally met my Mr Right. dia pernah kata dulu before he met me, dia minat satu p'puan nie (aaargh, sampai sekrg tak leh terima yg dia pernah minat perempuan lain selain Yana....waa....hehe) tapi that girl tak respond sebab dia not good looking enough. Hey, your loss, woman......

tapi, pada Yana, dia menepati semua citarasa Yana and he looks fine to me.....

[ Last edited by  DocYana at 9-4-2007 11:36 PM ]

nashra

agree..

i tak pandang pada rupa..

tapi sebab dia ada banyak kriteria melebihi paras rupa org handsome tu ler i terpikat..

fish_o7

ok laaa ...violet_silk since u nk pikat lelaki bujang .... aku pon rerajin la menulis disini .....

i never met u so i don't know what kind a person u are .... so rite here i gonna a bit direct ....

no.1 law of attraction .... in order to be seduce, u urself must be seducetive .....

here one emphasize physical attraction .... in order too lure attraction urself must be attractive ... not that i recommend u to be sexy but i wan u to be .... more ...stand out  ....try to highlight ur qualities .... don't blend in the crowd so much

like if u have a beautiful eyes use that as ur weapon ... highlight it more ...make more noticeable
if u have beautiful lips choosing the right lip gloss that matches the shape of ur lips and the color of skin .... of course women have breast comes in many shapes and sizes .... if u don't have a big bust ...maybe getting a push bra might help....u have a great figure than maybe getting the right outfit will be more beneficial .....remember do not be dull .....do not be boring ....that's the last thing u wanna do ....always try something new especially with ur clothing and hair.....because this aspect usually gets the most attention..... ok get my drift ..."remember highlight ur best qualities...never be dull"

personality .... first always keep ur chin up ....and walk with confidence... people with low self esteem are tend to be ignore ... well .... always be cool and always be friendly .... always smile... if come to the office in the morning saying "good morning" to ur colleague might be the best to start  attract attention at least u be known as friendly girl .... always walk with confident .... always put in ur head this motto "I'm beautiful and sexy....damn rite" even though it seems ridiculous trust me it works... it can boost ur self-esteem ...it takes time ...but hey ur still young ... "remember chin up ..shoulders down and walk with confidence"..

don't play be "easy-to-get"....trust me guys will loose respect for girls like this in their eyes girls like this doesn't worth anything ... play"hard-to-get" ....but don't over do it .... remember this don't be too easy don't be too hard .... do it in moderation ok .....

make ur self noticeable .... if u don't have anything to do just walk around .... and apply whatever i wrote above okay .... remember ...the most important thing is that u are comfortable, confident and be urself .....don't forget to show ur feminin side as well

to me ... just praying and waiting won't do girl ..... u must be ... practical and aggressive.... remember this ...if god don't give it to u then u have get it urself ....

by the way ... i don't like girls ... that do nothing and waiting for some guys to come along and take them of their feet..... nowadays forget those stupid saying ... baldi mencari telaga... that doesn't cut it anymore .... this is the era where women to step up and prove their worth .....


p.s: try all those i wrote and good luck in ur man-hunt ...hehe

[ Last edited by  fish_o7 at 10-4-2007 02:40 AM ]

jijan

why not u try matrimonial nye website tu......yg muslim mende tah.......kat situ macam2 ada bujang, bujang telajak, duda.......

ada yg di mesia, malaysian dok oversea pun ada.......

duda pun not bad gak esp duda yg kematian isteri.......u try lah xcuba xtau dah jumpa br tau......