P.U.L. (Pure Unconditional Love)

Agul

P.U.L.

[ Last edited by  Agul at 4-8-2007 06:02 PM ]

seribulan

Do explain.

Agul

Pure Unconditional Love!

  Hard to explain. It's always that matters of the heart is very hard to articulate into words. And it's not some silly puke inducing love poem too. It's starlights more than that. I'll try my best.

  People always confuse love with lust, possessiveness, dependencies or fear. Their love is always conditional. This is fake love.

  if牋x;
  then牋y;

  For example, if you do the dishes, I will love you. If you gives me presents, I'll love you. etc, etc... The love depends on the fulfilment of certain condition first.

  For P.U.L.,
  Regardless of anything, I still loves you. What you do, how you are doesn't matter at all.

  You don't ask for anything in return.
  You don't ask for any sort of recognition.

  However by practising this (yes, it needs practice) you will get certain surprises...

dutchy

Interesting take on the word love here Agul, while there is some truth in ur postings, PUL is hard to come by, when we talked abt love, it is such a broad spectrum, it does not always means thats its an attraction between man and woman~

When matters of the heart is concern I do agree that it is hard to describe it, as it comes in a myriad of feelings...

My take on PUL, is the love of a parent to a child, and yet there is such a thing as conditional love

[ Last edited by  dutchy at 25-3-2007 10:09 PM ]

Agul

Originally posted by dutchy at 25-3-2007 10:07 PM
Interesting take on the word love here Agul, while there is some truth in ur postings, PUL is hard to come by, when we talked abt love, it is such a broad spectrum, it does not always means thats ...

Parent to a child tu salah satu bentuk Unconditional Love.

Tapi yang paling susah macam mana supaya kita boleh P.U.L. orang2 lain yang tak berkenaaan dgn kita atau pun dgn org2 yang tak berapa baik dgn kita.

Kalau dah boleh sampai tahap tu memang hebat lah.

yellow belmont

Originally posted by Agul at 28-3-2007 12:21 AM


Parent to a child tu salah satu bentuk Unconditional Love.

Tapi yang paling susah macam mana supaya kita boleh P.U.L. orang2 lain yang tak berkenaaan dgn kita atau pun dgn org2 yang tak be ...

blh wujud ker P.U.L ni? .. menyintai & terus menyintai tak kira apa pun .. mcm tak yakin jer aku .. sbb dah mmg lumrah alam .. if x then y ..

maybe kita masih blh terima if a pun still love .. if b pun still love .. tak c pun still love .. kalu dah sampai j k atau l amacam? .. coz everyone has their own limit rite? ..  

even parents pun rasanya some blh hilang P.U.L dia kalu anak dia dah tahap melampau sgt kan ..

Agul

Originally posted by yellow belmont at 28-3-2007 11:02 AM


blh wujud ker P.U.L ni? .. menyintai & terus menyintai tak kira apa pun .. mcm tak yakin jer aku .. sbb dah mmg lumrah alam .. if x then y ..

maybe kita masih blh terima if a pun sti ...

Secara semulajadinya, kemungkinannya memeang tiada atau tipis sangat.

Nak wujudkan perasaan ni kena ada latihan yang khas.燬eseorang爐u爇ena爌andai爐imbulkan爌erasaan爊i燿alam爅iwa.

yellow belmont

Originally posted by Agul at 28-3-2007 09:20 PM


Secara semulajadinya, kemungkinannya memeang tiada atau tipis sangat.

Nak wujudkan perasaan ni kena ada latihan yang khas. Seseorang tu kena pandai timbulkan perasaan ni dalam jiwa.

...

b4 i was inspired by this P.U.L thing .. but now im not so sure anymore ..

Agul

Why? When this change of hearts happens?

ajinomotonosuga

Originally posted by Agul at 25-3-2007 11:06 AM
Pure Unconditional Love!

  Hard to explain. It's always that matters of the heart is very hard to articulate into words. And it's not some silly puke inducing love poem too. It's starlights mo ...

white is also type of color, so it is conditional tu laaaa

what is love?

love is nothing.

anyone here can try,  as hard as u can to negate anything..refuse to accept anything..push out anything that comes to mind..try laah

what left , that is love lah.. the feeling ensued is what call the 'blissful' feeling.. one cannot put 'any words' to it.

now the problem is, how do we(human) live for EVERY SECOND in such a way, that is JIHAD lah kalo islam but there could be a paradox too

love is when exterior and interior itu sama. so yang mendasari cinta ialah ke ikhlasan or sincerity, without this basic there could be no loving feeling.

never put down any love poem lah.. everybody is trying hard in their own ways to express love.

NOTHING or TIDAK ADA is a big word , in understanding love. One must negate everything even oneself, only left is LOVE.

Agul

Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 1-4-2007 12:26 PM



white is also type of color, so it is conditional tu laaaa

what is love?

love is nothing.

anyone here can try,牋as hard as u can to negate anything..refuse to accept anything. ...

white is also type of color, so it is conditional tu laaaa

er... sori la... tak faham. Kenapa pula dgn white? Apa salah white?
Some people say爐hat love is everything, you say love is nothing. The state you explain is probably called 'absolute zero' in NLP world. Blissfull nothingness,爓ithout爏ensation

yellow belmont

Originally posted by Agul at 1-4-2007 10:46 AM
Why? When this change of hearts happens?

no komen ..

generasi2

you're my mastermind..

Agul

Originally posted by yellow belmont at 4-4-2007 01:36 AM


no komen ..

Matter of the hearts?

Let's blast people with love, hehehe...:love:

Agul

Originally posted by generasi2 at 4-4-2007 11:55 AM
you're my mastermind..

I don't't understand.

Care to explain?

yellow belmont

Originally posted by Agul at 4-4-2007 09:40 PM


Matter of the hearts?

Let's blast people with love, hehehe...:love:

actually what does blast mean? .. i can see ur siggy u spell it as B.L.A.S.T ..

dutchy

Originally posted by Agul at 28-3-2007 12:21 AM


Parent to a child tu salah satu bentuk Unconditional Love.

Tapi yang paling susah macam mana supaya kita boleh P.U.L. orang2 lain yang tak berkenaaan dgn kita atau pun dgn org2 yang tak be ...

but is it? is there such a thing as Unconditional love? There are always expectation in love

isn't there? Ur question tuh susah for me to answer as I myself, do not believe that it exist~~

I do believe that God Almightly love us PUL

Agul

Originally posted by yellow belmont at 4-4-2007 09:44 PM


actually what does blast mean? .. i can see ur siggy u spell it as B.L.A.S.T ..

Err... If I tell you people, I might sound爏trange,爌oyo爋r爓hat爊ot...爃ehehe...

It's related to HUNA.

Agul

Originally posted by  dutchy at 4-4-2007 10:41 PM

but is it? is there such a thing as Unconditional love? There are always expectation in love

isn't there? Ur question tuh susah for me to answer as I myself, do not believe that it exist~~
   ...

God's love is the purest love, without doubt.  

We human can try the best we can...

yellow belmont

Originally posted by Agul at 5-4-2007 12:22 AM


Err... If I tell you people, I might sound strange, poyo or what not... hehehe...

It's related to HUNA.

try me .. so far u might be kinda strange .. but not to the extent of a freak .. poyo watsoever .. hehe so dont worry ..

now what is this HUNA? .. Hawaiian term? ..