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kamar22

Sunyi.

Makin lama hati aku rasa....tak de rasa. Entah apa rasa.
Hari2 berlalu cam tu jer....masa ada, ada laahh... Msa tak de, macam biasa je...bole idup lg aku ni..
Cuma, aku tak mo laguni smpai bila2...aku nak berubah ke suatu yg aku harapkn bole buat aku lg happy.
Bila? Entah...bkn aku yg tentukan... Semuanya hnya Allah yg tentukan...

beldandy

Syukur alhamdulillah semuanya berjalan dgn baik. Sgt seronok dpt berkumpul ramai adik badik...paling best bila booth chocolate fountain ai laku...licin semua barang. Lai lai...sapa mo sewa ekekeke...

esyuefeei

Alhamdulillah. Syukur sgt2. Status aku sbg isteri seorg kakitgn kerajaan melayakkan aku mndpt pembiayaan rawatan penyakit aku yg brjumlah RM117K. Dgn KWSP aku yg lyk dikeluarkn mmg tak cukup. Sebelum ini aku dan suami dah brkira2 nak mnjual tanah kami. Nampaknya tak perlu dijual. Semoga dgn rawatan ini, dgn izin Allah, penyakitku akn sembuh. Aamiin

FlowerGirl

biar la org nk kata apa pun..hakikat hidup aku..aku je tahu x kisah pun..Alhamdulillah frasa meroyan dh abis kut..eh meroyan ke?sket la..more to luahan rasa.dh lbh 40 hari ni..x rasa apa pun dah..syukur sgt..

obelisk

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kamar22

Bawa daku pergi....jauh dari realiti...tp aku di tinggalkn juga..
Pujuk diri...semuanya hanya sementara...semuanya hnya pinjaman...dia dipinjamkn kpd ku...dan aku pinjamkn dia utk makhluk asing itu... Apa yg kekal utk aku? Tiada...aku tetap hamba Allah.

ana_una

member baru beli ducati panigale.. nak jugak...
cemana nak buang jauh2 bayangan tu...

obelisk

kaum isteri semua please take note yer....

11 Reasons Men Leave Their Marriages
The Huffington Post  | By Brittany Wong



Marriages don't just fall apart overnight. They often end after months and years of both spouses trying to stick it out, firm in the belief that they can work out their issues and sustain their marriages.

Once it's over, though, most divorcés can look back and pinpoint one exact moment -- one overblown argument or one instance where their spouse showed his or her true colors -- that should have signaled to them that the marriage was damaged beyond repair.

On Tuesday, divorced men on Reddit shared the moment they realized their relationship didn't stand a chance. See some of the most interesting responses below.

1. When he got tired of her outbursts.
"I had a car accident. Lost my job. I was still depressed about family member passing away. My wife decides she really wants a gold watch that costs $999. I tell her I can't afford to spend money on something like that in our current situation. She shuts herself in the bathroom to cry. That was the first time I didn't react to that tactics. She comes out few hours later and asks me outright if I want a divorce. That wasn't even on my mind until that point, but that was the moment I knew."

2. When the trust was gone.
"It was when I caught myself photographing street signs on my 25-minute journey home from work so that there would be a timestamp of the entire route to disprove constant accusations that I was cheating on her... After that, I just left."

3. When his wife became a glorified roommate.
"The last year together we felt more like roommates than lovers. She stopped being interested in spending time with me, we stopped showering together and began sleeping at opposite times. She was generally unhappy all of the time. I really wanted to salvage the marriage, but I knew it was over when she finally told me that she just didn't love me."

4. When the math didn't add up.
"Came home from a seven-month deployment overseas to find a five-month pregnant wife. I'm no mathematician but I figured that one out."

5. When he was suffering from depression and she laughed it off.
"I was telling her about how depressed and hopeless I was feeling. I described it partially as an existential crisis. She laughed at me. She literally laughed in my face regarding my pain. That was the day I realized I didn't really matter to her."

6. When he realized she didn't believe in his dreams.
"Five years ago, I told her I wanted to get out of the military and study to become a doctor. She's a scientist but she acted like it was the most ridiculous thing I could ever try to do. Her exact words were, 'You can't just decide to be a doctor.' Imagine researching and thinking about something for an entire year and then telling your best friend your hopes and dreams and they just look at you like you're silly ... I started med school four weeks ago. I'm not bitter but she's going to be really f*cking surprised if she ever decides to do some Google stalking."

7. When he disagreed with her on how they'd raise their future children.
"When my wife stated that any children we had would be homeschooled by her (she never graduated high school) and weren't going to get vaccinations. This was non-negotiable. I was young at the time and honestly, it never occurred to me until we had that discussion how much it meant to me. I (naively) figured it was a given."

8. When he became indifferent to the cheating.
"The precise moment was a few months ago when her long and frequent infidelities stopped making me furious. The anger switched off and I realized, it's finally over, thank God. I can now plan the end of this toxic marriage."

9. When he decided to put his daughter first.
"My second wife and I got along great, but over time the relationship she had with my daughter from a previous marriage got worse and worse. I tried not to blame her; she just wasn't ready to be a mom to someone else's child. It was hard to accept that, though. We tried counseling briefly but she felt counseling was for 'crazy people and she [wasn't] crazy.' Eventually, my daughter and I left. I hoped she would change her mind and decide to work things out with us, but it didn't happen. I had to do what was right for my daughter even if it hurt."

10. When he realized that having hobbies of his own was off-limits.
"My ex and I were watching 'Knocked Up.' It came to the scene where the wife is tracking the husband down to catch him while he was 'cheating.' Turns out, he had just snuck off to go to a baseball draft. My ex turned to me and said, 'See how terrible and selfish he is for sneaking around like that?' I looked at her and said, 'See how terrible she is for oppressing his hobbies and dreams so much that he has to resort to sneaking around in order to enjoy them?' I realized right then that she'd done that to me. She had oppressed me, chained me with guilt over my hobbies being immature and childish. She guilt-tripped me because my hobbies took time away from her. Meanwhile, she would never take up any hobbies or interests of her own despite me encouraging her."

11. When he had the commute from hell and she didn't care.
"I had to work late one dark winter night, missed my regular train, took a loooong bus and had to walk home a couple of miles from the bus stop in the freezing cold. She couldn't be bothered to come pick me up because she didn't want to leave her yoga class early. It had been 20 years of bad stuff, but that was the night I decided it was over. She realized what she had done later, but it was too late then."

source: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/20 ... bklnkushpmg00000063

lis_miranda

suara ku makin serak,..batuk tak henti-henti,tekak perit..tidur malam tak lena..tak mengapa..dugaan sakit kali ni

lis_miranda

Buat dia yang satu ketika dulu pernah singgah dihati biarpun cuma sebabak mimpi(lagu yang kau tujukan padaku (Sekuntum Cinta-Wheel) sebelum kau berlalu pergi dariku)..selamat menyambut hari ATM untukmu..

kadang-kadang teringat ketika kita jadi teman baik dulu,tapi persahabatan itu runtuh atas kesilapan kita.Apapun moga kau bahagia di samping orang yang kau sayang...Kenangan indah itu tetap ku ingat sampai bila-bila..
Kini...aku cuma hanya mampu memandangmu dari jauh..

beldandy

tak payah la nak obses sgt duk baca sbb2 suami bodoh tinggalkn bini dia tu
kita org islam lain
pastu lg satu nk bagitau...dalam islam bukan tugas bini je nk kekalkn perkahwinan...
tugas suami..kewajipan suami sgt byk sebenarnya dan skang ni ramai yg duk harap bini2 yg jalankn tanggungjawab bg pihak mereka...
MCP sungguh la hang ni...
gi balik ngaji byk2 lg dgn ostad n ostazah
dan aku harap ko tak kawin lagi....

obelisk

relaks... kita layan aksi kucing dulu...


25 Unlucky Cats Whose Curiosity Has Gotten Them Completely Stuck

All cat owners know that kitties have no problem getting themselves into tight spots, but it seems that not all of them are so great at getting out.

1. "I just wanted to make you a mix-CD."


2. "If you just gave me purified water instead of that crap from the tap, I wouldn't be in this mess."


3. "Less laughing, more helping."


4. "The hamster has deceived me."


5. "Please get me down before the squirrel sees me."


6. "I should have learned from Mr. Muffin's mistakes."


7. "Well, this is a different way of looking at things."


8. "I have seen the light, and it is much less comfortable than I thought it would be."


9. "I've made a huge mistake."


10. "Please don't tell anyone."


11. "It was the greatest squiggly string ever, until it wasn't anymore."


12. "If I'm going to be stuck here for the rest of my life, I may as well take a nap."


13. "Caught in the coils of injustice yet again."


14. "This is what happens when you feed yourself before you feed me."


15. "This is the worst climbing course ever."


16. "After seeing how much effort it takes you to get the chips out of this can, I know I'm going to be in here forever."


17. "Yes, now I understand why I'm not allowed on the furniture."


18. "What is this, a cat door for ants?"


19. "You didn't leave any on the roll for me to destroy, so I had to find my own."


20. "If I fits, I ships."


21. "I swear this thing has shrunk in the past two years."


22. "This chair is not as comfortable as you make it out to be."


23. "Shut up and pull, human."


24. "Don't worry about me, I'm just practicing my sick dance moves."


25. Hopefully, all these curious kitties were able to move on from their briefly traumatizing ordeals!

Eura

Minggu ni...dah 3 minggu...

Takpe...tunggu lagi smpai ujung bulan ni tengok...apa nk jadi seterusnya...

Stress!!

cemp

ahad lepas gi kenduri kat felda sg.tengi..mak ai meletop umah2 org felda ye..jeles okeh umah kita pon tak secantik depa..siap dapat bekalan ikan keli..beso2..puas makan iwak leleh..semalam masak berlado..pastu adek aku wat bakar plak..mak ai rase muak plak..tp memang puas hati la..ni bulan 12 ni jagung taiwan umah bibik aku nk masak harus pergi ni..bibik tu bukan maid ye tp makcik haha..
aku ingat lagi paman aku ni kawen ngan org pahang..dia terkejut bila kami panggil bibik..sebab dia ingat bibik maid tu haha..bila di explain baru taw..paman pon lain kali bagitaw la dulu..

sibuk anak tak tumbuh gigi lg kan sekali malam td aku check ha ko da tumbuh 1 belah bawah..patutla bila menyusu aku rase cam tajam2..alamak rase seram pulak huhu..syukur anak aku da 11 bulan..tak sabo nak tunggu setahun..konon2 nak celebrate setahun tp cik abe ckp kita wat 3beranak jela bukan dia taw apa pon..2thn baru wat beso sikit sebab dia da paham..ikotla memana huhu..

MsAzr

perkahwinan takkan hancur overnite.. pasti ade sebab kecil kecil yg tak puas hati . harus lah sentiasa berkomunikasi supaya retak tak menanti belah. kalau ketidakpuasan hati itu diluahkan kepada pihak lain yang berlainan jantinamakincepatlah terjafinya retakan belahan itu.

beldandy

Yeahhhh lg bagus layan kucing :lol

kamar22

Sunyi.


Bau haruman lavender ni mmg buatkn aku rasa relax...nyaman... Ohh..tenang aja..

MamaMima711

adusss..serba salah aku mlm ni...semlm si Y ikut aku dn anak gi klcc..br je smpai dlm kul 6..abg dia dh call maki2 suruh balik.aku serah pd dia nk balik atau tak.dia kata x nak..pastu dia tido umah kwn.ari ni dia jumpa aku lg smpai mlm..dia mmg x nak balik rumah.dia tahu dia akan kena belasah dgn abg kalau balik.
x lama..mak dan abg dia call aku bertalu2 tanya mana y..y x bg aku jawab.aku dh serba salah..aku faham mak dia risau tp aku benci cara abg dia yg main ugut2 belasah smpai mati bagai..lg lah budak tu x nak balik!cm apa je..
skang aku dh serba salah..aku kesian dgn Y tp aku x nak masuk cmpur hal famili dorang.

cmf_blingblings

Jom pi jenguk ladang lavender kat Cameron

ana_una

please la lelaki... macam bagus sangat...