wife low libido macamana nak buat

fly1109

juita posted on 22-2-2013 03:25 PM
maksud me bukan self esteem pergaulan tapi bila bersama pasangan...........sama gak ader org sembang ...

why did I not think of that..... anyway, now that you have brought it up, I think it was the contrary. DW was really pissed with me recently, and i think she had yet to fully see me in a more favorable light.

For about 18 months prior to this, we were in suspicious husband-wife relationship, especially me of DW. DW had built this close friendship with a group of her old school mates, mixture of guys and gals. They went from 30 years not seeing each other to a very close just-waiting-for-excuse-to-gather. Sampai balik rumah pun dok terkekek-kekek ketawa kat pc. And I was not particularly keen of this one character; sweet talker, cool calm character, very successful multi millionaire. Dia ni semua kawan perempuan dia panggil "sayang" and "sweetie". I told DW, I do not like his flirting with DW and friends, what he does to other people's wife I cannot do much, but I dont want him to do the same to DW. Aku ingat DW faham dan try to stay away from this guy, tadak pasai, lagi galak dok ber fb bagai. That was what I could spy on and found out, memang la in group, what I dont know......

So I became a spy leman, rummaging thru' her phone and all. Sangat lah DW tak berkenan of my tingkah laku..... begitulah adanya. mungkin sekarang DW is still bengkak dgn aku. Like I was restricting her keeping friends. But I stand my ground that it was necessary on my part to not allow such flirtatous behaviour to go on, or I'd be dayus. Dgn guys yang lain aku ok je pun, dgn mamat ni yang aku tak boleh terima. awat tatau.....

juita

tu la pasai! dia ada tak puas ati lg kottt!...kene bli baja bunga nih! nk bg hati kembali mekarrr.....erkkkkk...da tahap umur camtu ader jeles lagik ker? anak da rumaja ade jeles lagi ek?...mamat tuh takkan tak kawen lagik kotttt!!!

fly1109

juita posted on 22-2-2013 03:56 PM
tu la pasai! dia ada tak puas ati lg kottt!...kene bli baja bunga nih! nk bg hati kembali mekarrr... ...

sorry, back to topic of the thread

...foot rub, back massage, even trimming of certain anatomic area pun I buat la Juita, tadak hal. We do get intimate during these session. Cuma ego DW ni agak tinggi kut, she'd never go back on her own words.  DW specifically cakap, "I tak minat" in fact dari lama dulu pun dia cakap macam tu.

If only there is a button somewhere that I can flick and change the mood...."bling!!!!!! ....aaah lights"

fly1109

juita posted on 22-2-2013 03:56 PM
tu la pasai! dia ada tak puas ati lg kottt!...kene bli baja bunga nih! nk bg hati kembali mekarrr... ...

maunya tak jeles..... biar tua pun, bicara tentang hati....masih macam orang muda mah

mamat tu pun dah kahwin dah dah nak masuk 47 sebaya DW, memang gatal by nature kut, born with it

DW blocked aku dari FB dia, yang mamat tu dia allow pulak, chet!!!! DW pulak suka dok post-post gambar glamour dia kat kenduri sana-sini, yang haku ni, dok terkulat-kulat tak tau cerita, si mamat tu baik punya dok mengayat....grrrr!!!!!! pak cik ko ni over react la kut? eeesssssyyyy!!!!!

fly1109

juita posted on 22-2-2013 03:25 PM
maksud me bukan self esteem pergaulan tapi bila bersama pasangan...........sama gak ader org sembang ...

double posting la pulak

belita

fly1109 posted on 22-2-2013 09:32 AM
point taken..... dalam hati kena ada taman, biar dibaja dan disiram sampai berbunga-bunga.

Nak  ...

i ni umur tak sampai lagi umur u so rasa mcm tak layak nak bagi pendapat...

tapi bagi i....., i lagi appreciate hubby i nyer compliment dari org2 luar nyer compliment.

tapi malang nya kaum suami ni mcm kedekut sikit nak puji2 isteri sendiri.....

tapi bila orang luar sweet talk kat si isteri, si suami tahu lak tak suka...... rasa tergugat bagai....

juita

huhuhuh...cam electrical appliances plak yek tekan je on,pastu tekan je off.....huhuhuu leh gak apply tapi kene tau le button mana nak tekan!

cmf_blingblings

fly1109 posted on 21-2-2013 11:35 AM
juita, that affection part no problem, anak-anak remaja kami "jengkil" je bila kami dok gurau send ...

Harap-harap aku ni tak adalah tergolong dlm species yg boleh buat somi buka thread ke buka sembang masalah gini kat luar. Macam mana nak cakap ahh, selalunya dlm age ni kita dah tak banyak masalah remeh dah, anak dah besar, fikiran dah tenang. Kdg2 Somi tak ke arah gitu sgt tapi more tu sentuhan manja-manja gitu, nak dilayan lebih dr zaman dulu sbb dulu kita sibuk dgn kije, anak kecil so somi selalunya memahami. Sambil tengok TV nak landing atas riba, nak minta urut badan, kalau kita offer nak kemaskan kuku ke, cuci muka ke..melompat suka. Tak tahulah, mungkin dia berubah muda balik kot. Keluar shopping berdua suka peluk2 pinggang, bahu, adehh, sejujurnya saya bukan jenis romantika di depan org. Geli ahh tapi nak buat mcm manakan? tahan ajalah.

kalau part yg atas katil tu sejujurnya ada kurang dari masa muda dulu, hormon dah makin kurang kot tapi kalau ada demand tetaplah ada penawaran. Pepandai dialah macam mana nak pasang heater kenn?

yayangmama

nk mencelah sket bole?
me ni keje kul 6.30 da kua, so time blk tu kul 5.30 da smpi...nk kate penat tu entah la
tapi me pon xtau ape yg buat me kurang minat...hehe
tp yg me prasan kan TT ada jamu yg bole naik kn rase keinginan tu kot...
coz me ni, slalu makan jamu...bile orang kate ok je me try...
tp ni bukan menjual ek, jauh skali me dpt royalti...hehe
bile makan umairah n jamu ratu dara insyaallah ada la keinginan tu...
xde la asik malas je...
tp ade jgk yg jamu tu xde memberikn kesan pon pd me...
so kena try n test..

redd_07

ada orang mention nama redd????

patut la asyik tersedak je dua tiga hari ni....emmm...mcm mana nak cakap eh...redd ni orang yang jauh sangat muda dari en Tuan Tanah...dengan humblenya redd cakap it's the hormone yang buat DW mcm tu...redd tak baca detail lagi this thread...tapi maybe ada this and there yang trigger the mood...arrr...DW keje ke??

redd_07

nak tambah lagi satu...bukan lah nak condemn kaum wanita...tapi kadang kadang...benda yang mcm ni akan melarat jadi besar...bila ada suami yang tak kuat iman...berlaku penglibatan orang ketiga...baru lah nak melatah...dah tu di tuduh pulak sang suami gatal...abeh cam mano tuuu....

brown_pupil

some women mmg ada masalah, especially bila lepas bersalin atau ada problem nak menapous..

hurm.. try la tanya ur wife, kot2 dia ada 'secret fantasies'...

every woman ada secret fantasy -- it's either naughty or nice jer...

fly1109

redd_07 posted on 4-3-2013 04:25 PM
ada orang mention nama redd????

patut la asyik tersedak je dua tiga hari ni....emmm...mcm mana na ...

kerja yang sangat monotonous, under great pressure, penuh dgn rasa tidak adil....

fly1109

brown_pupil posted on 5-3-2013 04:06 PM
some women mmg ada masalah, especially bila lepas bersalin atau ada problem nak menapous..

hurm.. ...

communication could be an issue here, bila nak seriously talk about our own fitrah needs....jawabnya " I dah tak ada keperluan tu lagi dah...." maka terkedu lah hamba

redd_07

fly1109 posted on 6-3-2013 08:32 AM
communication could be an issue here, bila nak seriously talk about our own fitrah needs....jawabn ...

OMG...

then encik TT kawen la lagi satu...bole ke camtu??

fly1109

redd_07 posted on 6-3-2013 08:39 AM
OMG...

then encik TT kawen la lagi satu...bole ke camtu??

hahahaha..... easier said than to actually try, let alone "do"...
hati mana yang tak terdetik, but it would only solve one-little-pecky-problem, and may create a situation that is much harder to handle....nak-nak pulak aku ni mata ceme', tak nampak orang lain dah but my DW....chenta hati gitu

redd_07

dah kalau macam tu....bersabor je la kan...
DIY is the best solutions lah...best of luck!

fly1109

redd_07 posted on 6-3-2013 08:47 AM
dah kalau macam tu....bersabor je la kan...
DIY is the best solutions lah...best of luck!

bersabar, berusaha, bertanya, cari ilmu....DIY? gayat weihhh!!!!!

redd_07

fly1109 posted on 6-3-2013 08:52 AM
bersabar, berusaha, bertanya, cari ilmu....DIY? gayat weihhh!!!!!

dah tu....nama pon chenta hati....kekekekekeke...............

kamar22

Cuba2 lah beli jamu wat hadiah kat DW tu...