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Originally posted by snid at 8-6-2007 05:10 PM
Camne boleh jumpa balik pulak?
ooo..jumpa balik after my posting kat perlis..he stays in perlis..
and u know la perlis, sekangkang kera, pusing sana, pusing sini, last2 sure leh terjumpa jugak..
again, tak ingat sgt pesal jumpa2 nie sb nothing special..lagipun, that time, i had bigger problems to think of rather than pikir pesal nak bercintan-cintun..
tup2..he helped me here and there...few mths later, he proposed to me...i did istiqarah coz i didnt know wat to do..i just pray to God kalau ni pilihan yg betul, mudahkan jln for me..kalau tak betul, help me to get out of the situation...
tau2, he wanted to meet my parents...tah apa dia citer, i didnt know..amazingly, my parents agreed of our marriage...so, i kawinlah same day as my younger sister..jimat budget dan tak perlu la buat majlis kali kedua..segan la, sb mine kali kedua, dia pun kali kedua.. |
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ku petik cerita aku balik dr thread how did your hubby proposed... dlm kotak quote ...
Jumpa hb dulu ms study tp lain die course lain.
Agaknya dah tertulis yg hb nih jodoh utk dirini agaknyer...Tak pernah terpikir nk kawen ngan die...kawan beser jer...kenal die pun sbb asalnya nk buku kalkulus ngan buku C programming second hand jer. Mmg tak dak sehabuk feeling pun ms tuh...Kalau jumper tgh jalan pun tego2 gituh jer laaa...
Ms hb bgtau die sudah ader kuch2 hota hai...apa lagik...kecut perut lar...frenship tuh pun start raser lain dah...takkkkoooot...
Agaknya waktu tuh mmg timing bagos punyaaaa...chanteeek ngam..gue ms tuh gue tgh frust menonggeng...
Tanya mak, mak cakap...kiter orang pompuan nih, baik pilih org yang sayang kat kiter dari yang kiter sayang org... so, waktuh tuh pk2 lar jugak, pertimbangankan lamarannya...die nih ok ker...sabar ke kerenah haku nih nanti...ker mulut je manis sbb belom dapat...
Disebabkan tak baper pasti ms tuh...kompius2 lagik, buat pose sunat, solat sunat istikharah sumer...mintak Allah mudahkan n lapangkan jalan.
Then tak lama pastu, die dtg umah jumpa family...diikuti rombongan merisik 2 minggu kendiannyabertunang...dan setahun pas tuh kawen la kiterorg...
Alhamdulillah...syukur...tak sedey seday dah mcm dulu...happy. Tak nyesal ikut cakap mak dulu. |
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I kenal my wife masa convo kat universiti kat perak, dia jaga booth stand jual sthg. masa tu i pon study lg, tp tgh practical ngn alstom kat KL, saje nak stay msia lama |
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Originally posted by snid at 8-6-2007 03:52 PM
Ni masa sekolah ke masa masuk kolej?
Senang ko laki dok kampung sebelah aje
Nak dating senang, dah balik raya pun senang
ni masa matrix..
dh plan nnt tua2 nak balik buat umah kat kg..duk kat kg...dah sama kampung..senang lerr.
dating? time belajar kami tak biasa dating...org pun tak tahu kami berchenta..tak commit sangat
pasai dah kena warn ngan mak...time belajar ngn gatai2 nak berchenta...
tapi time sem break..mmg bergayut sakan..mak tak larat dh nak marah.. |
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met my hubby when i was 15 and he was 17. Just at the beginning of my puberty, it was a crush head over heel. Soon, we were entertwined in this so called puppy love but it looked and felt so real. He said that the moment he saw me walking towards school gate every morning, his heart would start beating faster. He sometimes sneaked out during boring history classes so he could catch a glimpse of me at the opposite classroom. I would look forward to to lunch break, so, i could see and stare at him where he could be seen having lunch with his friends. We both would indulged in writing each other love notes and slide them between book pages so we could exchange and smiling while reading the notes thousand times for the night.
Soon when we finished school, i decided to just leave, bored, tired and problematic, at the same time, wondering whether there is a better prospect that might awaits me, without a hint of word, i just walked off, just like that. Little did i know that i remained as the only woman he had ever loved.
we met again, after 5 years, and the second time we went out together, as grown up, he proposed. He said " leave me, or marry me, i'll give you one week to decide". So, i spent a whole week thinking abt it, real hard, bfore i finally came to my decision, "yeah, sure, why not". A year of an engagement, after series of arguments and split personalities and confusion, i nearly called off the wedding. Because as far i know, i'm difficult, there's an instinct telling me that noone can live with me. Funny though as at the same time, i didn't want to let this man go. But i wanted to stay difficult, duh!
And now, after 7 years of marriage, with 2 mischievous boys and a pretty little girl, we are still very much having crush with each other. |
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Kenal hubby kat forum fakulti kat utm
dia senior 4 tahun masa rynn first year dia final year
tp kenal dia masa 3rd year
kenal 29 oct 2003 first time jumpa 29 nov 2003
tunang 12 June 2004 nikah 23 Jan 2005 |
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ptg ni aku kenal kat chat...
sok jumpa terus dia proposed...
2 hari lps tu dia dtg jumpa mak...
terus ckp nak kawen dgn aku & terus minta izin nak bw aku blk kg jumpa mak dia plak..
so...kenal + risik + tunang + nikah = 3 bln jerk...
x sempat nak bercinta...
alhamdulillah...aku bahagia...dah 3 thn stgh aku kawen ..anak pon nak msk 2... |
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bercinta ngan hb sejak dari zaman sekolah lagi.. kiranya first love la..
masa tu aku form 3 dia form 5, sekolah lain2.. anak sedara yang kenalkan...
rintangan mmg ada tapi jodoh kami kuat.. after 8 tahun kenal kitaorg kawin...
alhamdulilah.. aku rasa bahagia sangat bersama hb disamping anak2 skrg.. kiranya dia segalanya bagi aku... |
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Reply #48 Core's post
I love it when my boyfriend selit surat/love notes dalam buku... it was like 'surprise!' |
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When everything comes to an end, normally we will start to think about how it all started..
It shouldnt be that way though. Kena ingat sentiasa apa yang buat kite jatuh cinta in the first place so that u will always appreciate the other person even better each day.
Mcm i my partner bagi i teddy bear..saying hello, thru sms..that was like about nearly a year of lost contact. I dont know how but somehow i know that it was him who sent it to me although i never had his number..awfully hopeless romantic rite. |
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I wrong number ajerk. Hubby tersilap contact, terberkenan, terus terkawin...ekekek... |
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aku ngan hubby kenal kat forum memula dia maki aku cukup kat email
sebab masa tue kat forum ada satu tajuk yg we all bincangkan and aku komen negatiflah pasal tajuk tue...
dia kata saja letak avatar cun nak suh semua forumer kat situ sokong aku
lagilah kat forum tue mmg aku sorang jerk forumer perempuan yg aktif berforum
masa tue 3 email maki hamun dia yg panjang lebar
apa lagi bila dia ym aku ignore
masa tue aku asyik tergelak jerk baca email dia tue seriusnyer mamat nie berforum
dah ler muka ganas... and aku reply email say sorry singgung perasaan dia
lain org maybe lain pandangan dan pendapat mereka
aku minta maaflah sebab aku tak merasai keadaan dia
pastue dia ym aku cakap tgh karang lagik email panjang berjela
tgh tinggal nak click send jerk aku dah email minta maaf semua
cair terus hati dia...pastue dia nasihat akulah tak yah ler nak letak avatar gambar org lainy g cun2
sekadar nak suh org semua sokong aku kat forum tue
aku layankan jerklah...
pastue we all selalu ym cerita pasal music, kehidupan..falsafah ler
and rasa we all serasi ambik keputusan nak jumpa.. 29 november 5 hari selepas raya puasa...
tapi masa puasa aku dah solat hajat dan istiharah adakah dia lelaki yg tepat...
doa pada tuhan jika dia bukan jodohku dan yg terbaik gagalkanlah perancangan kami
so masa hari yg dijanjikan utk jumpa aku tak mandi lagik and tgh sibuk susun kuih raya semua
tetiba dia call dah ada depan umah aku..
apalagik kelam kabutlah mandi dan bersiap.... dia terkejut tgkaku adalah org yg sama dgn gambar avatar tue ...... ampeh tullah
masa first time jumpa dia hadiahkan bunga orkid katanya " semoga hubungan nie berkekalan....seperti orkid yg tahan lama"
pastue kat starbucks dia proposed nak jadik gf dia ke tak? kalau tak nak after this dia balik kl and dia tak akan contact aku lagik call pun tak nak... putus terus hubungan and aku terus terima.... |
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Reply #55 errynn's post
sonok dgr story u..especially bab bunga orkid..dgn tidak sengaja ur story telling the reality..mesti u ni pon cun orgnya... |
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Reply #55 errynn's post
oh bile terbaca yg bawah tu..cam ugutan plak eh..eheheheh..u want me or u leave it..yela sng citerlakan..org nak ke tak nak konfemkan aje cepat2 tak yah buang karen org...especially yg lelaki..byk kuar modal nak tackle gf in the first place.. |
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nak join gak :)
adnilsa kenal hubby last year...mase tu adnilsa bru pas putus ngn sorg mamat tu..mmg mase tu frust giler laa...pastu gi plak kursus...set dalam kepala mase kursus ni nak tenangkan pikiran n gi berkursus bukan nak cari jodoh
sampai kat tpt smua peserta kursus berkumpul,terus naik transport yg disediakan...muka borin jer...sekali,terpandang sorg mamat tu tgh tarik beg dgn gaya yg agak memukaukan adnilsa...tgk jer...sekali tersedar n bisik dlm ati"ceh,ade ati nak minat kat org camtu...ah,dia xkan pandang org muka cam ko ni..."pastu mencebik sorg2...pastu ckp dlm ati"ingat!gi kursus bukan mase utk mengorat tp kursus n tenangkan ati"
mase 1st day kursus mula,breakfast laa kat cafe resort tu ngn roomate..ade laa sorg mamat ni nak duk kat meja adnilsa tu...biar je laa sb dia mmg cm bekenan je kat roomate adnilsa tu..tiba2 dtglaa lg sorg laki,ckp nak duk situ gak..mase tu adnilsa terpadang"err..ni laki yg aku tgk smlm.."sonok gak masetu tp biler teringat tujuan dtg situ terus muka serius...layan pun cam nak x nak jer..pandang pun cam nak xnak jer...dia tanye ape pun adnilsa balas acuh x acuh jer...
since dat day i hate him coz beberapa perkara...maklumlaa masetu dah set nak kursus je,dia plak wat baik2 ngn adnilsa,tlg tu,tlg ni...mcm2 ler...mase tu plak adnilsa frust x abih lg...kursus pun demam...pandang laki pun cam xde perasaan je..
alik dr kursus terus alik kg...citer laa kat parents psal laki ni..punya laa x suka..mak abah siap ckp"jgn benci2 org..."dlu cuba x benci tp xtau nape kali ni benci sgt2..4-5 ari pas kursus tu ade org call opis...ingatkan saper...dgr suara cam kenal...pastu dia leh ckp"yong,sy ni..."dgr jer dia sebut "yong" ... sah!dah xde mamat lain pgil adnilsa "yong" dia sorg jer...masetu terus marah2 dia..maner dpt no phone opis,mcm2 ler dia kena marah...mmg luar kawalan ler mase tu
tp tu laa kuasa tuhan..esoknya..adnilsa cuba ler terima dia ngn baik..org nak kawan...mase tu pun adnilsa leh tima dia pas baca buku "MY WAY by JEDI" adik adnilsa yg suh baca buku tu...adnilsa pas baca buku tu xlaa ego sgt n leh time org dlm idup ni n menghargai org lain...
2mgu pas kwn terus dia ckp nak pinang adnilsa..terkejut gak mase tu...cam x caye jer...mmg x aspect yg dia btoi2 ngn adnilsa ms tu kitorg kwn tu pun bln pose....pas bertunang 5 bulan pastu terus kawen...n now...bru nak bercinta..mase bertunang tu x sempat nak bercinta sb masing2 bz...nak jumpa pun susah...mase nikah tu pun rase cam x caye jer dah jadi bini org...jodoh kilat
sonok gak bercinta mase kawen ni...
[ Last edited by adnilsa at 12-6-2007 12:55 PM ] |
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