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Perluke beritahu suami perancangan kewangan kita...
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Kenapa nak kena berahsia?
Pernah ada bad experience smpi rasa ragu2 nak beritahu husband? |
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Hang nak ngadap Nungkar nangkir nanti complete berhias dgn emas perhiasan( macam nak pegi majlis kahwin)then jadi harus ler berahsia, waktu hidup nie...
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Duit sendirik beb, tiak peluh berpuluh tahun...kena jadi barua suami keluar bekerja.......pastuh jenis laki yang baru isteri angkat mulut nak beli coli ON SALE, dah kena bebel 7 hari 7 malam....hang tak sakit hati kah???
Hang lain ler....tak bekerja...makan hasil suami...account FASHION VALET hang pun under laki hang nye nama.....lainnnnn, lainnnnnnnn...
Itu Manak tanya hang...ada suami macam hang nee pun masih kedekut hang utk berkongsi dgn kaum hang sendirik yang lain yang tak begitu bernasib baik seperti hang....susah sangat kah nak berkongsi laki nie PINK?????
Boleh??? Kisah dua tred dalam satu?????
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Mannak replied at 28-4-2016 06:33 AM
Hang nak ngadap Nungkar nangkir nanti complete berhias dgn emas perhiasan( macam nak pegi majlis k ...
Kenapa? Apa kisah seterusnya? cerita la, nak nampak good, selit sekali hadis, ayat quran ya. |
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Mannak replied at 28-4-2016 10:08 AM
Kenapa??? Or is it Manak yang patut tanya hang kenapa???? Tak cukup ke laki hang sekarang makan ha ...
Jawab je la... Hadis ke, ayat Quran ke, apapun la. |
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Level ke?
Haha i dah lama upgrade dr you. You baru nak upgrade ke?
By the way, you ni very the seperti watak Makcik PPRT lakonan Zila Bakarin yang tak nak kalah.
Dah la pergi la masuk dapur masak. Kata mengoncangkan dunia.
KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH
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Hang memang letak cradle kat dalam dapur ka???
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ok uols...
finally dah bgtaw.. dia support nak invest in properties... and willing to share/contribute.. soo banyak gak la choice time nak beli nanti
thank you uols... |
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If its small expenditures eg holidays, alat kelengkapan dapaur etc, tak lah perlu sgt bagi tau hubby. But if its buying a car, buying ahouse (mcm dlm hal u ni!!), memang la kena bagi tau. In any case, no one can hide from stuff like these; these involves major documents, laws and statutes and lawyers, banking intervention, insurance etc. Cant hide these things. |
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ko ada bgtau x kat husband ko yg ko pd asalnya ada juga terpikir xnk bgtau dia?..
apa reaksi dia?..
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Nee yang anak buah Manak yang 5 tahun setengah tuh selalu sebut....mengapa takda penyakit sengaja carik penyakit????
Kan????
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nope.. x masuk dlm diskasen malam tadi
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semalam dah diskas.... tp dia lagi banyak bg comment negative instead bg solution untuk maju ke depan...
komen2 lebih kepada negative ,,komen kepada better jangan buat..... "im willing to go with you.. but i dont want any risk.. blah blah blah blah blah... nanti kita x mampu... balh blah.. nanti mcmmane nak bayar.. blah blh"" nanti xde org nak sewa.. matila nak membayar.. kita susah... blah blah blah". " abang x larat nak urus banyak2 rumah... "
sokongan yg aku harapkan ade adelah lebih kepada ayat2 mcm ni.. "kl mcm tuh.. mcm mane nak buat ye... "... ok....kita carik jalan lain........ " kalau itu x boleh.. kita carik yg lain"..... bukan soalan mcm tuh yg dia bagi
lebih pada patahkan semangat aku je...
rase mcm x payah bgtaw dia pon xpe... rase mcm aku jalan sorg2 lagi bagus... ... honestly.. im so dissapointed |
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Edited by Mannak at 5-5-2016 09:42 AM
You may be The GUNGHO type....willing to take that little risk..while he is just being realistic....
The way I see it...you have not been doing your homework to be able to convince your partner...setakat nak utarakan cadangan...Tapi tak ada proper tabled plan A-Z , considerations serta calculated risks that you may encounter along the way in taking that decision......
in short....you can never be in my negotiating team............
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TT should not patah semangat but instead find out how to answer his Q.
1. but i dont want any risk .. make sure the risk is minimise, eg: kalau new development, developer is reliable..kalau 2nd property, no damage to the hse
2. nanti kita x mampu... make usre u start buat cashflow management. ada banyak template utk u follow. How much excess cash available nak bayar hutang without compromising current lifestyle or how much u are willing to do downgrade lifestyle
3. nanti xde org nak sewa...rule of thumb to propert 1. location 2. location 3. location
i think TT dah tau dah semua di atas, so do more research..cari ilmu dan jangan terperangkap dgn desire sehingga lupa nak think wisely. |
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thanks alot
skrg aku tengah kumpul2 info.... but for the mean time.. aku sorg2 kot cari rumah.... then nanti baru present kt dia.. kl dia negative2 lagi.. aku proceed je lah
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sokong ko Hana... bergantung pd jenis suami tu... klu masuk kt dlm forum nih.. ada berbagai2 jenis perangai suami yg ada.. jd bergantung kpd suami anda masing2..
Saya.. ? Alhamdulillah.. tiada rahsia antara kita... 
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belum buat dulu.. asben you dah negatif.. patut cari solutions kemungkinan2 yg akan terjadi.. |
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Post time 28-4-2016 12:02 AM
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Post time 4-5-2016 03:30 PM
