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Nafkah isteri.....adekah aku tak bertanggungjawab? (Update : kisah sebenar )
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Post time 10-6-2016 03:36 PM
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beldandy replied at 10-6-2016 12:02 PM
rasanya kes ni ustaz kazim dah pernah bincangkan pun
xde pun dlm hadis memana ke cakap nafkah mesti ...
Tu yang saya pelik. Tetiba mase bergaduh bab cc tu, dia ckp saya abaikan nafkah dia. Ting tong terus saya mase tu. Ehhh....aku ni dayus ke. Abaikan nafkah anak isteri. |
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oooo...mcm tu pulak...ckp la kt wife...dh byrkan duit cc xkan nak duit lg...
kalau mcm tu ko bg je la kt dia duit kt tangan dia sndr...pastu suka hatila dia nak buat apa dgn duit tu..
tp cc tu atas nama sapa?kalau atas nama ko mmg pyh la..
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normal la tu.. its a girls thing.. shopping without having to worry who will take care of the bills..
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Post time 10-6-2016 03:39 PM
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seri_mawr replied at 10-6-2016 12:18 PM
banyk nya isteri TT menyoping sampai 700 ke 1500 sebulan....
700 - 1500 tu termasuk petrol. |
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Post time 10-6-2016 03:40 PM
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tagas replied at 10-6-2016 01:27 PM
Cepuk kan aje kalo spesis2 betina camni
Jangan mcm tu. Duit senang cari, isteri baru pun senang cari. Tapi modal nk kawin lain besar. |
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Post time 10-6-2016 03:41 PM
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seeriesagain replied at 10-6-2016 01:28 PM
Untungnyer wife TT....
Saya plak yg rugi. |
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Post time 10-6-2016 03:41 PM
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sarada replied at 10-6-2016 01:34 PM
hmmm sebenarnya TT ni dah baik sgt sbb dah buat byk benda dan dikira bertanggungjawab
smp leh lak s ...
Insyaallah...... |
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Post time 10-6-2016 03:43 PM
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Sasha replied at 10-6-2016 02:19 PM
kalo dia hanya supplementary cc shj you bole limitkan brapa yg dia bole pakai. let's say 500 shj. l ...
Tu mmg CC dia. Saya x kisah pun pasal perbelanjaan cc dia. Yang jadi persoalan, kenapa wife nak pertikaikan hal nafkah. |
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Post time 10-6-2016 03:44 PM
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beldandy replied at 10-6-2016 02:36 PM
EO as in essential Oil ke?
kampung nyer aku tak tau
Essential Oil. |
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kayujati2016 replied at 10-6-2016 03:43 PM
Tu mmg CC dia. Saya x kisah pun pasal perbelanjaan cc dia. Yang jadi persoalan, kenapa wife nak pe ...
hmmm maybe dia rasa u masih x cukup bagi dia makan pakai dan sbgainya... |
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Post time 10-6-2016 03:45 PM
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PuanPuan replied at 10-6-2016 02:41 PM
I pun tertanya jugak..EO tu benda apa sampai mahai mcm tu.
Anyway, beruntung la wife TT dapat som ...
Essential Oil. Mmg mahal sbb import dari US. |
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Post time 10-6-2016 03:48 PM
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Edited by kayujati2016 at 10-6-2016 03:50 PM
Sasha replied at 10-6-2016 03:45 PM
hmmm maybe dia rasa u masih x cukup bagi dia makan pakai dan sbgainya...
Kalau itu persoalan nyer, x tahu nak ckp ape. Biar saya sendiri ckp yg wife saya mmg x pandai bersyukur.
Tahun ni punya baju raya pun dah shopping kat vietnam. Ambil lah ape nak ambil. Beli lah ape nak beli. Janji poket saya ringan.
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duhhh jelesnya dpt somi camni... bincang leklok la, biaq dia sedar yg ramai lg isteri2 kt luar x dpt apa yg dia dpt.. seelok2nya bagi cash mcm DUKE ckp, ni duit nafkah awak untuk bulan ni. biaq dia tau.. |
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ko lembik sgt ngan wife.... tu yg kena buli
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Isunya lambat/terlupa bayar CC. Lambat bayar CC ada kesan pada status kredit. For me CC adalah satu keperluan, tapi bayar penuh setiap bulan.
Nampak macam kena improve communication. Kena buat discussion to set things clear. Wife TT ada problem managing finance. In this case, TT lebih financially aware/responsible.
So, TT kena assume the role of finance minister. Stop paying wife CC, bagi cash kat wife. But TT masih kena monitor payment, and gently train wife to be aware of due date. Terangkan kesan lambat bayar CC. Tapikan, sometimes people need to suffer the consequences in order to learn something. 
Pasal nafkah, I pun tak bagi fix amount to my wife(dia housewife). I bayar CC dia full.
Lain orang lain cara, so TT kena discuss dgn wife what is the best way.
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Post time 10-6-2016 04:10 PM
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mdmvava replied at 10-6-2016 03:59 PM
duhhh jelesnya dpt somi camni... bincang leklok la, biaq dia sedar yg ramai lg isteri2 kt luar x dpt ...
Itu yg saya buat di awal perkahwinan. Bila saya tahu wife selalu lewat byr CC, tu yg sy ambil alih byr cc dia. Nampak gaya nyer kena buat mcm dulu balik. Tapi takut tergoda nak bayar cc dia. |
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Post time 10-6-2016 04:12 PM
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BingkaUbi replied at 10-6-2016 04:04 PM
ko lembik sgt ngan wife.... tu yg kena buli
Saya x rase pun dibuli. Tapi tanggungjawab sbb saya mampu. Dari segi bab lain, saya yg buli2 manja wife. Perfect...... |
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Post time 10-6-2016 04:15 PM
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dabai replied at 10-6-2016 04:04 PM
Isunya lambat/terlupa bayar CC. Lambat bayar CC ada kesan pada status kredit. For me CC adalah satu ...
Mmg nk kena bincang balik. Nak fix monthly nafkah or bayar full cc. |
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Untunglah suami isteri bergaji besar.
Bagusnya TT, mungkin patut suh isteri tu bukak FD ni, tgk berapa banyak kes suami tak bayar nafkah, jadi biawak hidup pun banyak. Biar bersyukur sikit. |
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bini TT boros, laki dh cover duit minyak etc... duit cc pun dh cover... perbelanjaan cc mengalahkan orang ada anak 10... dh, lepas ni bg dia cash aje, yg lain lantak lah kat dia.. pepandai lah manage duit... mengungkit lak tu... suruh dia belajar bersyukur... |
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Post time 10-6-2016 03:37 PM
