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kopi2020 replied at 20-5-2020 11:18 PM
mmg belum lg terus terang cerita kat parents. tp sbrnya bila parents tanya je psl die, i selalu ck ...
Kopi..
Selama ni.. Dia berkawan.. Dia jaga ati u jer.. Dia ada orang lain dlm ati dia..
Then, lepas u terus terang, dia buat friendzone tu.. Masa tu u patut sedar. Dia nk jauhkan diri dh..
Mmg la dia blok. Sbb dia harap u stop contact dia.
Org laki ni.. Tak kesah la dia reject u.. Atau u reject dia.. Diorg sejenis akan elak org tu jauh2 dah..
Hope u kuat semangat okey.
Ilang sorang kawan tak hargai kita takpe.. Bole carik lain.
Hilang diri sndiri... Merana. Rugi je.
Take care u.
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On one side, nmpk mcm TT still tergila2(maaf, I tak jumpa the correct word for this) dan terlalu mengharap dia.
Verbally TT tak nak ada apa dah dgn dia(judging by the blocking melee), tapi deep down dlm hati TT?
Honestly la ye, please move on. Dont waste your time anymore.
Use that time for something else.
Maybe skrg TT belum jumpa apa yg TT nak cari, tp sapa tahu? Besok, Lusa Tulat?
Atau cuba rendahkan pandangan tu skit, maybe yg TT cari ada kat sekitar TT je sebenarnya, cuma TT tak pasan pasal too occupy thinking bout that one fella.
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Edited by sweetpea911 at 20-5-2020 10:59 PM
kopi2020 replied at 20-5-2020 09:39 PM
i dh cuba move on, block him in ig, ignored his activity in fb too. but hard to move on maybe i al ...
Sorry ye tt..nampak tt masih nak justify lg apa tt dah buat kat dia.. maybe sblm ni dia selesa dgn tt sbb tu rajin hang out & share problem.. tp kena ingat, kdg2 org share cuma nak cerita..unless he asked for help or opinion, xyah la pandai2 nak nasihat siap kasi ayat quran bagai.. i rasa start lps u dah tau mslh dia la kot dia start rimas..
Paham tt care.. u just want to help or show concern tapi mungkin terlebih sgt..kena relax2 & cool je.. nmpk skrg mcm dah telambat utk fix.. dia pun lgsg x bagi peluang kat tt.. so mcm yg ramai org lain dah bgtau, the best thing to do now is move on.. focus on yourself.. xyah pikir nk balas dendam atau buat dia merana pun.. best revenge is you step up.. focus kat kerja u, get promoted.. join ngo ke.. percayalah when you are happy & occupied, all the good things will come to you..
Main controller kat kepala.. jgb asyik fikir x leh lupa la, first love la.. start fikir how to be a better person |
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Ko takde Kwn laki lain ke selain hadap dia sorang je ? baiklah ko cari ilmu tambah duit...boleh beli keta H cash...ade gak faedahnya |
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Dia rimas tu dik. kalau dah di friendzone tak usah dikejar dah. Move on. Lagi kejar lagi dia rimas lagi kasar layanan dia terus putus kawan, apa pun takda. |
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kopi2020 replied at 20-5-2020 08:39 PM
masalahnya bila ajak keluar die bg alasan nk simpan duit, nk byr hutang, sy faham je, so biarkan.. ...
Dia elak cara halus la tu, pastu dia show kat insta dia pegi mkn tempat mahal sebab nak u tahu DIA MEMANG TAKNAK keluar dgn u. Kalau dia kasar sgt nanti sakit pula hati u, mcm2 boleh jadi kan.
Move on je dik. If dah umur 35 pun tak kawin, better dari mengharap yg satu ni. Sekelip mata je dia boleh find another sebab HE’S NOT THAT INTO YOU. |
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TT, mamat yg friendzone u ni hensem tak? |
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umbut replied at 20-5-2020 11:26 PM
Kalau aku... aku block sebab nyampah
kan. apa susah nya. ko block aku, aku block ko balik. klau aku, mmg aku balas balik. |
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Meols ada bff lelaki. Dia layan meols lebih baik dari boifren2 yg meols penah ada. Meols tak pernah perjudikan frenship kami dengan meminta lebih dari hubungan kwn. Tak berbaloi kalu kene rejek dan hilang kwn. Baik berkawan sahaja dan nikmati layanan bff meols mcm biasa. |
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sweetpea911 replied at 20-5-2020 11:56 PM
Sorry ye tt..nampak tt masih nak justify lg apa tt dah buat kat dia.. maybe sblm ni dia selesa d ...
actually firstly he asked for help. die mntk skongan moral. sblum ni die study kat overseas, die ade masalah & rajin contact i sbb die rasa alone kat sana & x de siapa nk bg die skongan moral. so that is the beginning of the other side of me, jd org yg care & concern. bila die dh balik sini, die still contact i dlu, mesej i tak kira tempat, messenger, ig, imessage, whatsapp. klo i lambat reply, atau mesej x delivered ke i, nanti die mesej kat semua medium. kdg2 2 atau 3 pg pun die akan mesej i. i pun tak kan nk contact die selalu klo die pun x mulakan dulu macam tu. die jd avoide i sejak die balik bercuti di sabah dgn bff die. die berubah almost 360 degrees.
tp tak apa lah, i try my best to occupy my life. i pun dh dpt keje baru and wishing to busy & enjoy life with the new job. and i jugak drpd tak main game, i main game so that i fill masa i dgn game je. kalau mcm ramadhan ni, x buat apa, i mengaji je sampai khatam. berfaedah jgk dpt pahala.
i mmg ada plan to join ngo dlu dgn kwn i, tp lepas kwn i kawin, terus terkubur niat tu. so buat masa ni i cuma bg bantuan mcm sumbangan je dlu.
apa2 pun thank u for advise. i pun dlm proses utk move on, i buat apa yg i mampu dlu, slowly. |
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Most probaby, he is a bit mentally immature..kalau lelaki tu matang, dia akan chill je..tak perlu nak block org sana sini..mcm lah tt nak pegi bom dia pun kannn? Rilex sudah. |
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Edited by Themilo at 21-5-2020 01:39 AM
tak pernah seumur hidup pun lelaki block meols.. kalau meols drag pakai kebaya lenggang-lenggok datang office, berderet-deret akaun michat lelaki mana-mana entah nak add meols..
sejujurnya untuk masalah adek ni, toksah la gigih sangat nak kejarkan jantan sekor tu dekkk.. kalau dia nak kat kau, dari dulu lagi dia dah confess.. it takes two to tango.. bukannya kau sorang yang terhegeh-hegeh nak kat dia.. seems to be dia takde girlfriend, entah-entah dia gayboy.. pondan je yang rajin block-block orang ni.. what say you @Kurex |
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Biarkan lah dia dik...cari kawan lain. Sia2 je fikir pasal dia.
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rilex je la TT..u br 30..xpyh riso sal jodoh...I ni 35 pon x jumpa2 jodoh lg..u just enjoy ur life, ur work n ur family...slowly u akan move on..
.tiap kali u rasa sedih sal dia, kuatkan ati...i selalu kena friendzone..mula2 ssh nk move on..lama2 mcm da x heran pon..
u xde kwn baik..dont worry..find another friend yg u x kenal lgsung lg better..mcm i prefer kwn yg x kenal i sape utk share cerita..
kwn2 i dkt tmpt keje lain, personal lain n semua x kenal antara satu sama lain..
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Lengkong replied at 21-5-2020 08:06 AM
Biarkan lah dia dik...cari kawan lain. Sia2 je fikir pasal dia.
tgh mencari lah ni huhu |
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shop_girl replied at 21-5-2020 07:36 AM
Most probaby, he is a bit mentally immature..kalau lelaki tu matang, dia akan chill je..tak perlu na ...
nampak sbnrnya die x matured, sbb die selalu cerita die ade je block kwn2 die yg lelaki pon. i pun gaduh je dgn bff i tp so far kami x pernah pon nk memblock2 ni. chill je. |
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Themilo replied at 21-5-2020 07:43 AM
tak pernah seumur hidup pun lelaki block meols.. kalau meols drag pakai kebaya lenggang-lenggok da ...
Entahnya..tak payahlah mengharapkan geiboi yang tak reti servis tu apoo. Kalau kena kat aku dah lama merana la jejantan gitu dari keras menjadi kelubi
iols dah lama tak pakai kebaya chuol. Nanti pewut mara ke hadapan..seksiii
Kemban lagi senang
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cahaya_emily replied at 21-5-2020 12:50 AM
TT, mamat yg friendzone u ni hensem tak?
die x hensem pun, hidung pun kembang, kulit gelap, rambut serabut, but dont know why ada perasaan. compare dgn i, i ni chinese look. i know i can get a better man. hmmmm i pun dh pasrah dh ni. |
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lelaki dan perempuan xkn jd kawan baik
mesti terbabas punya...
yg ckap boleh tu bohong  |
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dik,ko dah tau dia jobless and tak hensem,so tunggu apa lagi,blah la
ni kau message mesage lagi quran bagai,rimasla dia.
ni saya nak bagitau awok,kalau lelaki tu baik memang utk kita,u tak payah work hard pun utk attention dia.
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Post time 20-5-2020 11:41 PM
