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Author: green~tea

Berapa lama korang nak move on?

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Post time 22-1-2021 12:51 PM | Show all posts
Terpulang pd feel.jangan asyik terkenang-kenang perkara yang lalu. Susah tetapi kena move on. Cuba tanya diri sendiri, adakah anda masih mengingati insan yang pernah menyakiti hati anda?
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Post time 22-1-2021 12:52 PM | Show all posts
bambimbom replied at 13-1-2021 02:39 PM
hai.. i pun nak share something.. actually i dlm proses recover ni, wlpn dugaan i ni takde la besar  ...

Belajar terima hakikat.Ini adalah perkara yang pertama yang anda perlu buat. Kuatkan diri, cekalkan hati dan terus move-on.Tentu sekali bukan mudah, tapi pujuklah hati.
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Post time 22-1-2021 04:03 PM | Show all posts
missBlackDahlia replied at 21-1-2021 05:14 PM
hai uols... i punya kisah sama sebijik mcm uols... huhuhu..
happend to me last year after 6-7 mon ...

hmm i rase u tak yah husnuzon sgt dgn kwn i tu wlpn dia kerja kapal ke hulur ke hilir.. i pun dah tawar hati nak cari dia.
Mcm u siap dah cari date nikah pastu tak jd mmg sakit hati kan..
I yg dia plan lepas kawin kita sekian sekian pun rase nak hancur je hati.

Sekarang ni i slow2 lupakan dia. Kita persetankan aje lelaki mcm ni sis..
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Post time 22-1-2021 04:07 PM | Show all posts
DyanaHarun replied at 22-1-2021 12:52 PM
Belajar terima hakikat.Ini adalah perkara yang pertama yang anda perlu buat. Kuatkan diri, cekalka ...

Betul ckp sis tu... sendiri kena pujuk hati.. Alhamdulillah la sekarang ni dah boleh control emosi..
Kalau pikir sangat semua benda tak jadi, i dah boleh lupakan dia sekarang..
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Post time 23-1-2021 11:27 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Aku once jumpa penganti cepatlah aku move on.
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Post time 23-1-2021 11:32 AM | Show all posts
bambimbom replied at 22-1-2021 04:07 PM
Betul ckp sis tu... sendiri kena pujuk hati.. Alhamdulillah la sekarang ni dah boleh control emosi ...

Kita manusia, memakai hati untuk rasa first, berfikir dengan otak kemudia. So bila dah menjadi emotional apa2 pun tak boleh fikir lagi... Tetapi after some experience and training, kita boleh mengubahnya.
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Post time 23-1-2021 11:54 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
bambimbom replied at 22-1-2021 04:03 PM
hmm i rase u tak yah husnuzon sgt dgn kwn i tu wlpn dia kerja kapal ke hulur ke hilir.. i pun dah  ...

Takpa lah u.. meh sama2 kita move on.. betul cakap u.. persetankan je lelaki tak gune camtu.. kesian kat wife diaorg.. msti try pompuan lain lak tu.. huhu
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Post time 25-1-2021 05:52 PM | Show all posts
Addrianna replied at 23-1-2021 11:27 AM
Aku once jumpa penganti cepatlah aku move on.

Betul tu. luangkan masa dengan friends and family boleh bantu juga.
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Post time 27-1-2021 03:40 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
nuhanis replied at 30-11-2020 09:27 PM
Iols scorpio. Susah gak la nak move on. Tambah2 if org tu helok muka dan perangai. Hahahha

Sama la kita hahaha , tapi meolss Virgo..
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 Author| Post time 27-1-2021 05:54 PM | Show all posts
bambimbom replied at 22-1-2021 04:03 PM
hmm i rase u tak yah husnuzon sgt dgn kwn i tu wlpn dia kerja kapal ke hulur ke hilir.. i pun dah  ...

i tak suka jantan tak jujur camni.. mengaku je la laki orang ke apa kan.. permainkan perasaan orang buat apa... just tell the truth.. then its up to the lady la nak terus kan or not... ini mainkan perasaan orang sekadar nak isi masa lapang.. what kind of hobby is this?
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 Author| Post time 27-1-2021 05:56 PM | Show all posts
missBlackDahlia replied at 23-1-2021 11:54 AM
Takpa lah u.. meh sama2 kita move on.. betul cakap u.. persetankan je lelaki tak gune camtu.. kesi ...

this guy is like a serial "lover"... lepas satu then pergi ke satu lg.. its like diorang didnt get attention from the one that they longed for (the wife maybe?)

bak kata pepatah.. tak cukup kasih sayang
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Post time 4-2-2021 02:21 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
iollz cepat je move on, bila dah move on tu baru boleh bukak hati utk org lain plak. ha gitewww
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Post time 27-2-2021 12:04 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
mishungu replied at 30-11-2020 11:45 PM
Sbb sendiri pon x tau bila move on.. Hehehe

Capricorn ni pada I pegang pada konsep "give time, time". Tu Yang jadi tak sedar bila dah move on..lol
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Post time 12-3-2021 10:57 AM | Show all posts
me is a virgo.
based on experience, ada pengalaman yg senang je move on and ada yg rupanya tak senang.
baru aku tau. sbb baru mengalaminya
ingat kan once u dah ada happy life, dah ada cinta baru.. apatah lagi org dan kesannya (ex) pon tak ada, aku silap.
rupanya masih tak move on. it getting worse.
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 Author| Post time 12-3-2021 12:21 PM | Show all posts
Edited by green~tea at 12-3-2021 12:50 PM

terlupa iols ada bukak thread ni

weekend haritu i dgn husband ada post happy anniversary and upload few pics laa honeymoon weekend.. gamba makanan2 and wefie je pun, tp dalam post tu, ada la husband call me darling, true love that gets deeper etc... biasa lah kan, wish anniversary sweet2 gitu, and ramai la kawan2 komen jugak...

then few days ago i terbukak FB page exGF husband yang clash sejak 2008.. amboiiii.. sheols kemahen bitter dengan i,  siap update status kat FB dia and make it public sound i!!! posting dia tu the next day after posting anniversary kawen kitorang tu...

dia update status tu, about posting i beli kereta last month... sheols ckp iols berlagak beli merc and owning few other luxury cars dah rasa diri mewah, terbang tak jejak tanah sedangkan jutawan lain beli heli pun ko hadooo katanya .. then ada kawan (ex-colleague husband i & ex -team mate exGF) komen, "sudah2 la tu, biar lah benda dah lama pun.. kita menten sempoi kita je dah lee"

pompuan ni dah kenape eh? korang clash 2008 kot.. bukan iols caras BF ko pun... ko tu dah beranak 3 dah pon.. sila focus husband sendiri lah, awat duk terliur kat husband orang? kenapa tak move on?  tak bahagia ke dgn perkahwinan ko tu? mcm orang gila duk block unblock continuous FB i dengan husband i.. seriously? why?
selama ni husband i kemahen la duk puji2 ex GF dia baik, soft spoken, tak dengki orang, tak amek pot bawang pasal org... ngam perwatakan.. segala pujian lah so i mmg bersangka baik laa dgn pompuan ni.. cuma i heran kenapa dia kejap block i, kendian unblock... next time block balik.. bertahun perangai gitu, sedangkan i tak pernah la block dia.. wat derk je.. so bila jadi camni, i screenshot and tunjuk kat husband (exGF dia masih continuously block husband i, tp husband i tak heran pun sbb dah move on kan... husband i ckp, tak sangka exGF dia perangai gini.. posting public kat FB and ajak kawan2 mengutuk berjemaah... hati keladak kot takleh tengok orang bahagia.. hhahahahhahahha
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 Author| Post time 12-3-2021 12:35 PM | Show all posts
hyunniesSS501 replied at 12-3-2021 10:57 AM
me is a virgo.
based on experience, ada pengalaman yg senang je move on and ada yg rupanya tak sen ...

ex u dah meninggal ke... nape sedih... bisikan syaitan je kot tu? appreciate what u have now
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Post time 12-3-2021 12:51 PM | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 12-3-2021 12:35 PM
ex u dah meninggal ke... nape sedih... bisikan syaitan je kot tu? appreciate what u have now



Ex-BF cinta tak direstu
terpaksa melepaskan
sejak dr tu memang tak jumpa.. tak pernah jumpa
mmg tak simpan apa2 kenangan pun pasal dia
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 Author| Post time 12-3-2021 12:56 PM | Show all posts
Edited by green~tea at 12-3-2021 01:09 PM
hyunniesSS501 replied at 12-3-2021 12:51 PM
Ex-BF cinta tak direstu
terpaksa melepaskan
sejak dr tu memang tak jumpa.. tak pernah jumpa
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oh mcm lebih kurang kisah exGF husband i ni lah.. parents tak restu.... so tpaksa clash... by right kalo dah berbelas tahun tu, dah boleh move on sangat2 lah... masing2 dah kahwin kan.... the grass will always look greener on the other side, so kita sendiri la kena belajar bersyukur dah cukup dengan apa yang ada... we should appreciate apa yang di depan mata.. ada husband yang baik, rumah yang selesa, anak2 yang sempurna....

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side story :

mcm husband i.. masa exGF dia kawen in 2010, dia mmg attend wedding tu.. sbb dia mmg redha dan happy dapat tengok exGF dia bahagia dan dah move on masa tu (pada tanggapan heols la)...  pernah beberapa kali husband i break down and cried cuba call exGF just utk meluahkan rasa kecewa, and that exGF yang pujuk husband i supaya move on and cari bahagia.. lepas tu terus husband i kena block dgn dia di seluruh tempat, whatsapp, FB, IG... so husband i faham lah, ex dia dah totally move on and nak dia do the same...

ExGF husband i ni kira beruntung laa, sbb lepas sheols kawen in early 2010, sheols just berenti je belajar master in accounts dia tu, terus je sheols berenti keje and jadi full time housewife je sejak 2010 sampai sekarang... husband sheols tanggung 100% termasuk bayarkan hutang PTPTN masa bachelor degree sheols.. baik kan husband dia tu, tp tu lah... 10 yrs++++ down the road, pompuan tu rupanya masih bitter and kerap stalk i kat FB and cari musuh kat i plak, padahal i tak pernah kenal dia pun

in fact, i cuma kenal husband i ni in 2018, a year after husband i cerai dengan exwife dia (heols kawen 2016, cerai 2017)... kalo pun si exGF tu nak bitter pun, apsal tak bitter kat exes husband i yang lain? kenapa serang i sorang je?
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Post time 14-3-2021 12:09 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Eh eh green y u ada her no? Bisnes circle ker? Adoi run green run... from that toxic circle kalau boleh lah..
So his janda stay classy lar till now even dah ne sauk dgn chuols? Hahahaa respect beb! Respect!!  

Chuols xyah la post caption2 kt fb tu.. since depa memerhati u kn.. stay low jer u.. umpama qoute nih je haaaa ex gf tu;
You can only be jealous of someone who has something you think you ought to have yourself.

Err nape dia dump ex bf dia tu in the first place? Her hubby kaya raya ke compared to bf dia haahaa
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 Author| Post time 14-3-2021 02:02 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by green~tea at 14-3-2021 02:04 PM
MissyMolly replied at 14-3-2021 12:09 PM
Eh eh green y u ada her no? Bisnes circle ker? Adoi run green run... from that toxic circle kalau bo ...


Hahaha.. how small this world is... husband dia same circle dengan husband i, tp husband dia level pencacai lah... cumanya walau level apa theyols sekalipun, i takde rasa nak menghina ke apa, sbb setiap orang ni ada function and contribution masing2...

I dah selamat benam pompuan tu dalam lumpur, i sound direct je dalam posting sheols tu... my FB posting is not public pun, tp dia dpt stalk i melalui FB kawan sheols.. exes husband i mmg senang nak dpt my phone number,  sbb i ada business page dalam FB and dalam tu ada tertera number phone i utk query pasal resort etc..

Iols tak faham dgn depa yg tak reti move on ni... takde rasa aib ke eh duk hadap terliur suami org.. dah berbelas tahun clash pun masih duk stalk exBF, duk stalk ex husband..  sedangkan dah berkawen pun memasing, beranak pinak.. aren't you happy? Rasa tak cukup apa ada? Why comparing life??
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