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Forceful love, cinta terpaksa, be it good or bad?

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Post time 8-3-2021 11:59 AM | Show all posts |Read mode
Edited by ifanonline at 8-3-2021 12:01 PM

So topik yg menarik utk di kupas...apa maksud forceful love? cinta terpaksa? what does this words mean to you?

cinta yg di paksa? terpaksa bercinta? paksaan dlm percintaan? does this relate to bad or good intention?

Sebagai contoh, pernah ada satu filem melayu membuat cinta terpaksa ni satu falsafah, di mana seorang gadis kampung di jadikan pelacur di bandar, dan datang seorang lelaki melanggan wanita ini...tetapi wanita ini memberitahu yg dianya masih dara dan tidak pernah di sentuhi mana2 lelaki selain bakal di ditiduri oleh pelanggan lelaki nya...

setelah lelaki ini mengetahui status pompuan ini, lelaki itu tetap mahu meniduri pompuan ini...wanita yg di langgan memberi syarat sekirnya lelaki itu meneruskan dgn hajatnya, dia perlu berkahwin dgn pompuan tersebut...

lelaki itu bersetuju dgn syarat pompuan yg diberikan, dan mereka melayari bahtera dosa bersama...

hubungan mereka diteruskan di luar alam persundalan dan wanita tersebut didapati mengandungkan anak kpd lelaki itu...walaubagaimanapun, lelaki itu merupakan lelaki yg bertanggungjawab dan terus mengambil wanita tersebut sebagai isterinya...

dalam senario di atas, apa pandangan anda sekiranya berlaku di alam realiti?

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Post time 8-3-2021 12:22 PM | Show all posts

macam citer 365 ke?
lelaki tu kidnap perempuan tu, kemudian lelaki tu bagi mase dekat perempuan tu 365 hari untuk jatuh cinta dengan dia..
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Post time 8-3-2021 12:57 PM | Show all posts
mcm citer ombak rindu.. haha

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Post time 8-3-2021 01:11 PM | Show all posts
complicatednya..
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 Author| Post time 8-3-2021 04:07 PM | Show all posts
well, but if you look at it from a different perspective, sometime love needs and require forceful intervention...because love is fragile...

they say if you love someone, let them free...but free comes with a price...it is between democratic love and authoritative love...

dulu2, ibu2 dan nenek kita tiada demokrasi dlm keluarga, the father always has the final say...lebih kurang dictator...

so sometime you need a dictator in a relationship...you may or may not agree with me
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 Author| Post time 8-3-2021 04:11 PM | Show all posts
mrsbob87 replied at 8-3-2021 12:22 PM
macam citer 365 ke?
lelaki tu kidnap perempuan tu, kemudian lelaki tu bagi mase dekat perempuan t ...

lebih kurang la...but i tak follow citer tu...end up jadi ape?
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 Author| Post time 8-3-2021 04:11 PM | Show all posts
Redmyvi replied at 8-3-2021 12:57 PM
mcm citer ombak rindu.. haha

ombak rindu la tu...
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Post time 8-3-2021 04:30 PM | Show all posts
ifanonline replied at 8-3-2021 04:11 PM
lebih kurang la...but i tak follow citer tu...end up jadi ape?

laura da boleh terima ar si massimo tu.. sebab terharu massimo selamatkan dia dari lemas, massimo plak sabar je layan karenah dia..
end up diaorang nak kawen n si laura tu da preggy.. tapi syg xsempat, laura excident mase dekat terowong.. xtau la mati ke x, sebab kata ada sambungan..

kalau lelaki cam massimo tu i pun taste, handsome+kaya.. tapi kalau nan hadoooo takpayah la
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Post time 8-3-2021 04:53 PM | Show all posts
Edited by mbhcsf at 8-3-2021 05:46 PM
ifanonline replied at 8-3-2021 04:07 PM
well, but if you look at it from a different perspective, sometime love needs and require forceful i ...

oh my , wo u sounded like Mao Tze Dong  dah  aiyooooo....

Well, it depends on whether the guy whom you are forcing that lady to end up with tu  is the like of Aarif Rahman Lee Chi Ting ke, Lee Sang yoon ke, Vincenzo Cassano , ke....hmm...


well on a  more serious note:
ambik ibrah Zainab bin Jahasy
or ambil part fiqh hukum cerai paksa mazhab syafiie sah  ke tak

dont force love

u know why

i know of a person who is in lovse with her hubby to death  , ni pure love habis and the hubby 's love for her is probably so - so  but then , when the going gets tough in marriage - the third person comes into his life , then all of a sudden - a guy could say his dissatisfaction and also near menungkit that he was being somehow subtly coerced , pressured in many forms to get marry to the wife...

haa boleh paku  pulang buah keras


so kalau u wife - u sanggup a guy bagi that alasan balik

so lebih baik tak payah lah
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Post time 8-3-2021 08:57 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
X reti nk komen sebab x faham kenapa perlu cinta terpaksa. Cinta ni dua2 sama suka..

Kut cinta terpaksa sebab nak duit?
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Post time 8-3-2021 11:40 PM | Show all posts
jap ombak rindu tu diorang main sebelum nikah ye?
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Post time 10-3-2021 04:06 PM | Show all posts
apa2 pun nikah la dulu. pastu cinta tu akan hadir dalam keterpaksaan. gituu
bila u kahwin, it's not about love anymore. it's about responsibilities altogether ahgitew. sebab tu ramai taknak kawen sebab takut tak boleh commit.
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Post time 11-3-2021 02:25 AM | Show all posts
Susah nak wujud perasaan cinta ni...
Mmg tak boleh dipaksa...
Tapi terpaksa cintai husband juga bila dah kahwin nanti...
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 Author| Post time 11-3-2021 09:26 AM | Show all posts
Elle_mujigae replied at 11-3-2021 02:25 AM
Susah nak wujud perasaan cinta ni...
Mmg tak boleh dipaksa...
Tapi terpaksa cintai husband juga bi ...

mewujudkan perasaan cinta tu memang susah...sedangkan mewujudkan perasaan cinta kpd tuhan dan rasul pun susah, ini kan makhluk yg hina...

mungkin ada kebaikannya cinta dlm keterpaksaan...memaksa seseorang itu mencintai anda walaupun ada kebarangkalian tiada keikhlasan atau ada jua keikhlasan dlm hati pasangan anda...

kadang2 hidup ni perlu di paksa in order to make things work...whether you like it or not...


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Post time 11-3-2021 02:03 PM | Show all posts
Edited by capiloton at 11-3-2021 02:12 PM

kesimpulan nya ipan banyak sangat tengok movie

iols tak pandai forceful love,
hanya mengerti tentang tender love.




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Post time 11-3-2021 07:06 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
kalau cinta bersebab tu ye jugak ke? iols tengah bercinta skrg ni. iols approach him sbb tahu dia baik, bertanggungjawab, stable semua la. tapi entah perasaan cinta tu tak kuat macam iols dengan ex yang tak guna dulu tu. betul la orang kata orang perempuan ni suke bad boy
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 Author| Post time 11-3-2021 07:37 PM | Show all posts
misssakura replied at 11-3-2021 07:06 PM
kalau cinta bersebab tu ye jugak ke? iols tengah bercinta skrg ni. iols approach him sbb tahu dia ba ...

bad boy suka memaksa cinta...that is why
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Post time 11-3-2021 11:44 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Rsa nya iols pn mcm terpaksa cinta jugak kot lps ni utk hilangkn cinta lama dlm hati...gtuuu.
Sis x move on dh dekat 3 tahun dh ni
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 Author| Post time 12-3-2021 09:25 AM | Show all posts
aechae replied at 11-3-2021 11:44 PM
Rsa nya iols pn mcm terpaksa cinta jugak kot lps ni utk hilangkn cinta lama dlm hati...gtuuu.
Sis  ...

so is it good or bad for you?
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Post time 12-3-2021 10:24 AM | Show all posts
secara realitinya,mungkin lelaki tu sanggup jika benar ppuan tu masih suci,
tapi jika realiti xmungkin ppuan yg dipaksa jd pelacur masih suci,dah tentu kena bedal dulu dgn bapak ayam dan pengikutnya,mana ada org kerja tiada latihan....

cinta terpaksa dlm realiti ni selalunya jodoh ditentukan org tua la....


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