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Hie kawan2..
Norsha ada problem lately nie nak tido kan my son aged 5..
Dia gile main dgn comp dia..norsha set time tido dia taknak ikut...dia lock pintu bilik dia after saying good nite dan teruskan dgn comp dia sampai la kul 3-4 pagi..
Next step, Norsha off kan power pc dan cabut pluck...ala..bagi budak2 aged 5..kacang putih je nak letak kan balik pluck and on balik power..
Last step..time dia kat bawah, Norsha cabut wires (3 wires dicabut) kat belakang cpu comp tu ( Norsha make sure buat time dia takde so that dia tak nampak apa yg dibuat )...3 nites went out well..sb dia tido since takde mende kuar kat pc...tiba2 last nite tengok time norsha bangun sahur dia tengah main pc tu..tanya sapa yg sambung wires tu balik..takde sapa ngaku..so, last2 norsha asked him to go down and sekali lagi cabut the wires...then, after dia masuk bilik dia balik...dgn selambanya norsha nampak dia sambungkan balik wires yg tak bersambung tu..and continue playing...
adeiiii..nak buat apa lagi nieeeee...sb he needs to sleep...kalo tak, dalam class, siap cikgu siapkan 1 corner for him to sleep..
need advice...
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Originally posted by norsha at 21-10-2006 10:01 AM
Hie kawan2..
Norsha ada problem lately nie nak tido kan my son aged 5..
Dia gile main dgn comp dia..norsha set time tido dia taknak ikut...dia lock pintu bilik dia after saying good nite dan te ...
Norsha,saya pun pernah mengalami apa yg awak alami tapi tak lama cuma seminggu dua lepas tu masaalah tu settle.Ianya bermula apabila saya mula mula introduce PC kat dorang..dorang punya jakun lepas tu main games sampai tak ingat tido...ape saya buat..saya berikan mereka nasihat2 berguna seperti mlm mlm tak baik baca buku atau main PC nanti mata leh rosak....kedua2 anak saya ikut nasihat saya tapi my eldest son ni ade skit degil lah.Dia sorang yg tak makan advice ...so the last resort..saya terpaksa guna kekerasan...pukul bantai jalan terus..hehehe...lama2 mereka tiga tiga dah ok dah....dah tak main pc mlm mlm lagi.Syukur alhamdulillah.:nerd: |
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don't put the PC in his room.... |
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Originally posted by norsha at 10/20/06 18:01
Hie kawan2..
Norsha ada problem lately nie nak tido kan my son aged 5..
Dia gile main dgn comp dia..norsha set time tido dia taknak ikut...dia lock pintu bilik dia after saying good nite dan te ...
Kes anak Norsha ni pernah jadi dkt sini. Si emak tu sampai nak saman X-box company sebab anak dia asyik 24 jam main computer sampai kena bribe baru berhenti main. Nak tau apa pandangan ibubapa yang membaca masalah itu? dia orang ckp kita as a parents kena control anak kita bukan anak kontrol kita.
Mcm kes norsha ni - you boleh keluarkan Computer tu dari his room. Dia menangis ke merajuk ke you kena buat your own rules dkt anak anak. Remember ''meluntur buluh biar dari rebung''. Nanti kalau dia hari hari main game something bad will happen contoh mata dia rosak - time tidor yang tak teratur yang mana buat badan dia lemah, bila badan lemah senang penyakit sangkut.
Senang senang set password dlm his computer  |
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Originally posted by hairanaz at 22-10-2006 12:30 AM
don't put the PC in his room....
:setuju::setuju:
Lagipun dia baru 5 tahun.. nanti terbantut perkembangannya kalau tak cukup tido + mata rosak..
Prevention is better than cure!! |
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sapi This user has been deleted
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Originally posted by aja_cute at 22-10-2006 02:31 PM
:setuju::setuju:
Lagipun dia baru 5 tahun.. nanti terbantut perkembangannya kalau tak cukup tido + mata rosak..
Prevention is better than cure!!
Ah ahh..lebih baik jgn taruk pc dalam bilik tidur anak sebab kiter tak tahu apa yg dia surf...like me I've got a very small room designed specially for computer only and everyone can just go in there..the room is without door..jadi kiter boleh pantau apa yg anak2 main kat PC tu!!!:nerd:
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Originally posted by aja_cute at 22-10-2006 14:31
:setuju::setuju:
Lagipun dia baru 5 tahun.. nanti terbantut perkembangannya kalau tak cukup tido + mata rosak..
Prevention is better than cure!!
:setuju:..lgpn jgn bg dia control kita, kita yg patut control dia... |
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keluarkan komputer dari bilik..budak2,bila kita tegas/garang sikit mesti dia ikut.jgn manjakan sangat...naik lemak dia.buat jadual harian dan pantau anak2 selalu |
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my boy nie hyperactive + mild autism..not easy to control these kind of kids coz they susah nak understand bila u explain reason, reasoning skill dia org selalunya come later than normal kids...tu pesal apa yg dia suka mmg sediakan for him...
jadual mmg tak jln,..unless with normal kids..cam my doter, leh la jalan..
tapi takperla..this week cuti raya, so, i let him do watever he likes la for this week la.. |
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buat macam saranan beberapa org forumner kat sini..
keluarkan pc tu from his room..
bukan bermakna banned terus..limit his time depan pc..
i do agree dgn darsita..
jgn anak yang kontrol kita, biar kita kontrol anak..
sampai dia dah faham and dengar arahan norsha boleh la nak letak the pc back to his room..
i guess itu je cara terbaik nak anak tido ikut waktu yang betul.. |
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Setuju... Discipline tu penting. Kena impose dr awal... |
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Originally posted by norsha at 23-10-2006 06:21 AM
my boy nie hyperactive + mild autism..not easy to control these kind of kids coz they susah nak understand bila u explain reason, reasoning skill dia org selalunya come later than normal kids...tu ...
in that case norsha,. susah la sikit u nalk mintak nasihat and apply the advice yg diberi kat sini coz most of the advice utk kids yg biasa-biasa.. mungkin you should ask his doc yg diagnosekan autism dia tu.. maybe hw could recommend something..
btw,.. your boy is very bright kan, siap pandai pasang wires tu balik... |
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kanak 2 autism memang kadang2 di luar expectation kita... tak boleh samakan dengan budak2 biasa...
ni lagilah pandai sambung wire balik , maybe dia observed apa yg you buat Norsha... Seem like dia punya determination tu kuat, kalau keluarkan komputer maybe ada masalah lain plak...
I think the best is to consult your doc... as for his/her advice... |
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mmg..kalau keluarkan pc tu mmg akan jadi problem..sb dah try..dia leh terjarang2 semua pintu hse..mmg susah nak handle autism kids nie..
tapi yg bestnyaaa..after dia habis main kat pc..ari2 dia duk cabut that 2 wires tu..sampai cpu pun dah jadi bingung..so, now cpu pc dia takleh guna dah...mak dia nye gelakkan jer la dari jauh..
dia try jugak betulkan..tapi rasanya motherboard rosak..so, mmg tak dapat bukak window..
TAPI....dia masih jugak tido lewat..duk main kereta mainan la..duk main handphone laaaa...duk menyanyi2 lagu raya laaa dalam bilik dia (sampai my doter kena letak bantal kat telinga sb nak tido)..alahai..penat betul dgn anak teruna aku sorang nie.. |
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kat miri nie mmg takde pakar in autism...dah terjah semua hospital...so, terpaksa la wait next year, kita org plan nak pindah kl..baru lah leh start sending him to an expert |
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Originally posted by norsha at 31-10-2006 03:04 PM
kat miri nie mmg takde pakar in autism...dah terjah semua hospital...so, terpaksa la wait next year, kita org plan nak pindah kl..baru lah leh start sending him to an expert
i know how you feel norsha
dgn budak2 camni mmg susah nak reason things out...
anyway...nanti jumpa la dr kader kat plaza 138 tu... kite pon nak buat appointment juga ni
and nak try bawak jumpa dr imam kat hkl sekali.... tgk apa experts ni kata..
All the best to you and me.. |
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ini dah kes autism...very hypeactive...susah nak dgr cakap...anak i 2 tahun lebih psal main game penanh dulu..prob nya ayahnya yg dia suruh main ...tu yg letih tu...sudahnya i sembunyikan laptop tak bg dia nampak...susah kan budak2 skg macam2 yg ada dan boleh distract fokus,kita dulu tak byk macam la ni |
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Salah satu yg penah i buat ialah even skg pun masih amalkan lagi...i biasakan bawak dia outing...i bwk dia main bola,berkebun,biarlah dia kotor main dgn tanah.Bila tiba waktu malam tak sempat jam 8 pm, dah pengsan tido awal. Kesiannya tgk bila dia tdo awal coz penat avitiviti dgn i... |
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Reply #18 PuteraSantubong's post
aku pon wat cam tu ngan budak2 tu..
my daughter.. susah tul nak tido... kira awal la kalau tido kul 11am..
last2.. after skol petang, bagi beskal.. kasi dia main kat playground puas2..
memang awai dorang tido.. |
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bawak playground..mmg selalu bawak my son main kat playground especially week-end (sb weekdays send him full day kat nursery)...kalau kat playground, mmg main sampai penat2, berpeluh2 sampai cam mandi, kakak dgn adik dia balik rumah jer, mandi terus zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz...dia masih aktif cam takde apa2, ntah dari mana dapat energy banyak sgt.. |
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Post time 21-10-2006 10:01 AM
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