Having friends who takes advantages of your...

lealaurielle

I would say I'm a very hyper-sensitive person, with a strong sense of DQ-ness (drama queen). But time after times, friends said that I should learn to control ' the emotions and sense of dq-ness and take things easily.

Masalahnye kat sini, friends tu jugak yang selalu take advantage of my weakness point tu, sedangkan by right they should avoid making me feel upset and all - bukan sekali dua. banyak kali. And as much as I try to overcome this personal weakness of mine, it seems i cant help it and cant do anything much about it anymore sebab day by day, it seems that these friends of mine memang happy dan suke tgk me in such drama mode.

Ade jugak at times I buat tak tahu and that made them upset sebab macam, ape diaorang buat, i tak terasa and tak makan saman la kirenye. But as a normal, weak human being, I have my limits too. Making fun of everything i say, or write in my blog - at times it hurts me so much walaupun bagi diaorang its all hanya lah gurauan...

In need of help - please. I dont want to lose my friends over this but its just getting bad and worse each day.... and when i luahkan perasaan cam ni kat dalam my blog, they'll say "THERE SHE GOES AGAIN - DQ DQ DQ!!!"


Lea

lealaurielle

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kikilalat

Originally posted by lealaurielle at 6-12-2006 04:26 PM
I would say I'm a very hyper-sensitive person, with a strong sense of DQ-ness (drama queen). But time after times, friends said that I should learn to control ' the emotions and sense of dq-ness an ...

lain kali... kalau nak luahkan perasaan etc, buat ler kat personal blog lain... tak payah ler share dgn your so-called 'friends'. :hatdown:

Blues_guy

Find new friends....

lealaurielle

but the thing is kan, I KNOW diaorang melawak - tapi macam, diaorang pulak sengaja nak kecikkan hati kite. I mean, I know diaorang tahu i akan DQ if diaorang buat cam tu - tapi, isk - tah la. Salah sape nih? Salah I sebab tak leh take jokes? Or salah diaorang for dah tahu I nih cepat emo, lagi nak buat sebab it makes them HAPPY?

Confused nye...

Blues_guy

Well... ok,
my next question is, `Ko tahu sebab kenapa ko cepat emo?'

Have you analysed your own personality? Do you accept yourself as what you are or do you wish to change?

Do you like to be around people or are you the type that like to spend more time alone?

Soklan2 sebegini merupakan sebahagian dari proses muhasabah diri. Harap-harap dgn mencuba sedikit inward analysis, dapat menbantu meleraikan kekalutan yg anda alami.. :cool:

lealaurielle

sebab am naturally emotional person and I believe i have accepted myself and try to limitkan my dq-ness tu bilamana diperlukan jer. tapi sini persoalannye, kenapa FRIENDS, yang dah tahu kite cepat terasa dan emo, dan selalu kata "KO KENA BERUBAH LA" tapi hakikatnya THEY ARE NOT HELPING? they're enjoying seeing me getting DQ and point diaorang always the same - "kami nak imunekan ko dengan cara kami so that you wont get DQ all the time" tapi what they dont know is that berbuih2 mulut nih cakap - THATS NOT HELPING. urgh! sometimes kan ada kalanya i feel i am better off alone tapi knowing me, i can never sit tight being alone. but how can nak be with these friends when they're not helping me out. Kite nih try la tannak kecikkan hati diaorang, selalu buat bende2, pikir2kan kawan2 nye prasan dulu - tapi diaorang? ADO?

I thought in life its like "WHAT YOU GIVE, YOU'LL GET BACK" kan? Well am not GETTING what I have been GIVING to my friends nih... urgH!

PS: Ok - sorry... i need air - and that water and air. HEHEHEHEHE...

I'm not trying to get DQ here tau - its just, sometimes I wonder - why ppl tak leh give what I gave them? hmmmmm

Blues_guy

If that's how you feel about your friends, then go back to my post #4.

On a different note, if you expect something back from what you give, you tend to be easily disappointed.. :cool:

lealaurielle

hurmmmm find new friends, ek? hmmmmm

"On a different note, if you expect something back from what you give, you tend to be easily disappointed.." - I guess you're right... *sigh* Thats why they invented INJUSTICE and also the word UNFAIR, kan? heheheh

Thanks anyways Bluesguy

Blues_guy

You're welcome, lea...

It would be lovely if the world is a fair place, but then, where's the challenge? Take care...

lealaurielle

Kan? Mrasalah "I WANT WORLD PEACE" - e eh? tetiber jer? hehehehe OFF TOPIC! hahahaha

eiyoei

i think u too sensitif (sampai buat new topic) :bgrin:

pada pendapat aku baguslah ada kwan mcm tu... walaupun diorag suka sgt sakat ko.. sampai ko emo.. at least u can learn something.. mungkin u can learn how control your emo.. atau how to reverse saiko kat kengkawan ko tu...

andai kata...
ko xde kawan.. (langsung sekor pun tanak berkawan ngan ko)... aku rasa DQ ko lagi hebat... lagi worse dari skang.. nak bersembang xde kawan.. nak gi mkn xde kawan.. kira tunggul kayu la.. lagi 100x lebih teruk emo ko dari sekarang..

pesan aku...
terimalah situasi kwn2 ko skang.. xde sape yang akan ubah peel ko ni... kecuali diri ko sendiri.. dorg just tolong... samalah mcm kami kat sini... cari kawan baru pun... mungkin lagi worse... so jgnlah emo sgt.. x baik tauuuu...

lealaurielle

masalahnye ke kan, diaorang tu TOLONG ke? i think they're technically making me worse - cuba elakkan dari mek dari jadik DQ. mrasalah DQ-ness mek nye level akan kurang day by day. Ini tak, asal saban hari baru menjelma, asik asik ade jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee yang nak kasik mek DQ. motif?

eiyoei

cuba 1 day bersikap tegas... cam garang la... tgk respon diorang lak camne... kalau diorang tak usik2 dah... so mek dah taulah limit dirang camne plak

kalau tak jadi terus kita ke plan B plak ye

lealaurielle

sedangkan jdik TEGAS pon diaorang cakap mek EMO - motif? HAHAHA

PS: Errr - apa plan B nye wak?

eiyoei

plan B? tengah pikir jap :hmm: :bgrin:

ape sebenarnye yg buat mek emo? Kalau tgk movie bleh emo x? Dengar lagu2 yang syahdu pun emo gak ke?

kalau semua benda mek leh emo... dasattt niiii... :gila:

lealaurielle

actually tak der lah se-over tu - its just that I dont like the way my friends MELAWAK. tu je... yang buatkan ai jadik emotionalnye sinik sebab dah berpoloh2 kali cakap "AKU TAK SUKA LA - BOLEH TAK JGN SAGAT SAKAT ORG?" laaaaaaaagi diaorang buat. mek buat bodoh, diaorang LAGI over. hanjeng la! opps!

eiyoei

rasanye plan B yang baru sat ni terpikir :bgrin:

kurang2kanlah kawan ngan diorang.. utk waktu terdekat ni.. kalau diorang still sakat2 lg.. cakap la.. aku dah terima hidayah ni.. korang bile lagi..(ahaks tergelak plak.. masa aku menaip ni)

alah.. mek pun ada kawan lain kan... tak pun slow talk ngan sorang kawan yang close sgt2 ngan mek pastu cite hal ni.. mintak tolong nasiatkan kawan2 yang lain... bole kot...

ni plan B dan C ni :bgrin:

lealaurielle

kan? Hidayah katanya - mek also terkekek gelak - hiks

Question: Which one is plan B and which one is plan C? hahaha mati la mek! LARIIIIIIIIIIIIIi

sayang_mulut

simpati ngan ko..

anyway...aku percaya dan bagus la satu perkara yang baik kalau nak berubah kan..

tapi ingat...dalam kite nak berubah tu..banyak lagi dugaan yang tuhan kasik pada kite...supeya kite betul2 nak berubah kan..aku pun selalu macam tu...nak beubah dari pemalas kepada rajin..tapi time2 ni la banyak bende best yang muncul..kekeke..