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SUKAN...boleh lentur keperibadian anak2
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salam
nak tanya mak/ayah semua...selain drp penekanan akedemik pd anak2, apakah jenis sukan yg perlu mereka buat....perlu ke ada SUKAN yg mereka kena mahir?...
apa kepentingan sukan nie pd keperibadian anak2 yg sedang membesar....
i nie tak suka sukan dr kecik ...dgn mak yg camni, nak galakkan anak bersukan...eeiii, it's not me!!...esp nak berpanas-panas tgh padang....huhuhuhu...nasib baik abah dia suka sport, so tolong bawak bekal berkelah...anak dan abah main bola...bole camtu?
boleh sesapa bagi tips...cemana nak rajinkan mak nie dan apa suka yg sesuai utk anak2 yg sedang membesar nie.... |
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biasanya kan..
bebudak yg x pandai akedemik ni ada kelebihan kat sukan.
biasanya nmpak kat sekolah lah..
maybe dia kuat lari..pandai main bola..dll.
then wakil sekolah..wakil daerah..negeri n ke negara.. |
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satu lagi kan,ma rasa mcm keturunan lah..
kalau mabpk dia aktif sport..ank dia pun maybe terikut.
tak kira boy or gurl.,
kalau nak jwp alja tanye,tips..
rasanya santai bersama ank2 boleh kut..
petang2 main badminton sesama..
bwk p tmn jogging sesame ke.. |
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bab sukan ni, mac lihat anak2 kalau excel in sports pun atas sebab dorongan ibubapa. Kalau nak tgk bakat anak digilap sekolah, maybe in sports like olahraga boleh la kut.
Yang mac lihat . Kalau terror dalam swimming, badminton, squash, tennis,..... semuanya sebab mak ayah hantar anak2 belajar ke personal coach.
Bola, I'm not sure. Maybe sekolah boleh gilap kut sbb anak mac cakap, siapa nak masuk football clinic, kena datang latihan twice a week kat sekolah. |
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menjawab soalan ajla, perlukan sukan yang mereka mahir......
I would say, perlu. Esp mac is the type yang nak anak masuk boarding school. And nak anak active sentiasa. Having said that, my no2 tak mahir dalam apa2 sukan, walaupun mac dah dedahkan dia dalam pelbagai jenis sukan. She is just not the athletic type. So if macam tu, nak buat macamana la kan. But she has a different talent which is debate and apa2 yang require her to stand in public and talk.
Mac dapati sending my children to taekwondo makes them tougher which is good esp to my no 3 girl yang a bit girlie-girlie.... hehe. They learn to be discipline too. |
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Reply #3 luv_ma's post
tu yg malas tu ma ....
setakat bawak bekal, berkelah....i rajinlah
nak main sekali, malasnyaaaaaaaaa...... |
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Reply #5 macademia's post
oo...camtu ye mac, anak mac yg sulung n second aktif sukan apa?
haritu i sembang dgn guru besar sekolah, dia pun cakap benda yg sama cam mac...kebanyakkan anak2 yg pergi competition thru sekolah semuanya atas komitmen mak/ayah yg ada private coach....jadi depa cuma bertanding jika ada pertandingan antara sekolah2...
i pun so-so aje sebenarnya pasal sukan nie, setakat berhobi tu dahlaaa...tapi hubby plak cam serius bab nie, dia nak anak dia ada satu sukan individu dan satu lagi group cam football....
dedulu budak sukan nie, nampak aktif sgt tapi akedemik cam tak kisah...tapi kalo tgk hubby plak, dia balance 2-2 quite OK...so dia taknak anak dia jadi nerd sebab baca buku aje....
sesapa hantar anak buat driving range(btol ke ejaan) nie..utk golf? |
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satu lagi pertanyaan pd mak/ayah yg hantar anak masuk swimg class....selain drp survival skill, maybe 2 -3 jenis gaya renang...apa lagi yg u all target?...nak masuk competition ke atau just cont.?...
anak i dah masuk swimg dekat 1thn dah rasanya dan dia dah boleh berenang 2-3 jenis gaya gaklah....perlu kah i stop dan tumpukan pd sukan lain pulak....nak suruh dia serius dlm sukan nie cam susah aje sebab selalu nak gi pun kena paksa .... |
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Originally posted by luv_ma at 25-2-2008 01:09 PM 
biasanya kan..
bebudak yg x pandai akedemik ni ada kelebihan kat sukan.
biasanya nmpak kat sekolah lah..
maybe dia kuat lari..pandai main bola..dll.
then wakil sekolah..wakil daerah..negeri n ...
nie yg tak berkenan sgt nie ma...
ramai anak2 sedara/kawan yg aktif sukan tapi cikgu cam make used of them utk nama sekolah...sampaikan takde masa utk belajar, waktu prep petang dia berlatih...waktu malam aje dia sempat tgk buku....tapi kalo tgk hubby, dia excell plak 2-2 tu....dia wakil sekolah sampai ke thai masa sekolah menengah...
taknak plak jadi camtu ekk... |
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Originally posted by my-alja at 25-2-2008 03:18 PM
oo...camtu ye mac, anak mac yg sulung n second aktif sukan apa?
haritu i sembang dgn guru besar sekolah, dia pun cakap benda yg sama cam mac...kebanyakkan anak2 yg pergi competition thru sekol ...
my no1 active in taekwondo, swimming and bowling. Itupun bowling tak terbuat sangat sebab no time.
my no2, altho taekwondo dah red belt and swimming pun dah khatam all 4 strokes, tapi dia tak masuk competition sbb kurang bakatnya. THen atas permintaan dia, masukkan pulak bowling.... tapi still..... so basically dia ni bersukan la cuma tak masuk competition.
kalau nak bersukan setakat hobi..... entahla. I'm the type yang ajar anak agar buat things bersungguh2 and all out, immaterial bab belajar atau bersukan.
Unless my girl dok serius dalam taekwondo but nak berhobi bab bowling..... itu i dont mind.
FYI, kat sekolah anak mac, every year budak yg terror academic yg mostly terror sukan..... sebab selalunya yg kelas2 belakang selalu ponteng training, walaupun ada bakat. so bakat dia setakat bakat la, not properly polished. |
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Reply #10 macademia's post
ur doter yg active taekwando dan swimg tu, memang masuk competition ke?....
for me as hobby pun dah gud enuf...hehehe, agaknya i nie pun bukan jenis built-up athelit...dan tgk pd kecenderungan anak nie gaklah, like swimg.....dia memang tak suka swimg tapi dia kena paksa ..begitu gak taekwando....punnn kena paksa, u tahu sendirilah mac kalo jenis buat benda kena paksa....bukan kat situlah talent dia ...setiapkali nak pegi gaduh dulu dgn i....setiapkali! |
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Originally posted by my-alja at 25-2-2008 03:35 PM
satu lagi pertanyaan pd mak/ayah yg hantar anak masuk swimg class....selain drp survival skill, maybe 2 -3 jenis gaya renang...apa lagi yg u all target?...nak masuk competition ke atau just cont. ...
well, pada mac setahun belajar swim tu, sebenarnya belum pandai sangat. maybe sekarang dia ingat, but i can bet after a few months mesti dah lupa. And as moms, kita ingat dia dah pandai. Tapi strokes dia mungkin banyak cacatnya di mata coach.
my expectation terpulang pada the child itself. samaada dia minat ke tak.
anak u bored? well the same thing happened to my 9 yr old girl. In january, siap menangis depan coach. Kebetulan i found a different coach (i tak cari) and in feb started off my 2 kids dgn coach baru ni.
Now after a month dgn coach baru, my girl yang sibuk taknak2 swim dulu, dah aim for competitions pulak..... Now ni, dok call me right after school suruh i balik cepat sebab nak g swim class. so maybe anak u tak serasi or dah bored or maybe tak minat withe swimmming. Slowtalk la dgn dia. |
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Originally posted by my-alja at 25-2-2008 03:53 PM
ur doter yg active taekwando dan swimg tu, memang masuk competition ke?....
for me as hobby pun dah gud enuf...hehehe, agaknya i nie pun bukan jenis built-up athelit...dan tgk pd kecenderungan ...
my no1 masuk competition in taekwondo, swim and bowling.
opps nak betulkan sikit my no2 masuk bowl competition.... tapi dok kalah aje la.
now my 9 yr old girl tgh aim nak masuk taekwondo competition and swimming competition. and since i tengok my 8 yr old son pun tegap swim dia, maybe i want to try him out. |
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Originally posted by my-alja at 25-2-2008 03:40 PM
nie yg tak berkenan sgt nie ma...
ramai anak2 sedara/kawan yg aktif sukan tapi cikgu cam make used of them utk nama sekolah...sampaikan takde masa utk belajar, waktu prep petang dia berlat ...
you nak tau tak schedule swim yang wakil negeri?
5am - 8am
5pm - 8pm
everyday....... semput tau.... dahla masuk kelas lambat...... (ini budak primary school .....) sanggup tak?
if u taknak anak u take a lot of time utk practise, you surveyla sport apa yg tak perlu practise everyday. Eg taekwondo ni practise bermusim...... hehe |
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Originally posted by macademia at 25-2-2008 03:54 PM
well, pada mac setahun belajar swim tu, sebenarnya belum pandai sangat. maybe sekarang dia ingat, but i can bet after a few months mesti dah lupa. And as moms, kita ingat dia dah pandai. Ta ...
hahahha....memang pun mac, i memang tak puas hati lagi  ...setakat terapung tu nampaklah tapi blom grace dlm air...berkocak satu kolam renang....
i duk tanya gak mak2 lain tapi yg lain semuanya setakat beberapa bulan dah henti...tu yg i musykil gak tu....dan ade org kata, belajar swimg nie cam belajar naik basikal...takleh lupa once u dah dapat kemahiran tu....
i plak igt nak sambung aje...buat cam aktiviti utk dia tapi setakat sekarang dia tak aim utk masuk pertandingan apa2lah.... |
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Originally posted by macademia at 25-2-2008 03:57 PM
my no1 masuk competition in taekwondo, swim and bowling.
opps nak betulkan sikit my no2 masuk bowl competition.... tapi dok kalah aje la.
hehehe...utk permulaan rasanya, i nak dia cuma rasa the heat to be in the competition...slowly calm himself to start off...maksud i, tak jatuh pengsan kat situ..cukuplah dulu...huhuhuh
susah oo...nak calm urself dlm pertandingan camtu.... |
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Reply #1 my-alja's post
neisya pulak suka alja...suka anak2 bersukan sbb nampak aktif...kalau tak bersukan...asyik main PS je...mandom lak kan...
tp neisya mcm u gak alja...masa belajar dulu. mmg tak aktif sukan...lebih2 lagi lumba lari ke apa ke....tp kalau bola jaring neisya suka la...
dan neisya beruntung sbb my hb ni mmg aktif sukan...kalau tgk cert dia...berlambak2 sukan dia masuk..wakil daerah..wakil negeri..wakil sekolah tak yah cakaplah...tp my hb sekolah asrama penuh...sekolah aliran sains lagi...pelajaran pun excellent gak...
n sampai sekarang dia minat sukan....hmmm..masalah gak bagi neisya...selalu kena tgu anak kat rmh....
so utk menjawah soklan alja tu...perlu ke tak perlu smpai mahir....ikut kesukaan anak2 la..
tp mcm alja dah hb suka sport....neisya rasa should be no problem la kan...sbb salah sorang dari parent derang suka sport..kalau 2 2 suka...sape lak nak masak kat rumah.....
alja sediakan bekal dah la...hehe |
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Reply #8 my-alja's post
neisya bawak anak2 belajar berenang sbb derang tak dapat peluang mcm kita dulu belajar swim kat sungai....kesian kan budak2 sekarang...
u tau alja...anak i leh apunkan diri kat air....tanpa tenggelam...i tak pandai yg ni sbb rasa tak confident....ehe |
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Reply #17 neisya's post
moral support kannnn.....sediakan air dan foods, cam semalam pergi park dekat dgn rumah....anak nie main bola dgn abahnya, terjumpa plak my fren yg lepak kat situ gak dgn family...meriah makan2...heheheh
sama gak kalo swimg...i makan2 gak kat tepi pool
reason my hubby utk anak masuk sukan nie sebagai self-competition dan kalo group sport ni utk teamwork....kalo utk self-competition, kena carik sukan yg compete against himself....
sebab lain dia kata, thru sports anak2 jadi lebih disiplin dan boleh divert dia punya life selain drp akedemik .... boleh lepas geram kat padang, kononnya....hehehe |
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Reply #18 neisya's post
i know the feeling....
bangga tgk anak tu terapung....hahahah, sekarang nie my son buat gaya terapung dan kuak kaki ..tgn kat atas...cute sgt, cam ulat dlm air... |
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Post time 25-2-2008 12:32 PM
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