|
|
Peace be Upon to all my frens,
Just nak share. I just got married n it's a second marriage,to both of us. Jodoh dah tertulis yg kami berdua diijabkabulkan time my husband bru keluar belajar n not yet working. me on the other hand, sudah lama berkerja n have my own apartment n car. Rite now sudah terasa beban juga since i bear all the expenses, from utilities till food n you name it everything tapi dunno to whom to share with sometimes feel that i can't bear it.
Especially when i discover, yeah kitaorg x buat Wedding,just nikah sahaja besides,I had my so called Wedding of the Year with my ex husband..For me, Wedding grand pun tak menjamin kebahagiaan. Until Recently i discovered thru my brother in law's facebook ada lagi gambar wedding my husband dia dgn ex dia dlm album family. Omg!!! Sakitnya hati tengok. bila mentioned to my husband, dia kata it's his brother's fb so maybe dia just tak perasan. He never even say to his brother to delete it. He said he already moved on and it's just a picture. Yang penting this Year, kita dapat ambil gambar baru lagi Cantik. Dia kata.
Despite his saying..I just can't take it. Eventho i was with my ex husband for 9 years, all of his pictures i dah delete. tak simpan langsung,outta the picture. n here he who divorced before me the picture is still there.I try nak pujuk hati tapi tak dapat. Anyone can feel me here? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
cik kecibung,
dia pernah jadi sebahagian dr hidup ur husband
skang dah jadi sejarah dan kenangan
you cannot expect sejarah itu di delete dan kenangan itu di padam
apa yang kamu buat itu adalah pilihan kamu
tapi kamu tak boleh harap org lakukan pekara yang sama
penting ke dia delete gambar tu kalau gambar tu sekadar kenangan lepas?
kamu nak dia delete gambar ke nak delete gambar dlm hati dia?
seriously, kamu ni sengaja nak menyusahkan hati sendirilah... |
Rate
-
1
View Rating Log
-
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
cik kecibung,
dia pernah jadi sebahagian dr hidup ur husband
skang dah jadi sejarah dan kenangan ...
beldandy Post at 29-3-2012 12:51 
agreed..
yg lepas tu lepas..
jgn sangka buruk..jgn sangka bukan-bukan
fokus untuk ms skrg and future..
kalu skrg pon duk ungkit2 kisah2 lepas..mkn hati sbb kenangan silam
cmne nk hepi skrg..nk bina hepi in future? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
satu lagi..
suh inche suami anda kerja..
part time keje kepsi mekdi or stesen minyak pon xpe
jnji kerja
sampai bila awak nk tanggung beban segala...
ms syg xpe la..dh benci nnti sumer diungkit |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
suami aku simpan gambar ex dia & anak2 masa diorg bahagia dulu, dia simpan dalam dompet lagi tau. aku tak rasa apa2 pulak.
nasihat utk TT, awak tu dah ada experience sebelum ni, jd jangan malukan kaum ppuan dgn cemburu tak tentu pasal semata2 tgk gambar kat facebook. kalau nak cakap ttg segala expenses yg awak kena tanggung tu, its your choice, honey. bagi dia peluang dulu, tp jangan manjakan suami sangat. kot2 la kalau dia akan naik lemak dgn kebaikan isteri dia.
tapi kalau rasa2 dah fed up, buatla apa yg sepatutnya. awak lebih tahu. |
Rate
-
1
View Rating Log
-
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ni marah pasal en suami tak kerja lagi ker atau pasal pic weeding lama nih???
acik D rasa lelaki mmg tak teliti hal2 macam gambar kat FB tak delete tu small matter to them
tapi yg harus di risaukan is hubby tak kerja tu. but then again b4 kawin pun tau dah situasi tu kan... so why la kawin jugak . napa tak tunggu dia kerja dulu baru nikah??
so kena je lah terima and usahakan supaya dia dpt kerja cepat2 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
So problem dia pasal duit dan gambarlah. Sepatutnya benda ni dah disettlekan sebelum agreed nak kawin dulu. Since dah selamat pun ada baiknya cadangkan your hubby cari part time job sekurang2nya tak da lah U rasa tertekan bab2 perbelanjaan. Pasal gambar sesetengah orang takes times to get rid all of that. Kalau dia pun dah tak heran jadi kena sabar sikit bab ni. So sekarang kenapa nak pening2kan kepala yang lebih penting sekarang how U going to make this second time around to be a successful ones. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
puan cikebung ni marah pasal suami x kerja kan??? 
tapi sbb xleh lepas pasal masalah duit kebetulan ada kisah salah yg lain tu yg terungkit pasal gamborrr tu... betul x??  |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
patutla laki aku tak bg aku tgk langsung gmbr dia dgn ex awek dia masa dulu...takut aku pikir bkn2 gamaknya....laki aku tau aku ni cemuru tahap langit ke7 ha....
er..mana gmbr tu ek..kalu aku carik aku yg sakt hati....bek dok dendiam..
pn TT....toksah amik kisahla...yg penting dia syg awak dan ex dia tak kacau ur hubby dhla.. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
nak marah pasal kes DUIT ke pasal gambar?
tapi, misti pasal duit kan? betul tak..betul tak..betul tak?
gambar tu perencah ajer..
malas la nak cakap byk2.. dah kawen kan? sila sabarrrrrrrrrrrrrrr & redhooooooooooo.. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
gambar dlm fb tu BIL u punya.. xperlu la kot nak bising2. xkan nak control sampai ke abg ipar pulak... ish xsesuweiiii
hubby u xkerja lg. tp dia ada scholarship or loan tak? ke dia belajar pun u tanggung? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
iyeee...
laki i pun simpan lagik gambor awek dulu
tp bior lah..
masa sesama kemas album2 right after kitorang kawin tu dia ckp tu kenangan lepas
kalau dia nak dia blh kawin dgn awek dia..tapi dia pilih I...
so bel pun takde nak sakit hati bagai |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
gambar tu dalam fb brother in law kan? so why nak meroyan plak...suka hati la bro-in law tu nak letak gambar ape pun....lain la kalau gambar tu dalam fb husband u...blh la u bising2. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
omg, aku pun ada fb gambar kawin BIL dengan ex dia dalam album kenangan lalu. Patut tarik keluar ke?
Tapi tak payah kot sebab bini baru dia 10 kali lebih gorgeous dari yg dulu. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
dont worry tt, later dia akan carik/kawin ngan awek baru. ko x yah tanggung dia lagi. 
fasal gambar tu pulak dont worry. since korang buat simple je, gambar x banyak.. so x akan mejadi masalah kpd his future gf/wifey. 
apa yg kita buat hari ini tidak akan memberi kesan kepada masa lampau. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
memories are not hard drives which u can just erase. if u find it over barring~~ be a virus to him. simple. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
you are not learn from mistake.... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Thanks for all your comments.. Saya akan terima dengan hati yang terbuka.. Sometimes Ada juga Meroyan, or in a way paranoid or kind of Immature. Bcuz my previous marriage my ex hubby ada affair with his ex gf. of course klu u're in my shoes pun ada jugak terasa, tapi InsyaAllah!! Will try to overcome apa2 perasaan n tidak berfikiran Negatif... Sajer nak share cuz i tak berani share with anyone only here... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Reply 18# kecibung_abang
be smart and use brain to solve problem... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Reply 1# kecibung_abang
pd aku kenangan x kenangan.. lama ttp lah lame. kalau dia ade ank dgn yg lame then only bole contact dgn yg lame. klu takde, takyah nk ngade2 laa.. xkire la die hdup brapa lama skali pon dgn yg lama.. bkn masalah jeles. tapi kalau dah skali buat keputusan fikir betol2. bkn ke sbb yg lama tuh dia bcerai? then skrg nk ingat2 balik buat apa.. kan dah jadi masalah besar skrg ni.. mmg bkn senang nk ditanggung tapi ini lah tuntutan dan perkara yg kene tahu sbelom cerai. tt cube la slow talk dgn dia.. ckp leklok. ape yg tt nak ape yg tt xnak. abg die pon 1 hal. ade ke gitu. past is past la.. abg aku pon kawin baru, ktorg adk bdk syg yg lame n suke. kat fb pon siap buat group utk jage ati due2 pihak. dah empunya diri pilih yg baru nak buat camne..? mesti la ade sbb die kan? xla kami anti kakak ipar baru tuh.. cume kurg ngam. yg lame tuh dah berbelas tahun. huhuhuhu..
pasal kerja tuh plak payah la centu. klu laki tak kje.. ikhlas cemane pon bini 1 hari nnti kene kes ungkit gak(x smua). bahaya. bile dah ade sakit sikit, mule la smua nampak salah.. padahal awal2 xde ape pon masalah. boleh je 'i jump u jump' kuikuikuikuikui..
yg penting kat sini kene duduk bebincang.. |
Rate
-
1
View Rating Log
-
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
|
Post time 29-3-2012 12:28 PM
变色卡
Post time 29-3-2012 02:57 PM
Author
