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How to tackle the in lawsss..
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First of all,let me introduce my story..
I already married n have 1 child..my bf also married n got 1 child.. Actually it is my ex bf 10 years before...
We met again at school reunion.. Started that day we always contact each other n hagging out together..
.at first we assume as a friend but at the end of the day we realised that we still have a feeling with each other...
For ur information my bf already divorce his wife n I also divorce too..
We plan to married as soon as possible but the problem started when my future inlaws still can't accept me as new future wife to their son...
I know that i'm the gulity one but u know the jodohh kan...I already do everything to ambit hati. But failed...
Maybe all of u think I' m the cruel one but when u falling in love with ur truly love u know how I felt....
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Dikkkkk ko nak mampus ker dikkkkk.... Ko carikkk nahas la dikkkkk |
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bagi emas berkoyan-koyan..confirm jadi menantu pilihan.. |
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sorry to hurt you..but what i just want to say..dasar isteri yg dilaknat |
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Edited by munchkin at 9-5-2015 04:09 AM
cubalah amik hati. selalunya kalau in law tak accept susah juga.
kenapa you kata you guilty tak paham.
TT tulis dalam bm lah. tak paham apa you cakap. |
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kenapa dilaknat?
aku rasa dia nak ckp dia pernah kawin tp dah cerai..??
well tt..aku tabik kau konfiden tulis english..
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Ok aku baca 2x nak paham english ko 
Eii keji la korang ni masing2 dah kawen buat prangai. Senangnye bagi alasan dah jodoh. Aku doakan korang punye exes menemui kebahagiaan. Untuk ko dgn pasangan baru ni sukati korang la nak buat hape pun. Koser sgt nak kasi tips dgn orang macam ko ni. |
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Ko dan bf sudah bercerai atau Belum masa korang jumpa? Kalau bf Ko ceraikan wife dia Sebab nak kawin Dengan Ko, alamat sampai kiamat Mak mentua susah nak terima.... |
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1) is there any particular reason why your inlaws hate u that much?
2) both of u divorce after the reunion or way before that?
need u to clarify this before i can continue with some ideas or comments... |
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Have you ask your future in laws why they cant accept you?and you said you are guilty..guilty of what?in the time your falling in love again..are you both divorced already or still someone husband and wife. |
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shit girl, write properly next time will ya? |
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Ok. Both of u are divorcees now. And I am assuming that the reason for both your divorce and his is bcoz you two want to rekindle long lost love and be together in marriage. Right? Pls do correct me if I'm wrong.
1st, the bad stigma is already there about u two. U can't blame others (especially yr future in laws) for not welcoming u wiz open hands. To them, u are the reason for their son/brother's broken marriage.
2nd, I personally don't think that all hope is lost. U can try to win their heart somehow after marriage. Be nice. Be polite. Be sincere. Be humble. Just because you two didn't stick to the norm (stick wiz your spouse and ignore your feelings towards old flames), that doesn't mean u r bad people. Selfish maybe, but not bad.
Past is past. U can't undone it now. Just focus on your future. Good luck
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Tq for a nice comment... Yes.. The divorce happen after we met...
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Number 2.. We divorce after reunion.. Peace.....tq yaaa
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i guess the reason of your future inlaws hate u that much coz they are looking at u as a monster that has destroyed one good family... their own son/brother's family... and at the same time, they will label u as unfaithful wife which resulting to another prejudgment : u will do the same to their son/brother in future :
if u still insist to pursue with this marriage, u are going to have a very hard time... believe me... what u can do is to show them your sincerity to ur future hb and inlaws but at the same time please dont be pushy... give them some time... u cant expect any miracle happen in a short time for this kind of marriage...
u have to do it slow and steady... u have to observe when is the right time to approach them, when to keep quiet, when to shut down, and all... keyword : dont be pushy...
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meh aku tolong...
aku nak kawen tapi inlaws aku benci aku... takleh terima aku...
kami penah kapel 10 tahun yang lepas, jumpa balik masa reunion... pastu selalu jumpa n lepak as a friend... tetiba lama2 aku dan dia sedar yang kami masih sayang menyayangi antara satu sama lain...
lantas kami bercerai dengan pasangan memasing supaya kami dapat kawen...
tu la point penting dia...
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aku rasa @NORIZALHAMZAH cakap camtu sebab mereka bercerai dengan pasangan memasing untuk menyambung kembali cinta 10 tahun yang dulu...
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Perosak rumah tangga org selayaknyalah dpt layanan cenggitu dek. |
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Laaaa
Kawin je laaaa
Lepas tu hadap sesama... Untung sabut timbul... Untung batu tenggelam...
X happy kaluuuu, cerai lah... Bukan mati pun |
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Ehhhh soalan nya aper ye...? Heheh terpesong aku ni
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Post time 9-5-2015 12:09 AM
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