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Originally posted by lipans at 9/6/07 08:30 PM 
Boleh jadi betul, boleh jadi fitnah. Proof ape yg boleh dibagi pun.... gambar? pengakuan bersumpah? vcd? dulu mane ade mende ni. Kalau nak proof yg sahih pun, dna je la. Takkan la semata-mata nak ...
pada aku nak solat istikharah on it is fine. but there could be two niat for the solat that she could do here.
1) minta guidance dari Allah on whether or not she should marry the guy or not, regardless of the real fact about this ancestors.
2) minta gaidance dari Allah on whether or not she should marry the guy, who came from keturunan yang tak baik.
I think #2 is not ok. since when performing the solat, she's made up her mind that the guy is indeed from keturunan yang tak baik, before it's ever proven (unless of course if it's actually proven to be true, which is hard). I don't think it's fair, I don't think it's what the religion teaches. |
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Originally posted by syahza at 7-9-2007 11:42 AM 
tapi bukan jodoh di tgn tuhan ker? Kalo dah buat solat istikharah... & ade petunjuk yg dia la pilihan yg tepat... so masa tu keturunan patut kah dipersoalkan...
pssstttttt...............dah buat ker SOLAT ISTIQARAH nyer?? Syahza
Kalau dah buat.............PATUHI jer laaa.
CARA/KAEDAH utk melembutkan hati ibu bapa??
Ada pelbagai cara yg bley di gunapakai.
1. doa/solat
2. pujuk
3. bermuzakarah
4. tunjukkan kematangan/kedewasaan
5. bersabar
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restu ibubapa penting dlm hubungan suami isteri n keluarga. maybe ur famili rasa xselamat n xconfident ngn pilihan shya. mungkin juga bf shya xpandai amik hati famili shya kot. kalu parent nampak akhlak n agama bakal menantu dia baik, sure diorg terimanye. brdoa byk2 n try bincang ngn bf k.
syarat2 memilih calon suami @ isteri:
-berharta
-sedap mata memandang
-keturunan yg baik2
-beragama (ni yg sebaik2 nye) |
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Post time 7-9-2007 05:17 PM
