Macam mana untuk melepaskan diri drpd dihantui igauan masalah pada masa lalu?

DanIno

Susah betul...
Tak tahu nak kata pa lagi...

blue_april

snng jer..redha la dgn apa yg dh trejadi....
n teruskan hidup cam biasa....

klu x redha smpai bile2 pun nko x leh lupakan kisah silam nko...

sibel

rasa bersalah? hmmm ... ni dah open ke atau masih simpan diam2

ade beberapa perkara boleh dilakukan ...
pertama...
kalau masih dalam simpanan ..x share ngan sape2 .. well .. just mourn to max .. and then move on ...
sebab .. kekadang .. ada baiknya yang dah lepas ... kita lepaskan ...
melainkan .. ko rasa .. its so tempting to share with others ... kene ingat .. every actions there's reaction ..
action tu ok .. but reaction .. it hurts more than you can bare ...

kedua ... nak hilangkan ?
pertama ... you need to remember .. you are not alone ... dan jangan biarkan diri sengsorang .. meratapi masa depan dan masa belakang. Kawan2 ada... so make use of them ... x de kawan? jangan khuatir .. sms rakan atau try to respond to any advertisement ... sama ada mencari CINTA ... atau anything ... just make sure ...
you are not along ... still failed to find on? ... try karaoke ... its a good exercise... at least to your lung and your vocal ... kalau lelaki ... and you are musleem .. perhaps you should try to "azan" at any mosque or suraus..
ive try it ... it works!!!
Secondly, buat-buat sibuk. xde keje? well dont fret... just confront your boss ..and ask for extra work ...
make use of your brain ... make it work for you .. for things that non related to your problem. Is your problem still comes in and out like bit and pieces of the movie? well... think about something else... math problem?
world's problem .. environment issues? feed and animal industries issues ... economic issues .. there are a lot of issues that you can choose from...

Thirdly, if you are musleem ... (actually this is the first thing that you should do).... repent to HIM... the mighty... share your sorrow .. your problem with you know who ... recite quran ... do things that can make you feel great about yourself... perhaps come down to any youth centre ... or better... visit the orphanages ...
shower them with your love.... and flourish the love in the air...

hey...its time for you to fill your emptiness with great and good positive vibes.....
be hip and funky ... go into sport ... who knows .. someday .. you will be come a renown athelete. Bicycle? martial artist? basketballer .. foot baller ... or just a regular chess player .. who cares ....

actually .. sorry for taking you time .. reading all those ... perhaps someone will call it as nonsense.

My point is MOVE ON !!!!!!

sakurahati

life must goes no...smlm tu dah berlalu..esok belom tentu lagi utk kita..yg ada cuma hari ini..yg penting ko jgn hidup dlm kenangan silam tu..

limauais

aku pun asik ingat je kisah lalu... wpun dah lebih 10 thn aku ttp igt sampai bile2 pe dia dah buat....:@

mmglah leh maafkan tp sukar nk melupakan...!

tp dia cm buat2 tak tau je... tak penah nk mintak maaf...!

abe_juzz

kembalilah kepada hakikat diri kita... Wala haula wala quwwatailla billahil aliyyil azim...tidak ada daya upaya kita melainkan Allah jua.

tidak ada manusia yang sempurna, tidak ada manusia yang sunyi dari kesilapan dan keterlanjuran. hakikat kejadian adalah untuk kita berfikir dan menginsafinya.

pohonlah maaf (jika dengan manusia) dan ampun (dengan Allah). jadilah mukmin, banyakkan amal ma'aruf, cegahlah kemungkaran.

kembali dan berpegang teguhlah kepada 2 sumber pegangan kita; al-quran dan as-sunnah, insya allah...

Minleter

Susah gak nak kasi pendapat since you tak explain in detail apa masalahnya. emmm kalau dosa yg dilakukan tu tehadap ibubapa, kalau diorang masih ada...minta maaf secara ikhlas dengan mereka and janji jangan buat lagi, perbaiki perhubungan dengan mereka, cuba sedaya upaya untuk menggembirakan hati mereka, kalau diorang dah tak ada, berbanyaklah berdoa agar tuhan ampunkan dosa diorang, sedekahkan al Fatihah/Yasin/ etc.