Early Pregnancy - threatened to abortion

meowlin

alhamdulillah.. sekarang ni dah bapa bulan dah.. ke ko dah dpt baby..

HoneyD

in case klau kandungan tu tak menjadi n ur wife kene go thru dnc again, after dnc tu jgn terus terjah.. tunggu dulu smpai rahim betul2 kuat.. nak bagi suggestion sket, maybe ur wife boleh amik BIDADARI. bidadari ni bagus utk kuatkan rahim n etc. ni bukan promote brg, saya bukan seller. tp penah try bidadari ni n memang bagus.. boleh refer kat board BFT for further details..

AznieBunnie

iya... me ambil bidadari pun trus lekat.

nuds

medang...aku nak tanya...ko kena jwb jujur ...bila mana ko tahu wife ko ngandung...ko ada bersama tak???

kalau ko nak tahu..most of the gynae melarang bersama sampailaaa 3-4 bulan....nak2 plak sapa yg penah abort, PCOS, etc....mmgggg lgsg tak boleh sampai abih 1st trimester tu...

so aku nasihatkan ko...jgn stress...semua org nak anak...ko kena sabar...

aku pon minggu2 terawal bleeds...pastu...tak nampak apa ponggg...tapi aku doa byk2..sbb aku after 4 yrs baru ada rezeki...alhamdulillah...selamat dahhh...now dah 8 bulan anak aku...

medang..ko kasik amal doa nih..ko n wife ko...baca...usap kat perut....YA MUBDi...YA MUBDI...maksunya yang menjadikan...selawat byk2..usap kat perut....

lg satu...SETAHUUUU AKU laaa..lepas misscariage...3 bulann kena kasikkkkk resttt...aku tahu ko tahu...cuma wife ko tak sabar ekkk...ko kena nasihat skett....

tak reti aku nak nasihat org...so medang...good luck ekk...

AznieBunnie

ya la... hubby kena hati kering skit time-time genting mcm ni.

kepoci

kepo pun pernah miss carry mase nak 2 bln. baby tak membesar.
lepas gugur doc suruh rest jgn cpt2 pregnant. relax dulu 2 atau 3 bln. kepo after genap 6 bln baru dpt pregnant balik.  mase nak menunggu 6 bln tu mcm nak nangis jek rase..

AnitaSabrina

For me masa pregnant husband puasa for the whole duration of my pregnancy.  

Don't worry too much.  Whatever will be will be.  Tawakal & redha with whatever eventuality that will occur.  What you can do is make sure your wife is being treated by a damn good doctor.  You will hear lots of stories of pregnant ladies yang bleed masa pregnant - ada yang go on to have healthy babies and there are some that miscarry.  

If your wife has another miscarriage you should have her tested for any abnormalities in her which is causing the miscarriages.  The fact that she's able to get pregnant means you are okay.  So it could be something else.  Read the miscarriage thread ada banyak info kat situ.  

By the way, I've had 4 miscarriages & I have 2 absolutely adorable boys.  So don't despair.    I know it can be all-consuming but both of you have got to relax and take it easy.  Get books on pregnancy & bacalah Quran - it can very comforting in times of distress.  Insyallah everything will be okay.  Remember your baby can feel what your wife is feeling.  So it does no good to cry so much kesian lah kat baby tu.  Try to be happy & insyallah your baby will grow healthy & strong.

DARSITA

Originally posted by medangtamang at 1/10/08 15:20


Thanks kak Dar... at least lega la sket wife medang nnt.... thanks again!!!

Sama sama  ... kawin tak jemput kawan kawan pun ek!

Sorry off-topic sikit --  Abang you still kat US ke? and kenapa tak masauk CARI idol?

|Lham

me pun ada experience cam wife medang gak.
1st n 2nd pregnancy end up with miscarriage.
yg 1st mase 10 wks n yg 2nd plak 12 wks.
both miscarriage kena buat d&c.
gap pun dkt2 jer...1st d&c bln dec, 2nd d&c bln mac.
pastu stress gak psl mcm susah nak lekat...lg la bile kat opis nengok ramai gile yg pregnant...bertambah2 la tension.
plus mulut2 yg asyik dok tanye bile nak prenant...bile nak pregnant...sakit ati tol...

after 6 mths kosong, br la lekat...tu pun mase early pregnancy ada blood spotting...
gi jumpe gynea n starting from 5 wks kena amik hormone pills n also hormone jap sampai la 12 wks...
Alhamdulillah this time baby ok n now dah nak masuk 20 mos old plus dah nak dpt adik lagi this coming february...