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seribulan · Post time 9-9-2007 05:03 PM

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...BRAGGING...

True-X · Post time 10-9-2007 10:46 PM

BRAGGING. = rase superior than others kan...

.. berlagak lebey

seribulan · Post time 12-9-2007 01:46 PM

Adakah dikira 'bragging' jika anda bercerita sesuatu yang
hebat berlaku dalamhidup anda.

Apa beza 'bragging' dan 'telling tall stories'?

aw76 · Post time 12-9-2007 01:53 PM

Originally posted by seribulan at 12-9-2007 01:46 PM
Adakah dikira 'bragging' jika anda bercerita sesuatu yang
hebat berlaku dalamhidup anda.

Apa beza 'bragging' dan 'telling tall stories'?

bragging is like 'over' informing others of what a person have done / accomplished.

telling tall stories is a story or a statement that is hard to believe because it is too exciting or interesting.

the authenticity of tall stories are questionable but bragging are usually something that is true.

my-alja · Post time 12-9-2007 04:24 PM

if u cannot beat them, join them....

nashra · Post time 12-9-2007 06:49 PM

yes..

some people boleh tersalah anggap tentang seseorg yang bercerita perkara yang bagus2 dlm hidupnya..

so derang labelkan org sebegini sebagai 'bragging'..

lumrah hidup agaknya..

org lain dikata bragging, diri sendiri tak rasa buat benda yang sama..

True-X · Post time 12-9-2007 11:13 PM

Originally posted by seribulan at 12-9-2007 01:46 PM
Adakah dikira 'bragging' jika anda bercerita sesuatu yang
hebat berlaku dalamhidup anda.

Apa beza 'bragging' dan 'telling tall stories'?

sbb tuh lah aku kl berceriter criter happy ngan kawan rapat yg takkan judge aku...

kl tak aku criter secara biase2 jer... nnt kl terlampau criter nnt porg kater menunjuk ( even ekceli terlampau happy tuh yg asik criter jer...)

ajinomotonosuga · Post time 13-9-2007 06:04 AM

ppl just cannot see other ppl happy, other ppl be happy, other ppl feel happy....whatever ways for them to do so.

just let them be..why bother? why being judgemental?

my-alja · Post time 13-9-2007 07:04 AM

Originally posted by True-X at 12-9-2007 11:13 PM

sbb tuh lah aku kl berceriter criter happy ngan kawan rapat yg takkan judge aku...

kl tak aku criter secara biase2 jer... nnt kl terlampau criter nnt porg kater menunjuk ( even ekceli terl ...

in other words, choose ur crowd

masalah dgn kita nie(w/pun susah nak ngaku

)....brag tak toleh kiri-kanan, asal boleh dia brag, dia brag....cuba carik kawan2 yg tak judgemental esp kawan2 yg at par dgn kita...kita ada LV, dia ada LV...dia ada brabus, kita pun ada brabus...jadi kena bijak carik crowd utk kita rasa syok...barulah sesama syok utk kita....

satu lagi point pasal bragging nie, people start to relate with ur daily life...u brag abt going abroad, shopping here and there and at the same time...very d kedekut nak spend utk makan, very the kemut nak spend utk anak2 beli kalor, dok pinjam org punya....padanlah kena tempias balik!

brag wisely!

nashra · Post time 13-9-2007 02:35 PM

ko sure ke kawan rapat takkan judge?

apa2 pun kalau kita ikhlas berkawan, tak timbul dah isu brag ni..

maybe you antara yang the lucky ones jumpa kawan yang memahami..

derang tumpang gembira tengok you gembira and vice versa..

Agul · Post time 13-9-2007 10:22 PM

Are you sure about your friends feeling?

From my experience, females are more, much more judgemental among them. They are are overly critical towards other female.

Most of the time.

Agul · Post time 13-9-2007 10:26 PM

Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 13-9-2007 06:04 AM
ppl just cannot see other ppl happy, other ppl be happy, other ppl feel happy....whatever ways for them to do so.

just let them be..why bother? why being judgemental?

Maybe they are hurting. They are hurt and they bring hurts to others.

They lack love, and this lack of love is expressed outside as a hurtful action. It's sort of crying for help. In the wrong way.

Agul · Post time 13-9-2007 10:38 PM

Braggers are usually masking their own confidence. They have to brag, to undermine others to raise their self esteem. Pity them. Just see them as a little child, crying for attention, for that maybe what they really are inside.

The one you should look out for is someone with quiet confidence, sort of overwhelming but restrained assurance, the people with confidence smile. The one who is good enough as it is and don't need for outside validation. The one who really knows his/her weakness and strength, and what to do with them.

He/she is the real one.

And if you're a woman, maybe try to look up for this kind of man. For this is the man, which everything is possible. He may want you, but he will never need you.

Simply:

truely confident person > bragging jerk > a person who feels inadequate

It's just a stage people are passing through.

True-X · Post time 14-9-2007 12:36 AM

bukan sumer org perfect.. and i know my fren for years....

tp aku percaya kengkawan yg aku choose utk berceriter tuh... kl ade rase judgementall ia nya tamat selepas consevation abis.... dot.. takat tuh jer.. tak simpan dlm hati..

paling koman pon.. " amboii ko berlagak ek...".. then abis kat situ jer

neeway aku bukan niat nak merendahlan dia... in other words.. just sharing stories gitew.....

org yg tak kenal kiter.. akan kater... mende tuh BRAG

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my-alja · Post time 14-9-2007 06:20 AM

man also bragging but the issues are difference from woman...man loves to brag abt his achivements, loves to brag abt his toughness, abt his job....

on the other hand, woman loves to brag abt her stuffs, abt her lovely husband, abt her genius kids

my-alja · Post time 14-9-2007 06:22 AM

Originally posted by True-X at 14-9-2007 12:36 AM

bukan sumer org perfect.. and i know my fren for years....

tp aku percaya kengkawan yg aku choose utk berceriter tuh... kl ade rase judgementall ia nya tamat selepas consevation abis.... dot. ...

satu kesilapan yg kita selalu buat, suka sgt assume org lain pun macam kita...fikir macam kita dan bertindak macam kita....

kita tak perfect, org lain pun tak perfect....

SONofODIN · Post time 14-9-2007 06:45 AM

Bragging is like advertisement. You say something beyond what that particular thing can do.
Bragging is to impress and to get attention.
Most people bragged about what they don't have or what they are lacking.
Most men bragged about their ....superior size and performance on bed.
I think they had none of it, suffering from ED.

Agul · Post time 14-9-2007 02:47 PM

It's true too... Men brags about other thing.

In my workplace, it seems that women are overly competitive. When there is some other women who maybe younger, or prettier and dress better, nearly all other women will step up on their accelerator, wear new clothes, more makeup, etc...

It's kind of funny. Even those who are 30+ and have many kids are not excluded.

Women are ,more judgemental towards other women's outside appearances, Most men couldn't care less about how their buddies looks, puch bag and all..

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Strangely most women are not that picky on how their guy's look. They are nmore critical to other women. Probably most women go for other stuff.

alongee · Post time 14-9-2007 03:26 PM

sebenarnya ada dua type of people yang kita blh kategorikn dgn "bragging"..

1) disebabkan oleh salah penilaian kita disebabkan kita tk kenal dia...so bila dia cerita sesuatu yang dia dh achieve kita akan kta huh dia nie bragging..blagak.....tpi sebenarnya tidak...dia cma nk express dia punya feeling saja..

2)memang dilahirkan cukup semua sifat berlagak..sometimes org gelar mereka nie bodoh sombong...setiap apa yang diceritakan oleh golongan nie..best2 blaka....selalunya dicampur adukkan antara cerita"rekaan dan kenyataan"