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Author: zenslack

Crazy 58 tahun Saudi kahwin 8 tahun, this is crazy

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Post time 21-12-2008 10:49 PM | Show all posts
8 Year-Old Bride Escapes Husband, Gets Annulment

Fri, 04/18/2008 - 10:00am by LibertySugar
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  If it takes three stories to make a trend, here's your third with an arguably happy ending.
Nojoud, an 8-year-old Yemeni girl forced to marry a man , took her destiny into her own hands. She ran away from her husband, and took a taxi to a judge's office. Luckily for her, the forward-thinking judge granted her an annulment. Nojoud is living safely with her uncle, and looking forward to going back to school.

Economic conditions are dire in Yemen, which borders Saudi Arabia in the Middle East. Marriage laws are murky — there is no minimum age for marriage, but child brides are not allowed to live with their husbands until they reach puberty. To see what happened in this case, read more.

Nojoud signed the marriage contract with the expectation that she would live with her parents, until she reached 18. Instead she was forced to consummate the marriage, and live with the man. Her father had arranged the marriage, after threats from the husband's entourage. Her older sister had been kidnapped and forced to marry her kidnapper.

Considering that Nojoud's tragic co-habitation and consummation were against Yemen law, how do you feel about Yemen's legal version of child marriage, which requires a girl to reach puberty before sexual relations begin? Is it hard for Western societies to accept a conception of marriage, which resembles a business transaction void of romance?
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Post time 21-12-2008 10:53 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by juanco at 21-12-2008 20:50
Bknkah Nabi Muhammad s.a.w mengahwini Aisyah binti Abu Bakar yang baru berusia 6 tahun ketika itu
Jadi apa yg nak diherankan?Ia sudah menjadi tradisi di tanah Arab.
Cuma kita di Asia s ...

'cerita' tersebut adalah tidak tepat...ianya satu kekeliruan
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Post time 21-12-2008 10:59 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by bizsari at 21-12-2008 10:49 PM
Nojoud signed the marriage contract with the expectation that she wouldlive with her parents, until she reached 18. Instead she was forced toconsummate the marriage, and live with the man. Her father had arrangedthe marriage, after threats from the husband's entourage. Her oldersister had been kidnapped and forced to marry her kidnapper.


zaman sekarang pon berlaku benda ni..
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Post time 21-12-2008 11:00 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by anya8797 at 21-12-2008 10:27 PM
masalahnya... dia tu bukan nabi.... kalau bukan hak pun boleh rogol dan bunuh... inikan pulak hak untuk dibuat sesuka hati....



jgn jadik jahil la ....
mmg perkahwinan usia muda tu dibenarkan dlm islam ...
tp suami perlu ada tanggungjawab utk mendidik & membesarkan isteri yg masih muda tu ....
hubungan seks ditangguhkan kemudian ikut tempoh yg sesuai ...

takde timbul samada dia tu nabi atau bukan...
kalau camtu org biasa tak blh kawin 4 la ....

guna ilmu la, bukan ikut perasaan je

tp kalau ada unsur paksaan atau ugutan ... tu dah jadik haram plak ...

[ Last edited by  waksir at 21-12-2008 11:02 PM ]
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Post time 21-12-2008 11:01 PM | Show all posts
cantik gak bdk ni..bila bsr mesti cantik..
nk tunggu waktu yg sesuai, aku rase pak cik tu dah xde dah...
you know what i mean rite?
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Post time 21-12-2008 11:10 PM | Show all posts

Balas #24 waksir\ catat

kalau budak tu sendiri nak dapatkan annulment... (the father arranged the marriage after receiving threats from the husband's entourage)...bukan kira paksaan ke... mengiakan perbuatan seorang lelaki tua umur 58 tahun yang nak berkahwin dengan budak berumur 8 tahun...sape yang jahil kat sini???think with your brain.. not with certain part of your anatomy!!!

[ Last edited by  anya8797 at 21-12-2008 11:54 PM ]
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Post time 21-12-2008 11:12 PM | Show all posts

Reply #24 waksir's post

Usia muda yang dibenarkan itu berapa?
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Post time 21-12-2008 11:13 PM | Show all posts
Janganlah kerana salah faham seseorang itu, menyebabkan islam dipandang rendah dan sebagainya.
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 Author| Post time 22-12-2008 12:33 AM | Show all posts
What the fack ada orang setuju dengan kes ini, gila punya lelaki, kenapa mahu paksa budak kahwin, why?

Ini budak memang tak mahu kahwin, it's facking terrible :@ :@

Kamu yang setuju mahu paksa anak kamu kawin orang tua kerrr :@
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Post time 22-12-2008 03:31 AM | Show all posts
Ttg hadis nabi(riwayat oleh Hisyam) pasal perkahwinan dgn Aishah ketika berusia muda adalah ditolak oleh sebahagian besar ulama mutakhir.Ini berdasarkan perawi yg meriwayatkan hadis diragui ketepatan kenyataannya(berdasarkan kecelaruan fikirannya) serta beberapa peristiwa yg berkaitan yg tidak munasabah berdasarkan umur Sy Aishah.Umurnya yg lebih diyakini ketika berkahwin adalah sekitar 16-19 tahun.

Sila buat sedikit carian utk mendapat maklumat lanjut.

Wallahua'lam
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Post time 22-12-2008 08:00 AM | Show all posts

Reply #29 zenslack's post

Kalau you produce isu ni kat Msian public, mana ada org setuju budak umur 8 thn kahwin dgn atuk umur 58 thn. Tak pyhlah korang manipulate child bride yg berlaku di Arab Saudi yg kononnya Msian Muslims terutamanya PAS approve marriage tersebut.

Kalau you guys notice gambar tu - the marriage tu took place kat daerah perkampungan.
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Post time 22-12-2008 08:06 AM | Show all posts

Reply #30 rempo's post

Dulu ada kat RSF & board ni tentang itu. Rasulullah saw. hanya consummated the marriage bila Aisyah ra reached puberty & bukan umur dia 6 thn. Siap ada details tentang thn mrk dikahwinkan.

Pelik kan setgh org ni suka manipulate isu Rasulullah saw. kahwin budak umur 6 thn. Seolah2 Rasulullah saw. menggalakkan lelaki Muslim kahwin dgn budak2 kecik walhal ayah Aisyah ra. yg beriya2 nak kahwinkan anak dia dgn Rasulullah saw.

Child bride bukan shj berlaku di certain Middle East countries (most probably dah berkurangan) ttp di negara spt India. Jgn lupa child prostitutes di Thailand & sampai ada budak2 dr. negara spt Sri Lanka, India, Nepal, The Philippines etc diexport ke Western countries utk tujuan pelacuran.
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Post time 22-12-2008 11:50 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by Baiduri Othman at 22-12-2008 08:06 AM
Pelik kan setgh org ni suka manipulate isu Rasulullah saw.


memanipulasikan orang dengan membandingkan diri dgn Rasulullah kemudian panggil orang jahil.....please... before you huffing and puffing in righteous indignation....always remember your not even one tenth of what our beloved Rasulullah was...
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