Kenapa org salu in denial...

hamizao

People go into denial usually when they have no answer to the situation on hand. It could be a built-in defensive mechanism to self-preserve at that point of time.......to maintain a positive thought. I suppose you may call it an "escape" to a point. I am refering to the denial of feeling defeated and lost. Hmmm is it my pillow calling me now ?

There have been many reported cases  where ppl refuse to go down with the situation but instead endeavour to tell the subconscious of what it should be. I do believe many faith healing is of this nature......

mbhcsf

Originally posted by hamizao at 14-2-2009 01:49 AM
People go into denial usually when they have no answer to the situation on hand. It could be a built-in defensive mechanism to self-preserve at that point of time.......to maintain a positive tho ...

you mean  the "faith healer" well, you are asking a more empirical - based person this question i.e me?

hahaha...well what can I say even Prophet Isa could heal those lepers (leprosy - kusta) , kan?

hmm..well....denial is a self defense mechanism ler in a way , yep agree. with you .

saden

Denial - it's not a river in egypt

mbhcsf

oh ya...same sounds..hahah..The Nile hmm....sometimes from this simple statement  you would wonder kan the exact etymology of the word

denial - sapa tahu asal usul this word , sebab you would know where this word is actually originated from.
Ever wonder?

digitalgunner

Denial ni bagi aku adalah expresi yg lahir dari ikatan dan perasaan kita pada sesuatu perkara dalam hidup kita dalam cubaan utk memahami atau menerima apa yang berlaku terhadap perkara tersebut. Lagi kuat ikatan dan perasaan kita tu...lagi kita serius tahap denial kita...kalo ikatan dan perasaan tu x kuat pulak ... state of denial ni bese nye xde mahupun terlalu pendek sbb kita akan cepat rationalize apa yg berlaku...

Amek contoh kita pergi ke majlis pengebumian la sbb dlm hidup ni kita pasti akan lalui situasi ni...bagi keluarga org yang meninggal itu...mereka pasti akan berada dalam denial state ni...tp kalau kita just kenal je org yg mati ni...kita x pulak dlm denial state cm keluarga org td..sbb perasaan bonding ngn sayang pada org tadi tu x cukup kuat utk trigger kita dalam state of denial ni...

Satu contoh lagi...sume org mesti pernah amek exam...n sume org tau sape2 yg x study mmg susah sgt nk score...so kalo dapat result teruk pas x study senang utk kita terima hakikat yg kita x berusaha...tp kalo org tu study gile...buat assignment suma sungguh2...ikut kelas tambahan sana sini...last2 dapat result yg teruk or x seberapa...kita mmg for sure akan berada dalamstate of denial ni...sbb mmg ikatan dan perasaan kita terhadap exam ni kuat...

Tu utk contoh denial ikatan melalui perasaan sayang la...kalo cm perasaan benci plak kn...contoh dia cm kalo ibu bapa yg terpaksa terima menantu pilihan anak mereka yg diorg btul2 x nk...so diorg akan dlm state denial utk memahami kenapa anak mereka sanggup terima pasangan mereka sedangkan diorg x setuju...

my-alja

Originally posted by makcikmengamok at 10-2-2009 09:51 AM
ni tertakluk kepada semua jenis in denial...
contoh...klu pompuan tu...tak percaya somi dier tu curang...and xbaik..
or..contoh...laki ni...suka buat alasan...menipu...bila org confront dier... ...

dlm denial stage, manusia tersebut tak perlu berubah atau mengaku yg diri dia sepertimana yg dikatakan....survival kid for resistance behavior gak kot ...

nak berubah nie tak mudah, jadi yg mudah adalah "deny"....btol tak