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Post time 28-9-2017 07:44 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
salmon-suki replied at 28-9-2017 02:58 PM
Doc ckp paru2 bengkak,rosak..tu y die gtaw sy..die jenis perahsia jugak,n die taw perangai sy cane ...

Kalau cancer tinggal lagi 6 bulan nak idup, takdak maknanya dr nak suggest lung transplant.

Kalau lepas accident dia ada cedera paru2 maybe paru2 dia berparut.
Dia ada merokok x? Asma?

Apapun u mesti sayang sangat dia kan.

Fikirkan elok2.
1. Orang yang sayangkan kita takkan selfish nak cepat2 bersama sebelum dia mati. Dia mesti nak spend time with u, but not marriage la. Kesian after effect lepas dia meninggal nanti camna?

2. Tapi on your side mestila kesediaan u nak hidup mati dengan dia teruji. Kalau betul u cinta dia mesti u nak sedia stay sebelah dia sampai mati kan?

For me its okay for you to decide u nak kawin dengan dia, but not from him la sebab now he is the one yang vulnerable.. he could be using u.. or he mmg want to u be by his side sampai akhir hayat..
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 Author| Post time 29-9-2017 09:14 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
bulanbulat replied at 28-9-2017 07:44 PM
Kalau cancer tinggal lagi 6 bulan nak idup, takdak maknanya dr nak suggest lung transplant.

Kal ...

Urm..mmg rse syg tu tetap ada..sy nak ikhtiar jgk ler,mana taw ada cara lain ke ape..die ada merokok jgk tp stkt ni x pernah lg laa merokok depan sy,sbb die taw sy x suka,and sy pun da byk kali warn die kurangkn merokok..die ckp die merokok time lepak ngn kwn2 je tp x habis sekotak tu (i doubt that jugak..hehe)..time die ajak kawin tu,tone suara die mcm nak xnak and die sndiri ckp kalau kawin nti die mati sy akn jd janda..pstu die senyap...n die ubah topik lain..huhu..

I'll stay by his side,sbb da syg kan kt die...baik buruk pun sy akn cuba accept..hopefully sy akan kuat..
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Post time 29-9-2017 11:45 AM | Show all posts
Sedeynye..
I xpernah la facing things macam ni, minta jauh laa..

but iIF..
If i were u, i will stay by him side..
Dah sayang kan, even time for us are short, i will cherish every second i spend with him
coz i dont want to regret in the future..
Jodoh, mati ni bukan kerja kita, so just redha on HIS fate..

Doctor punya prediction bukan 100% tepat, ramal cuma 6 bulan
what if it was more than that..?

I got a fren, she was diagnosed with cancer, but still tunang dia proceed nak kawin dengan dia
then, dia kawen and she proceed with surgery, kimo and sort of..
now, she still alive living happily with her husband
in worst condition macam tu, support from your love one does help..

So, just do what u want to do..
ask urself, and decide..
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Post time 29-9-2017 02:41 PM | Show all posts

Dik, ko stay je dgn dia...dlm masa yg sama ko try la kwn dgn lelaki lain jugak. Jodoh, ajal maut kite xtahu kan.

But for me, do not put too much trust in him until you see his own medical report.
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 Author| Post time 29-9-2017 07:19 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
hanie_z replied at 29-9-2017 11:45 AM
Sedeynye..
I xpernah la facing things macam ni, minta jauh laa..


Yep,sy akan stay dgn die..lgpn mmg da syg kan,tp I'll be preparing myself for the worst as well...mcm sorg akak y sy kenal ada SLE..tp alhamdulillah,hidup aman bahagia skrg,siap ada family lg..sy akan cuba jd kuat,nk enjoy masa y ada dgn die aje..walaupun kami pjj..huwahuwaa~
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 Author| Post time 29-9-2017 07:26 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
yokoono replied at 29-9-2017 02:41 PM
Dik, ko stay je dgn dia...dlm masa yg sama ko try la kwn dgn lelaki lain jugak. Jodoh, ajal maut k ...

Urm..sy jenis reserved sket,kwn lelaki x ramai kecuali kwn sekerja @ kwn gamers jela,tu pn contact jrg2,contact pun kalau ada bnde penting aje...hehe..lgpn kurg reti nak borak2 ngn guys except ada interest y sama...y ni kat porem boleh laa,sbb xtaw laki pmpuan kan,sy pggil semua "sis" aja..hehe...y ni pun tersangkut sbb die y approach sy wlaupun dah di friendzone kan..hihi
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Post time 30-9-2017 03:59 PM | Show all posts
bulanbulat replied at 28-9-2017 12:57 PM
Pelik sangat penyakit paru2 bengkak, lagi 6 bulan nak idup dan dr suruh makan gamat ni??

Ke sakit ...

terimakasih bulan bulat.
eh, gamat? supplements? biya benar!
suka sgt org dimesia amik atau rekomen supplements!
mkn je 3 kali sehari dan amik sayur dan daging n sumber protein jugak buahan dan air secukupnya, u tak perlu apa apa supplements lagi dah. semua vits ke mineral ke etc dah ada disitu

eh, apa diagnosis nya this boyfren of TT?
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Post time 3-10-2017 04:54 PM | Show all posts
hahaha. klako la ko ni. klu ko btl nk hdup ng dia knp ragu2?? ajal tu di tgn tuhan. ohmai ko tkt ke ng gelaran janda??
dala ubt gamat tu pn ko suh dia bli. apa slhnye ko ckp nt ko blikan ke, trun penang msa weekend ke. ko ptt nye tnjuk kn prihatin dan kasih syg kt dia. insyallah bahagia la dia. jgn pk sakit makit ni. lol
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Post time 3-10-2017 05:34 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Betul ke ni? Macam cerita bro hasanah.
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Post time 3-10-2017 06:15 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Silap2 bf tt nk uji kesetiaan ngn  nk.attention je
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 Author| Post time 3-10-2017 06:35 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ipes2 replied at 30-9-2017 03:59 PM
terimakasih bulan bulat.
eh, gamat? supplements? biya benar!
suka sgt org dimesia amik atau reko ...

Hi doc ipes! Die ckp y paru2 die rosak,dua2 mbengkak..bt masa skrg ni die kena pegi hospital 3hari sekali utk sedut ape ntah..die ada ckp die pun ada masalah breathing,salu sesak nafas..gamat tu doc ckp alternative tp die tgu donor jgk laa..masalah die ni,die xsuka mkn sayur kcuali tauge,cauliflower ngn ulam..itu ikut ape y die bgtaw sy laa..
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 Author| Post time 3-10-2017 06:47 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
jue10 replied at 3-10-2017 04:54 PM
hahaha. klako la ko ni. klu ko btl nk hdup ng dia knp ragu2?? ajal tu di tgn tuhan. ohmai ko tkt ke  ...

Lau tkt mnjanda mmg dah lama sy blah..sy cme nk tny experience org2 y pernah berdepan bnde ni..nk tgk caner dorg handle life dorg bersama..tp mmg x dinafikan rasa tkt tu ada,tkt caner nk hidup tnpa dia..salunye ari2 duk contact each other,nti pasni,lau betul jangkaan doc,caner hidup pn xtaw laa sy..mat tu sy xley nk pk lgsg..sy cme check je brand ape,tu pn sbb die y suh check,time die tgh kt hospital tu..die ckp die nk g tgk kalau ada..sy xdpt pegi sbb susah nk dpt cuti sy baru je start keje baru..tp in sha Allah ada cuti pjg sket mmg plan nk g sana..susah wei jauh2 ni.. :-(

Tp thanks to the supports from the forumers here,sy dah x pk sgt psl sakit die..sy lyn die mcm biasa..
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Post time 3-10-2017 08:26 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
salmon-suki replied at 3-10-2017 06:47 PM
Lau tkt mnjanda mmg dah lama sy blah..sy cme nk tny experience org2 y pernah berdepan bnde ni..nk  ...

Tny hati sndri. Klu syg dia cuba atau. Unless ada jodoh lain menanti
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 Author| Post time 3-10-2017 10:58 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
jue10 replied at 3-10-2017 08:26 PM
Tny hati sndri. Klu syg dia cuba atau. Unless ada jodoh lain menanti

Calon2 lain dah lama sy tolak..hehe..skrg mmg stick dgn die..urm..tulaa..ada jodoh,in sha Allah,tp skrg die xde cakap pape dah psl kahwin..maybe sebelum ni die pun terkejut jgk..tu y bt keputusan terburu2..skrg fokus utk rawatan die aje..
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Post time 4-10-2017 08:41 AM | Show all posts
salmon-suki replied at 3-10-2017 10:58 PM
Calon2 lain dah lama sy tolak..hehe..skrg mmg stick dgn die..urm..tulaa..ada jodoh,in sha Allah,tp ...

tu lbh baik kot btmsa ni. ko kena bg semangat kt dia jgn pts asa berubat. mkn ubat ikot msa. ko pn kena kuat. semoga ada keajaiban. insyallah sume baik2 sje.
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 Author| Post time 4-10-2017 09:02 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
jue10 replied at 4-10-2017 08:41 AM
tu lbh baik kot btmsa ni. ko kena bg semangat kt dia jgn pts asa berubat. mkn ubat ikot msa. ko pn ...

Yep..sy pun cuba nk jd kuat ni,xnak fikirkan psl sakit die tu sgt,cuma enjoy moment masa ni je dulu...
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Post time 4-10-2017 12:02 PM | Show all posts
good luck
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 Author| Post time 4-10-2017 01:11 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
jue10 replied at 4-10-2017 12:02 PM
good luck

Thank you..really appreciate it
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 Author| Post time 4-10-2017 01:12 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
jue10 replied at 4-10-2017 12:02 PM
good luck

Thank you..really appreciate it
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Post time 6-10-2017 03:43 AM | Show all posts
salmon-suki replied at 3-10-2017 06:35 PM
Hi doc ipes! Die ckp y paru2 die rosak,dua2 mbengkak..bt masa skrg ni die kena pegi hospital 3hari ...

bagus dah tu vegs yg dia mkn tu

hmm apa diagnosis nye..
to behonest, lung transplant ni tricky... i tau u pon tau
also kena makan ubat anti rejection etc
ni ubats yg really serious
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