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mmg keliru.dah istikharah xde petunjuk pun.so i just let go with the flow.so far gerak hati dah more to the older one, kira ciri2 suami mithali tu mmg la ada kt dia,tp bila sesetgh org x brp stuju ats sbb2 tsebut, buat sy pikir bnyk jugak.
byk lg sbb drg ckp nnt wedding i x best cos x sepadan, kl yg sebaya tu nnt br nmpk sama naik kan. tp yg ni i xkisah sgt, for me, bukan nk sronok masa knduri je, life lepas tu yg lebih penting.
cuma bila drg ckp psl seks ni, xtau la nk pikir sndiri, bkn ada pengalaman pun.ntah betul ke x yg drg ckp tu. |
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dieorg duk menanti tu, mne tau tok t ngandung kembar ke...jimat kos kekdah nyer
card_reader Post at 20-7-2010 16:22 
tak jimat gak bang...MACAM2 PREZEN BESTDAY TOK T dpt....tp TOK T tak bg gak TOK K jamah huhuuuhu |
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Aku ini otai... punya isteri muda berbelas2 tahun dari aku dah.....
paler kembang Post at 20-7-2010 16:18 
yeke otai.citer la sket experience.ok x.otai umur brp?isteri? |
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Reply 44# nylliette
dlm kawin ni xda yg remeh dek...aku rsa bg pndangan pon cam xgna sbb ko cam dah 99% pilih si tua...bg aku ada yg muda kat luar tu yg ada ciri2 sama or lebih baik dr tua tu...tp trpulang pd ko dek...pe2 pun diri sndri yg raso...doakn ko bhgia... |
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usia lanjut tidak jadi halangan bagi lelaki untuk beristerikan wanita yang umurnya jauh lebih muda. bila dikaitkan dengan hubungan seks, umur menjadi titik kepada keupayaan lelaki untuk melaksanakan tanggungjawabnya terhadap siisteri. pada hakikatnya hubungan seksual bukan tertakluk kepada persembahan semata2 tetapi teknik melakukannya amat penting. pengalaman akan mengajar bagaimana memuaskan isteri tanpa berkerja keras diatas ranjang.gunakan teknik yang betul itu penting... |
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Post Last Edit by nylliette at 20-7-2010 17:45
Reply 46# bobo_beck
jgn ckp camtu bobobeck.i appreciate the thoughts n still need more. only my instinct is siding him. xla 99%. dlm 70% kot |
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dato CT tue bahagia jer nampak...lagi jauh umur nyer...tu sume bukan pengukur kebahagiaan. Kawin bukan sex semata-mata banyak faktor kena tngk gak kan... kekadang masa meniti usia senja ni sex bukan lagi satu keutamaan tapi perhatian dan belaian kasih sayang kot. |
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Reply bobo_beck
jgn ckp camtu bobobeck.i appreciate the thoughts n still need more. only my ins ...
nylliette Post at 20-7-2010 17:19 
terlena oleh belaiannya..... |
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well for me
you have to ask yourself
a) why are you marrying that gentleman
b) what is your values , idea, concern and expectation of thsi thing called marriage tu
is it primarily for intimacy gain per se, for your personal, mind and emotional growth & lillahi taala semua tu ?
c) developmentally i think, you should know why those men in those age group acting like the way they do, yes maturity does play some roles, mental and emotional stability too do play some parts as well - so start reading on developmental psychology hahahahahh
once you know all these i think you would want to integrate those facts and i hope your views in marriage will somehow helps you in securing and maintaining this relationship...you have to work out the relationship really ..so sexual intimacy is some part of it , but there is more to marriage than those under the sheets tu ...
good luck. |
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Lelaki ni cam buah kelapa... makin tua, santannya makin pekat ...
Afterall, kalo u sayang kat dia ngan jujur, nothing can stop him from providing happiness to you... |
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so sexual intimacy is some part of it , but there is more to marriage than those under the sheets tu
mbhcsf Post at 20-7-2010 20:09
Reply 52# HaMiZiE
hmmm..ramai ckp camni..so the right way is not to mess up my mind thinking of his sexual health lah kan |
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memang betul...men at 40 dah kecut and couldn't get it up |
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A'kum abg2 kt sini.Sy nk tny.
Sy umur 27, decide to be wit man age 40 yg sgt baik (sbb bosan dgn ...
nylliette Post at 20-7-2010 01:34
kalo nak teruskan...kalo tkt nnt tak dpt menikmati seks yg seperti diinginkan spai kerepot sbb tkt suami tu makin tua dr diri sendiri takyah la...cari yg lg muda la kalo camtu..... |
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motippp iols yang baru form 3 ni salah masuk benannnnggg..nangess |
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Post Last Edit by nylliette at 20-7-2010 23:06
memang betul...men at 40 dah kecut and couldn't get it up
zztop63 Post at 20-7-2010 22:34
xkan la camtu skali
zztop63 Post at 20-7-2010 22:34 kalo nak teruskan...kalo tkt nnt tak dpt menikmati seks yg seperti diinginkan spai kerepot sbb tkt suami tu makin tua dr diri sendiri takyah la...cari yg lg muda la kalo camtu.....
thanx puterimalam.saya bukanla sex minded pun, tapi xtaula mcm takut pulak bila ada org2 yg ckp pasal ni.ada pilihan yg muda, tp ego dan menyakitkn ati.yg lebih tua ni pandai jaga ati sy,tapi tu lah,isu seks pulak yg diorang up |
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A'kum abg2 kt sini.Sy nk tny.
Sy umur 27, decide to be wit man age 40 yg sgt baik (sbb bosan dgn ...
nylliette Post at 20-7-2010 01:34
is he bujang or duda?
from this forum?
huhuhuh |
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OK ape laki 40 taun muda lagi tu cam rosyam nor..beza 13 taun je bukan 20 taun pun...lagipun pompuan kan cpt tua... |
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xkan la camtu skali
thanx puterimalam.saya bukanla sex minded pun, tapi xtaula mcm takut ...
nylliette Post at 20-7-2010 22:48
nape derang nak ckp camtu....?derang yg berckp tu dah mmg membuktikan ke lelaki semakin dia tua semakin lemah tenaga batinnya...? bkn perempuan ke yg semakin berumur semakin kurang keinginan terhadap seks? sbb tu lah ramai lelaki yg 40an n ke atas ni cari wanita2 yg lebih muda wat isteri/gf....? |
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Post Last Edit by nylliette at 20-7-2010 23:34
is he bujang or duda?
from this forum?
iza_yuss Post at 20-7-2010 23:02
bujang.actlly kitorg pn ada kene2 sedare sket2.so family pn mmg kenal dia.dia x kawin lg sbb dulu penah frust ngn someone yg dia sgt suka.pastu jenuhla mak dia nak kenen2 dia ngan sape2 pn dia xnak.raya thn lepas dia nmpk sy kt umah dia ada kenduri.kiranye saya la yg bjaya mbuka ati dia stlh sekian lama - ini adalah menurut kata2 maknye.
disbbkan sy pn tgh prob ngn sorang mamat tu, so sy try je la, mana tau kot yg senior lg ok. so far dah lama kawan, sy ok je.tapi ada sesetgh org yg xsuka sbb beza umur jauh, diorg takut sy suffer bende2 seks ni la. xtaulah, mmg kl bole xnk pikir, tapi sikit2 tu terganggu jugak
OK ape laki 40 taun muda lagi tu cam rosyam nor..beza 13 taun je bukan 20 taun pun...lagipun pompuan kan cpt tua...
ok eh...hmmmm
nape derang nak ckp camtu....?derang yg berckp tu dah mmg membuktikan ke lelaki semakin dia tua semakin lemah tenaga batinnya...? bkn perempuan ke yg semakin berumur semakin kurang keinginan terhadap seks? sbb tu lah ramai lelaki yg 40an n ke atas ni cari wanita2 yg lebih muda wat isteri/gf....?
ermm..tulah..sy nk abaikan je apa yg diorg ckp pn susah gak..sbb sy tau diorg care n nk tgk sy bhgia..tapi pikirkan sgt ckp org pn payah jugak..last2 sy yg pening |
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