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ni setuju.. past relationship sy mcm tu la. tapi yg baru ni lain skit. masa mula2 kenal mmg pesen dia jarang2 text. cuma igtkan bila dah serius kerap la contact..
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selalunya dia. sy ada la jgk bila ada mood n rindu..
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kalau ikut instinct sy ni.. 20% je rasa dia ada org lain.
sbb bila fikir balik, wasap pon jarang online.
klu tgk last seen, waktu tgh hari or petang bru online. xtau la kot dia adjust ke.
dia keje sndiri, byk habis masa depan pc.
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kalau ikut instinct sy ni.. 20% je rasa dia ada org lain.
sbb bila fikir balik, wasap pon jarang online.
klu tgk last seen, waktu tgh hari or petang bru online. xtau la kot dia adjust ke.
dia keje sndiri, byk habis masa depan pc.
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kobisbulat replied at 17-11-2020 11:52 AM
kalau ikut instinct sy ni.. 20% je rasa dia ada org lain.
sbb bila fikir balik, wasap pon jara ...
Ok la tu dah dia pun jarang online..
So takde la sakit hati sangat
If dia online, tapi haram x msg, ini memang menyakitkan hati la.
Then if conversation, last2 ada kata ucapan pengakhiran or terus hilang camtu je ke? Yang jenis tetiba hilang pun sejenia menyakitkan hati gak.. |
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At least skali sehari.kalu x wasap,ade kol.kalu da kawen laen cite,sakan nk kol borak2 on phone.kat uma nk borak2 ape..tpi mcam sya da kawen pon still at least sehari tu mmg ade tnya,kurg da mkn ke belom.tu borak hal ank sket.hehehe
Dlu dgn ex camni gak.jenis berhari2 bru contact.tu pon x lma mna borak2 nya.msa tu da la memasing praktikal sah2 la x jumpa..Kita je nk kena contact..msa prob ni dlu pernah tnya akak kt opis pndapt dia..dia ckp x normal gitu..mcam dia at least sehari mesti contact..mmg x kan snyp sunyi x dengo khabo lansunglaa...
tupon sya tetap jugak optomis dan bertunang.tpi itu je la thap jodoh pon..smpi tunng je..putus tunang pon xde nanges beria,sedih sket sbb da lama bersma kan..tpi xde down yg beria.no more tears left to cry kekdahnya...tpi dia nanges truk msa sya plgkn cincin..x sangka sya nekad a gaknya....n after dat dia ada try nk get back..sya x nak..at that time sya da mulakan new life kt tempt lain..a place where I found my husband..
So u lgi kenal bf u.kalu dri dlu mmg jenis bukn selalu cntact ni..so it is just he being him...tpi kalu beza gila dlu n skang..better check bgi puas ati..da nk tunng tu.. clear cut mna yg x clear...kang bazer msa n duet je bertunng..selidik dlu bgi puas ati..tunng pon ati x snang,tertnya2 buat pe..dah kawen,smbung derita...naya jiwa...
May Allah make ease of everything..insyaAllah Amin Ya Rabb.. |
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kompem ker dia bujang
ntah2 dah ada bini
baik ko check |
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tak mustahil dia ada 2 sim card n dua wasap kan
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per706 replied at 17-11-2020 03:09 PM
At least skali sehari.kalu x wasap,ade kol.kalu da kawen laen cite,sakan nk kol borak2 on phone.kat ...
sorry sis.. uols dengan ex tunang tu putus sebab apa? heol curang ke? |
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Macam tak normal. Rasanya kalau normal, dia akan hari2 text. Tapi bukan lah setiap masa.
Ni macam ex-bf aku dulu. Tu pun boleh bertahan 5-6 tahun. Dah jumpa keluarga masing2. Tapi takda jodoh. |
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misssakura replied at 17-11-2020 04:44 PM
sorry sis.. uols dengan ex tunang tu putus sebab apa? heol curang ke?
Yeap...I bgi hint yg I da "hidu" perbuatan dia n bgi hint yg I nk ptus..dia cbar i..he thought that I x brani..ye la sbb da tunng.then,check mate bro! After da pindah ke tempt baru,my ex housemate gigih report dkat sya, my ex da nak kawen..dia takot saya sedih...but I'm not.. i just laugh about it.sbb hti mmg da kosong utk dia.
lagi sorang akak housemate pon dok cite ngan sya dia terserempak dgn ex ni kt stesen myk..hati tu rsa gram dgn my ex,tpi dia tggu gak kat luar kedai stesen myk tu cuz ade awek baru dia msa tu..sja acah2 nk catch up what's new kan.Pastu akak tu sja la tnya awek bru ke..dia kata ye..then dia bley ckp kali ni x nak la lama2..nt takot tak jadi lgi...akak tu rsa nk carut je..nasib kat public..as if I'm the one who did shit.
mmg akak tu berapi betul msa dia dok cite ngan saya tu..mmg geram sgt..but they said he doesn't look that happy msa dia dgn saya dlu...laki ni kdg bila psangan work hard utk save the rship,they tend to act blind.but they shud b worry kalu psangan da mula diam n ignore everything.sbb dlm hati mmg da kosong.
That's y I asked tt to clear cut everything.kalu rsa worth to fight then go for it.if u think it just a waste..then walk away..kalu da tunng da libatkan dua keluarga instead of just two people...nt da tunng takot terbabas dlm toxic relationship kalu proceed kawen.... |
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TT i think you dengan dia tak betul betul kenal or tak trust each other.
the foundation of your relationship kena betul betul strong baru you takkan ada rasa macam ni.
my opinion is normal pada you maybe tak normal pada orang lain.. and vice versa..
lain orang lain la caranya, same goes to relationship..
ada orang kena berborak berhari hari, ada orang tak perlu. but that doesn't mean they dont love one another..
kalau bf you memang dari awal kenal memang 2-3 hari baru contact, even after 3 years pun still macam tu juga i think it is normal. he is consistent.
tapi if mula mula 24 jam text lepas tu hilang berhari hari tu pelik.. tapi kena tanya la.. dont jump the gun too soon ok.
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Normal pd dia tp tidakkk pada ku..akan ku penohkan inbox/dm beliyawww ahahaaaa ckp mishhhhu mishhhhhu like keraziiii |
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nuhanis replied at 17-11-2020 12:43 PM
Ok la tu dah dia pun jarang online..
So takde la sakit hati sangat
If dia online, tapi haram x m ...
Last2 dia bluetick kan aje.. jarang balas.. walaupun sy say tq.. haha
Tapi dia actly dia byk online kt shopee compare dgn wasap.. baru sy perasan bila dpt tau id dia.. |
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per706 replied at 17-11-2020 07:34 PM
Yeap...I bgi hint yg I da "hidu" perbuatan dia n bgi hint yg I nk ptus..dia cbar i..he thought tha ...
Any ides yg sy boleh guna utk siasat dia tanpa dia sedar. Or just straight to the point je.. sbb past relationship sy, x melibatkan kedua2 family.. so senang nk walkaway.. |
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ramaramu replied at 18-11-2020 12:53 PM
TT i think you dengan dia tak betul betul kenal or tak trust each other.
the foundation of your rel ...
Actuallt sy kenal dia thru media social.. jadi tak la kenal betul2 lagi.cuma kita mmg sama2 niat nak ada serius relationship since umur pun dh 30s..
Kalau ikutkn mula2 kenal dlu, dia jarang jgk online. Tpi selang sehari dia say helo. Masa tu belum ada apa2 serius lagi.. so sy faham la dia make an effort utk mengorat sy .but normal mana2 lelaki ( tak semua) bila dh dapat,dia abaikan mcm tu..
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i think when you both ada niat nak serious is a good step already..
at least you both know apa goals in this relationship.
how about communication? bukan berapa kerap you call or text tapi when you talk..
you all selalu cakap pasal apa? ada deep conversation so that you boleh kenal character dia and dia tahu cara you?
this is something i learnt when i met my hubs. he is in his 40s, to him kalau all the time nak call or text, its a bit too much, sign of clingy he said. but itu how he thinks. then i cakap how i think and why i kena selalu text.. sebab i feel insecure, about him and myself. but along the way, we learn and i started to realize that benda ni dalam kepala i, i ada issue dengan diri i and i try to trust the man. makes life a lot happier.
ultimately, despite dia jarang text tu semua, when you do something or plan something together benda tu ada hasil tak? or just talk?
if you worry dia tak love you enough, then ask him, if you rasa dia ada orang lain then ask him.
kalau you nak dia text you everyday, then explain to him why..
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kobisbulat replied at 18-11-2020 02:54 PM
Any ides yg sy boleh guna utk siasat dia tanpa dia sedar. Or just straight to the point je.. sbb p ...
U straight to the point pon bgus...snang dpan2 n u luah ape yg u rsa..n bila dia treating u this way,how does this makes u feel..so dia nmpak/paham.n u pon boleh find out kenapa dia buat mcam tu..luah kan semua..easier for both of u to work out what's next..
kalu dia x de sejarah mencurang shud be ok la kot.. xperlu la nk sush2 siasat n "meraba" dlm glap cri jwpan...maybe it's just him yg x suka nk clingy sgt ni.but silap dia sbb this makes u feel unwanted plak..rsa diperlukan tu pting jugak..kalu couple but rsa lonely,for me I just can't see whats the point of having a partner here...
Mcam sya dlu byk ex kantoi accidently,mmg Allah nk tlong...after dat bru siasat ape yg ptot..cube2 je then dpt log in akaun "tagged" dia..mcam2 la I jumpa...(T_T) tupon msih nk pilih utk positive..purely my mistake la..wasting my 7 years.
Bgus blja dri skang utk lebih open ttg perasaan,tindakan n penerimaan masing2....sbb kalu betul both of u nk hidup bersma..communication pting dlm setiap hubungan ecs perkahwinan..x bley snyap je nk harap kan psangan "bca" kita...kdg nk manje ok la..but ol the time bley buat org bosan n x dpt nk pham isi hati kita.try be more vocal if u feel u need to let him know something..dia pon kena sama mcam tu.kalu ape2 tndkan yg dia amek,kena la explain that to u..so u x kan ada negative thinking sbb u da than kenapa..bhaya,communication da kurang..pastu negative thought lgi..I'm afraid these will fail ur rship... |
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Mcm pelik. Tt kerap ka berjumpa? |
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suka dgn apa yang u komen ni.
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