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nikah kt sempadan ekk .... heheh
is the worst kind of marriage ever ..... aku just terpikir laaa ....satu ari nnt ...anak2 tanyer ...."mak nk tgk gambar mak kawin boleh ".....hehehe ape dier nk jawab ....
and is embrassing biler kwn2 or relative korang tau ...... kan kuar "eh ko dh nikah,katne? biler?"
my personal opinion laa kan ..... lelaki yg yg ajak pompuan kt kat sempadan ..... mmg tk sayang laa kt pompuan tu sbb .... lelaki tu sendiri yg menjatuhkan maruah pompuan tu ..... membuatkan pompuan tu dan keluarga pompuan tu dipandang serong oleh masyarakat ..... i mean be a gentlemen laaa do it ..... the right and formal way .... cuberlaa .... fikirkan perasaan pompuan tu biler .... org dpt tau or org tau ....nikah kt thailand ...
nikah kt sempadan ... one of many solution ...but is not a good and only solution |
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Reply #61 fish_o7's post
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agree with ya!!! salute kat ko....eh pape kalo aku xleh defend...x kira,sku panggil ko...k!!!! |
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tuan umah oooo tuan umah....saya bawak lawyer saya skali nih |
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Reply #62 iza_yuss's post
sebenarnya nak nikah ni kat mana2 pun bole..........
cuma sekarang ni islam dah dibatasi sempadan..........
maka jadilah nikah disempadan..........
klu ikut hukum dah selesai dah satu perkara baik..........
kalau tak ada hukum tu, jadi ler spt kat barat...
lelaki dapat meniduri ppuan yg mana dia suka,
yang isteri pula dapat merasa lelaki yang dia berhajat.......
nak jadi apa semua itu, asal saja ada satu isteri yg didaftarkan.. |
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Reply #63 iza_yuss's post
anak siapa ler yang memanggil2 ni, siap nak bawa lawyer sekali........ |
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Reply #64 iDputera's post
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wotever la....yg penting sy xnak tergolong dlm golongan tu k!!! |
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Reply #65 iDputera's post
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gua panggilll....kalo ade pape,gua bawak loyer gua skali....hehehe |
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Reply #66 iza_yuss's post
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hey............. lu bole cakap cekalang, esok lu juga cakap lain........... |
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Reply #67 iza_yuss's post
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lu bawa lah lu punya lowyer, gua bawa karpal cover gua............. |
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Reply #69 iDputera's post
ha eleh....nak suh mas dtg cini,,,,hhehehehe |
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Reply #64 iDputera's post
yup nikah bende baik ...tpkan .....cuberkan fikir balik, islam pon menitik beratkan soal maruah perempuan ....maruah keluarga ..... come on laa ...... jgn angkat nikah disempadan satu ...jln keluar yg popular ..... mmg tk elok ...pon .... just a question klau nikah disempadan .....sape walinya ....saper saksi ...bolehkah ...dikire sah ..... dlm surat bolehlah dikire sah .... tp dr segi hukum hakam ..aderkah yg menikah tu diiktiraf .....adekah saksi leh dipercayai .....
i mean lot of thing kene fikirkan ..... lebih baik satu pernikahan tu dijlnkan secara baik ....dgn persetujuan keluarga .....disaksikan oleh org dipercayai ...... ditemani rakan taulan ....sedara mare ..... jiran2 dijlnkan secara baik ...dan abis cara baik .... i mean come on laa ...she/he maybe the person that gonna be ...spending the rest of ur life with ....and the act of taking her using the backdoor isn't something romantic ...... come on laa mane .... kata "fight for ur love one".....
lgpon satu lg ...kene fikirkan relationship antara kelurga lelaki dan keluarga pompuan ... adekah kedua keluarga akan terima satu same lain ..... adekah keluarga tersebut akan terime besan dan menantu masing2 ...... adekah mereka akan get along with one and another ...
klau hukum adelah hukum ...i ain't gonna # with that .... but implication after that ....
to me laa .... kawin kt sempadan ...sama sperti bawak lari anak org ..... u take someone daughter without permission of her family and take her without any dignity and honor ...u wed her in the most unhonorably and ennoble way ... then u came back and expect people look up to u as hero ...come laa .... this is not a bollywood movie ....or malay drama ....there's no such thing as voluntary acceptance and ...."everything will be back to normal".....
personally ...i dunno if other guy think like me ..... i'm men ....i got my pride and dignity and i will protect the pride and honor of the women i love .....i will never take her hand in such a way that will dishonor her and her family ..... u the men she loves and u have the guts to do such of thing men how low can u be ..... maruah is everything to a women ... if men take that from her then what's left for her...... |
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Originally posted by fish_o7 at 17-9-2007 12:56 AM 
yup nikah bende baik ...tpkan .....cuberkan fikir balik, islam pon menitik beratkan soal maruah perempuan ....maruah keluarga ..... come on laa ...... jgn angkat nikah disempadan satu ...jln keluar yg popular ..... mmg tk elok ...pon .... just a question klau nikah disempadan .....sape walinya ....saper saksi ...bolehkah ...dikire sah ..... dlm surat bolehlah dikire sah .... tp dr segi hukum hakam ..aderkah yg menikah tu diiktiraf .....adekah saksi leh dipercayai .....
i mean lot of thing kene fikirkan ..... lebih baik satu pernikahan tu dijlnkan secara baik ....dgn persetujuan keluarga .....disaksikan oleh org dipercayai ...... ditemani rakan taulan ....sedara mare ..... jiran2 dijlnkan secara baik ...dan abis cara baik .... i mean come on laa ...she/he maybe the person that gonna be ...spending the rest of ur life with ....and the act of taking her using the backdoor isn't something romantic ...... come on laa mane .... kata "fight for ur love one".....
lgpon satu lg ...kene fikirkan relationship antara kelurga lelaki dan keluarga pompuan ... adekah kedua keluarga akan terima satu same lain ..... adekah keluarga tersebut akan terime besan dan menantu masing2 ...... adekah mereka akan get along with one and another ...
klau hukum adelah hukum ...i ain't gonna # with that .... but implication after that ....
to me laa .... kawin kt sempadan ...sama sperti bawak lari anak org ..... u take someone daughter without permission of her family and take her without any dignity and honor ...u wed her in the most unhonorably and ennoble way ... then u came back and expect people look up to u as hero ...come laa .... this is not a bollywood movie ....or malay drama ....there's no such thing as voluntary acceptance and ...."everything will be back to normal".....
personally ...i dunno if other guy think like me ..... i'm men ....i got my pride and dignity and i will protect the pride and honor of the women i love .....i will never take her hand in such a way that will dishonor her and her family ..... u the men she loves and u have the guts to do such of thing men how low can u be ..... maruah is everything to a women ... if men take that from her then what's left for her......
haaa....jwb2...saya sebelah sini nih....
yang tanda merah tu saya stuju benor2....
thts y i'm not married tau sbb sume ni la....ade yg guy minat kat saya tapi saya konfem famly xsuka...so i prefer to choose my family....
yang hijau highligth tu plak 4 me that woman la stupid,,,ni bukan zaman dulu...woman has her right skang...kalo pompuan x nak,x jadik sume ni....
yang x tahan bollywood tu la....but its definitely rite....hehehe |
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Reply #73 matlampir's post
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baju ko tu yg dlm avatar mengingatkan aku pada seseorang la....aiseh .... |
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huhu..... kahwin dua .... tp kebykan yg aku tgk lelaki kahwin dua all for the wrong reason ...... i guess dulu2 janji dan kata manis ...tkleh pakai ekk .....
u're my eveything .....u're the only i love.... and so on ...doesn't mean s**t if the man kawin dua ekk ...kirenye word just words ..... this kind of things never stop to humor me .... hahaha .....the hypocrisy and the irony |
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Reply #7 iDputera's post
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Kepada kaum Adam yang hendak bernikah di sempadan, terlebih dulu fikirlah berkali2 malah beribu-ribu kali sebelum benar-benar menjadi kenyataan. Kalau dah bernikah di sempadan, sanggup tak mendaftarkan pernikahan di Malaysia. Tapi kalau tak sanggup, fikirkanlah hal-hal seperti berikut: Tanpa surat nikah, nanti dapat anak, nak dibin-dibintikan siapa. Pndaftaran Negara perlukan surat nikah untuk pendaftaran bayi. Kalau jodoh tak panjang, nak bercerai di mana? atau tinggalkan gitu saja? Bagaimana dengan perwalian anak, pembahagian harta pusaka. Kot-kot satu hari adik bradik jatuh cinta, macam mana? Persoalah di atas haruslah difikirkan juga oleh kaum Siti Hawa. Jangan asyik nak fikir kawin lari tanpa memikirkan risikonya. Apa lagi ianya melibatkan nasab keturunan masa depan. Alah, gi je kat Perlis, sekarang dah boleh kahwin lari. Kalau wali tak nak nikahkah, kadi kan ada. |
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kata tok kadi pada wanita
iika wanita meminta pandangan mengenai suaminya yang ingin berpoligami.
搒aya biasanya mencadangkan kepada wanita tersebut supaya membenarkan suaminya berkahwin lagi @ berpoligami |
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kata tok kadi pada lelaki
kalau yang menayakan itu seorang lelaki ..
"saya katakan padanya |
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bang...jwb soklan saya kat thread lagi satu...hehehe |
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Category: Wanita & Lelaki
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Post time 16-9-2007 11:37 PM
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