Camner nak kahwin lagi satu?

Hana

eh..mana aku posting tadi nie..aku nak edit ayat laa...

Dunhill.

poligami bukan beramal mehhhh ??? prrfffgghhhhhghhht

Dunhill.

test 123 .....................

Dunhill.

Originally posted by sarahmirza at 22-9-2007 02:35 PM




Wah, kalau setakat RM yang dijadikan ukuran boleh kahwin lagi ke tidak, kalau isteri boleh kahwin lebih dari satu, gue pun dah lama LAYAK kahwin lagi.

merenyam nya prrffghhhfhhfhfh

Dunhill.

Originally posted by Vvenus at 22-9-2007 02:41 PM



betul..yg lama tak semestinya baik...tapi tak perlu la bawak mulut ke sana ke mari menjejeh pasal keburukan bekas pasangan tu
nih pasal kuor duit belikan make-up pun nak ungkit2 ape kes..b ...

terima kasih di atas pandangan bernas saudari itu prrffgggghhhh

Dunhill.

Originally posted by Vvenus at 22-9-2007 02:46 PM



ahaks..aku rasa ko nih yg susah nak dapat dari isteri ko...lepas geram sini lak ek..
nak tekel isteri sebab nak mende tuh, kena guna skill la bro..kalu skil so-and so aje..hmmm....
usaha  ...

memang geram beb, sbb takkan asyik nak melancap aja, kesian kt adik tu

LostSoul

mmm maybe kena tukar tajuk thread, bukan "camna", tp "patutke"...

mmm mmg tak patut... itu je aku nak kata.. huhuhu.. but if u wanna follow your lust, go ahead..

faraway

Originally posted by arysa at 21-9-2007 09:34 PM
aku ada baca satu berita pasal this one Arab man ada 3 orang isteri...
sibuk nak menggilir sampaikan anak masuk hospital pun tak sempat nak gi melawat...

itulah me rasa 99.9% lelaki yang fikir nak tambah bini ni..
satu pun tak da fikir pasal anak yang dah ada....

nolya

Orang lelaki ni memang tak boleh ada duit lebih sikit, mesti nak buka cwngan lagi.  Abng fikir kawin satu lgi ni senang ker? Kalau takt gi ke Siam, terima akad, bayar mas kawin mmnglah senang tpi lepas tu? Kalau abang di tempat isteri abang, agak-agak mcm mana rasanya bile dpt tahu suami ada isteri lain.  Bersyukurlah dengan rezeki yg Allah dah beri sebanyak 10K tu.  Kan baik memakmurkan keluarga abang drp cari masalah baru.  Perlu ingat juga, rezeki kita yg banyak hari ni, hari esok belum tentu.  Hari ni kita sehat, setahun dua lagi, kalau diuji Allah dengan petaka, duit tak ada, sakit jantung lagi, cam ne?

sarahmirza

Originally posted by Dunhill. at 22-9-2007 11:02 PM



merenyam nya prrffghhhfhhfhfh

Ahaks, gue merenyam pun setakat tulis KALAU shj. Nak pasang BF boleh shj tapi tak payahlah, cukuplah apa yang dah ada.

Dunhill, cuba baca balik post dia ni..

Aku rasa itu antara cabaran bagi orang yg dah berada sikit. Yg >RM10ktu cuma gaji, belum kira passive income lagi ( 4 angka juga). Rumah dankereta pun boleh tahan juga. Aku tak meragui kemapuan dari segimaterial. Insya Allah boleh maintain dua.

POYO je mamat ni. InsyaAllah boleh maintain dua kononnya. Setakat boleh maintain "main gilir2" kat 2,3 or 4 rumah & maintain harta dunia je & walau "berada sikit" dgn gaji >RM10k/month tapi ILMU DUNIA & AKHIRAT tu ZERO, jangan beranganlah nak kahwin lagi. Sudahlah tu, nak kahwin lagi pun nak kena tanya kat forum.cari macam mana. Ahaks, merenyam mengatal pandai tapi fikir cara nak menghalalkan tak pandai. Lemah mental pun ya, lemau pun  ya. Hahaha

Dunhill.

Originally posted by sarahmirza at 23-9-2007 02:30 AM



Ahaks, gue merenyam pun setakat tulis KALAU shj. Nak pasang BF boleh shj tapi tak payahlah, cukuplah apa yang dah ada.

Dunhill, cuba baca balik post dia ni..



POYO  ...

hmmm ataupon cik akak tk kisah klu suami asyik makan luar, sekejap Indonesia sekejap Thailand.. begitu ??? come on lah cik kak.. kasi aja lah.. hukum Allah tu biar lah dia jwp nnt kt dlm kubo ... kt dunia ni biar lah dia nk buat apa aja asalkan tk melanggar syarak ..

sarahmirza

Originally posted by Dunhill. at 23-9-2007 02:39 AM



hmmm ataupon cik akak tk kisah klu suami asyik makan luar, sekejap Indonesia sekejap Thailand.. begitu ??? come on lah cik kak.. kasi aja lah.. hukum Allah tu biar lah dia jwp nnt kt dlm ku ...

Dalam rumahtangga gue, tak ada istilah "makan luar" apalagi "asyik makan luar" . Sekali kantoi, tiada maaf bagimu.. Selamat tinggal Romeo.

urda1iluv

haku cuma mampu doakan moga2 spesis jantan cam tuan umah neh pupus di muka bumi neh...

Looking at the response, all the ladies view the INTEND to take another wife very negatively, all are saying NOOOOO. Almost like I would be committing a sin ! But would I really? Taking another wife is allowed in the religion, I found there is a very negative stereotype on man on poligamy. How can we as devout muslim view a halal deed very distastefully, as if it is a sin. Almost like "menharamkan yang halal". Sisters, look at the source of your feeling.
Because
1. :@ You hate the deed - it was made halal by Allah, also a sunnah Rasul.
2. You fear your husband / bf might take another, if you are the perfect wife you think you are, what is to be afraid of?
3. You have seen the effect of poligamy in your family? - did not turn out to be good?

Imagine if you are divorce, would you really want to remain divorce the rest of your life? Look at the life of the prophet, who did he marry? divorcees and widowers, right. Is it wrong to follow one of his sunnah? Think again, you might have express hate on the sunnah Rasul.

The men has got several views:
1. Supportive - also intend to marry another?
2. Sceptics - do not think it would work.
3. Ikut suka lah.

See, some of us were lucky enough to have this luck. i.e. women (married/widower/single) find us attractive and willing to be our second wifes. We are comtemplating because we might not see the total implication of this action. In my case, I love my wife and would not want to hurt her feelings. I have 2 adorable children who are doing very good in school.

Will I go ahead or not, not sure yet. Thank you for giving your views.

yela time nk kawen lg 1citer la pasal sunah nabi..

faraway

Originally posted by doremon_virago at 25-9-2007 09:46 AM
  In my case, I love my wife and would not want to hurt her feelings. I have 2 adorable children who are doing very good in school.

i love my wife but curang ngan dia sampai ada calon nak buat bini no sekian sekian..
i have 2 adorable kids which i tak kisah jumpa dorang 3 atau 4 atau kurang setiap
minggu sebab sibuk menggilir isteri

[ Last edited by  faraway at 25-9-2007 10:11 AM ]

pening tak bro..

faraway

Originally posted by UNDERGEARZ at 25-9-2007 10:13 AM
pening tak bro..

me bukan brolah...
nama me sound nama laki ke

wuuuppps..sori tak prasan lakk

Ratu75

Originally posted by doremon_virago at 25-9-2007 10:46 PM
Looking at the response, all the ladies view the INTEND to take another wife very negatively, all are saying NOOOOO. Almost like I would be committing a sin ! But would I really? Taking anothe ...

Sebelum hang tanya camne nak kahwin satu lagi.... hang dah cermin lum diri hang tuh utk bertanya pd diri hang sendiri samada hang benar-benar layak ke tidak untuk melalui hidup berpoligami...

Toksah nak marah-marah kaum isteri yang beranggapan negatif... sbb diaorang jadi negatif pun sebab ramai lelaki di Malaysia nih yang gagal mengamalkan cara hidup poligami... banyak yang terjd salah seorang isteri tuh perlu berkorban demi kebahagiaan suaminya... Mmg Islam membenarkan... tapi pengamal nye tuh yg gagal..bukan Islam tuh yang salah...

So.. kalau hang rasa hang layak... dah teruskan aje.. takyah le nak hiraukan anggapan negatif orang? As simple as that....