How to change yourself dramatically!!

damiqula

Originally posted by mrs_livingstone at 7-2-2006 06:28 PM
mrs sekarang cuba perbykkan baju2 ala2 etnik...hehe nk tukar imej lah
baru start2 beli asut..sblm ni kasut mrs ade 1 je

baju ala2 etnik?hm best gak tuh.tapi baju2 cmni kain die nipis kan?sesuai untuk summer je la kot.kat sane skang summer ke?

mrs_livingstone

sini still winter,tp end of.....tp sini mild winter je,tk cam nippon.hehe
byk jugak yg baju2 ala2 etnik yg kain tebal,cthnya tshirt long sleeve,cuma ade beads sikit2 nampak more etnik
tak pun pakai baju2 biasa dgn aksesori cam rantai etnik2 tuuu
sini byk sgt....geram tgk

damiqula

Originally posted by mrs_livingstone at 7-2-2006 10:02 PM
sini still winter,tp end of.....tp sini mild winter je,tk cam nippon.hehe
byk jugak yg baju2 ala2 etnik yg kain tebal,cthnya tshirt long sleeve,cuma ade beads sikit2 nampak more etnik
tak pun pak ...

sini pon ade..tapi mahal sikit rasenye..bnyk brg2 dr indon....hehe....kat sini ramai je pakai..

[ Last edited by damiqula at 7-2-2006 10:47 PM ]

mrs_livingstone

kalau yg dr indon beli kat mesia lah dami lagi murah

reynna

mrs sekarang cuba perbykkan baju2 ala2 etnik...hehe nk tukar imej lah
baru start2 beli asut..sblm ni kasut mrs ade 1 je

sama lak cam reynna hang ni mrs_L.. tgh intai2 baju ala2 etnik le now nih, and oso nak beli kasut.. all this while i only have 1 sandal je... sandal ok ppl, not shoe! sedih tul :kant:

damiqula

Originally posted by reynna at 7-2-2006 11:04 PM


sama lak cam reynna hang ni mrs_L.. tgh intai2 baju ala2 etnik le now nih, and oso nak beli kasut.. all this while i only have 1 sandal je... sandal ok ppl, not shoe! sedih tul :kant:

tapi dami rase ok gak pakai baju alal2 etnik tu ngn sandal..cantik jugak kan?nampak bergaya je..tapi kene tgk jenis sandal tu gak la..if sandal kulit ke..nice..

mrs_livingstone

kalau sayang dgn baju2 biasa tu,tp nak tampil etnik dgn baju2 tu try pakai kasut/sandal yg ada beads
tak habih2 beads aku nih:kant:

mrs_livingstone

Originally posted by reynna at 7-2-2006 11:04 PM


sama lak cam reynna hang ni mrs_L.. tgh intai2 baju ala2 etnik le now nih, and oso nak beli kasut.. all this while i only have 1 sandal je... sandal ok ppl, not shoe! sedih tul :kant:

tunjuk la sini koleksi etnik awak
kot2 saya buleh tiru..suh tkang jait buat
hihihi

reynna

Originally posted by damiqula at 7-2-2006 06:07 PM

dami pon akan cube letak gamba baju2 yg dami nak pakai utk make over ni  nanti...hehe..baru beli 2 helai blouse dr internet

uwaa best nye.. beli kat auction yahoo japan ke ? reynna salu gak cuci mata situ.. heheh.. reynna ni fanatik gak ngan jepun sebenarnye... dami lama lagi ke study kat jepun tu?

damiqula

Originally posted by reynna at 8-2-2006 03:08 AM


uwaa best nye.. beli kat auction yahoo japan ke ? reynna salu gak cuci mata situ.. heheh.. reynna ni fanatik gak ngan jepun sebenarnye... dami lama lagi ke study kat jepun tu?

br nk msk 2 tahun..dami beli kat nissenonline.jp kat situ mmg banyak choice baju..suke sgt2!

Yagi-Uda

Originally posted by damiqula at 7-2-2006 06:07 PM

dami pon akan cube letak gamba baju2 yg dami nak pakai utk make over ni  nanti...hehe..baru beli 2 helai blouse dr internet

hehe tampal cepat dami....kot ada juai kat sini bleh tiru awak hehe

Yagi-Uda

Originally posted by mrs_livingstone at 7-2-2006 06:28 PM
mrs sekarang cuba perbykkan baju2 ala2 etnik...hehe nk tukar imej lah
baru start2 beli asut..sblm ni kasut mrs ade 1 je

btul..fashion2 etnik ni kalo kena gaya cantekkkk sgt....mrs nak tgk jgk kasut baru awak tu :cak:

Yagi-Uda

Originally posted by mrs_livingstone at 7-2-2006 06:29 PM

tak membina lansung bf...huhu
hehe jgn mare:bodek:

hehe biasa laa lelaki....kalo ada yg tak kena je mesti kena tegur....kekadang dah anggap dia tu mcm pengkritik fashion haku je hehe.....kalo elok awal2 lg dia puji.....kalo buruk nampak dr jauh tak masuk keta lg dah kena kutuk hehe

mrs_livingstone

Originally posted by Yagi-Uda at 8-2-2006 01:31 PM


btul..fashion2 etnik ni kalo kena gaya cantekkkk sgt....mrs nak tgk jgk kasut baru awak tu :cak:

jgn la suruh...nanti kita letak betul kangggg haaaa

:lol

damiqula

dami suke ni..skang kat sini trend pakai skirt n pakai seluar..nampak cantik je.tak tahula kat mesia kot2 dah lame trend ni.sbb dami pon dah lame tak balik:kant:tapi kalau minat,ape salahnye cube kan?boleh melaram pakai skirt..n bulih tutup aurat

damiqula

erm...kalau mcm ni kire etnik ke mrs?but kene cari yang kaler coklat ke..kelabu ke..kan?

Ice_Q

All of you are very generous when it comes to tips and suggestions and experience..

It's something that i've always respected abt BFT forumers..

Way to go girls..

Ice_Q

Ramai kat sini yg ada masalah bergaya ialah yg pakai tudung ya..Sebenarnya, boleh je bergaya..

Macam one of my best friend dulu..nampak masa mula-mula kenal..mmg simple je gayanya..Dia suka pakai seluar + t-shirt atau t-shirt lengan panjang yg baggy + tudung.

Kita org bertiga or berempat sesama best friend suka window shopping sesama..and when we walk from aisle to aisle..jika jumpa baju yg agak sesuai utk diri dia..Or mereka jumpa baju yg sesuai utk ice..mereka mesti kata..eh baju ni cam sesuai kat awak..And they will specify apa yg membuatkan baju tu nampak 'kena'..

Paling penting kat sini, kalau nak buat transformation, kena bawa seorang dua kawan yg betul-betul jujur dan 'boleh tahan' gaya & citarasanya dalam bab-bab berfashion. Sometimes i go shopping dgn kawan rapat yg lain tp mereka jenis yg tak berapa detail sangat..kalau tanya baju ni ok tak..just jawab ok or tak ok jer..

Cuba pergi shopping dengan member yg betul-betul detailed, cerewet dan jujur..Mesti boleh nampak perubahannya..

As for my friend tadi, by the time dia habis universiti..gaya dia banyak berubah..Paling ice suka bila dia pakai Shirtdress dgn pants bersama tali pinggang terikat loosely..Dipadankan dgn sandal dan beg yg bersesuaian. Nampak very stylish and elegant..no more t-shirts..

Ice_Q

Ramai dah mereka kasi tips..i thought i just wanna share the transformations i've been through..I hope it's ok with dami n forumers lain..To get to a certain place, we must begin a journey, right? My journey began around 5 years ago..and i guess, transformationnya agak menyeluruh.

In order for a change to happen, kita kena recognize apa yg kita ndak and di mana kekurangan kita. Besides that, kena change mindset..from aku selekeh n tak reti apa..to..aku belum sampai ke destinasi..and i'm striving for it, bit my bit..

Misi: Perubahan dari segi berat badan.

Transformation paling dramatic sekali ialah dari segi weight loss. At first i felt that life is very unfair. Why can other people pig out and then sleep and only gain like 3-5 kg. Why do i pile 10 kg in a few months..So berbekalkan ejekan org which i kept boxed in my mind dan jugak pesanan dr kawan yg mengatakan a doktor di tempat dia yg dispense diet pills..Me nekad pergi sana.

I discovered that my body can tolerate the pills for 3 weeks. But alhamdulillah within that three weeks memang ada penurunan berat badan. So i felt motivated. Berbekalkan sedikit pengetahun pasal high protein diet, ice berjaya hilangkan baki berat yg berpuluh paun dr berat normal tu..

Perubahan tu berjaya. And i emerged as a new person. Ketika tu lah terasa nak lari dari identiti dulu. Hey...dulu pakai jeans gedoboh saiz org putih kat Reject Shop nun, sekarang dah boleh beli yg brand elok-elok sikit. Dulu pakai blouse atau t-shirt tak berpesan..Iyolah..kite ni buruk..pakai pesen apa pun buruk gak..Sekarang heppi dapat ikut kengkawan gi shopping kat kedai-kedai biasa. Dulu malas nak keluar..sbb kawan ada hint, kita kalau dok sesama derang kat backseat kereta..mmg sempit lah..Sekarang kalau nak duduk atas riba derang pun takpe. Dulu org nampak kelebihan kat otak je..Sekarang baru la perasan, budak ni ada mata, ada idung, ada bibir rupanya..PS: Sekarang tu maksudnya straight after the transformation.

Ini ice post gambar sebelum dan selepas dramatic change in my weight tu. Tak pernah post di forum lagi..but i thought this thread sangat sesuai..so ice letak utk sementara. Anyway, sekarang chubby..tapi taklah macam gambar sebelum transformation tu.

Pernah bagi gambar ni pada sorang dua forumer yg request so that they will feel motivated when dieting..Sory, takde gambar lain..gambar dulu-dulu banyak yg me tak scan..

Before:


After






Misi: Perubahan dari segi kulit.


Mula-mula dulu, ice seperti segelintir forumer kat sini..i don't know what's best for my skin. Main pakai je apa-apa barang..and i suffered from mild acne + PIH + plus scars..My skin quite cerah so parut semua sangat ketara jika tengok live.

Jadi langkah pertama, ice jumpa doktor utk makan antibiotic dan treat dgn product secara luaran. Kat situlah ice terus hooked dgn keberkensanan Retin A. After that i started to read up on acne and apa bahan yg sesuai dengannya..So sikit demi sedikit i began to get a clearer picture about vitamin A, AHA, supplements, chemical peels and up until now..sedikit pengetahuan tu la dijadikan landasan utk pilih skincare yg sesuai..tailor made the regimen tu suit my skin condition. Alhamdulillah..The dark scar + many acne phase , me berjaya lalui..hinggakan dapat totally clear skin. Masa tu cuma perlu cuci jer..Duit semua simpan tuk beli baju, kasut, beg. Now, apabila effect antibiotik habis, i get acne now and then..masih terkawal dgn skincare..and belum macam dulu..hingga desperate nak jumpa doktor..

Misi: Perubahan dari segi fashion.

Dulu mmg buta fashion..Especially masa obese..Tak tahu kat mana nak beli baju..setiap kali shopping, mmg tuju ke Reject Shop je..sebab mereka banyak saiz mat salleh yg besar-besar. Tp sayangnya fashion mereka tak berapa sesuai ngan org awal 20-an mcm kita. So i buang my reject shop addiction, and mula ikut kawan baik pergi shopping..Ice perhatikan saja cara dia membeli and dapatlah tips sedikit.
1) Bila membeli, beli dalam set..Like beli baju..kemudian cari seluar, beg dan kasut yg padan dgn baju itu.
2) Be very cerewet ttg how it looks on your body..Terlondeh, terbesar, terkecik, ternaik.
3) Jangan beli kerana pakaian tu tgh 'on sale' tetapi kerana kita mmg ndak (yg ni susah sikit nak ikut..hehe..asal ada sale je..terus nak terkam)

Then me tengok lagi..She looks elegant in her feminine bag..While i look like an outgrown child in my childish handbag..So forget about those bags, and get something yg boleh pakai utk many occasion and not too fancy.

Until now, i stick to the style yg ice dah cuba refined dari dulu..I stick to my own style..and not trends..Trend come and go..it might now be suitable for us. Pasal fashion ni, follow your own speed. So what jika benda tu outdated. If you look good wearing it, jgn dengar kata org. I like simple, classic and sedikit hip style..mcm gabrielle dlm Desperate Housewives tu. My clothes jauh dr fancy..semuanya simple saja..tp tak menenggelamkan kite sbg pemakai. I want to wear those clothes..bukan baju tu yg pakai kite..That's the key yg kita kena faham.

Misi: Perubahan dari segi pemilihan warna

I used to like pastels..rasa innocent dan suci je..macam princess apabila memakainya..I i went through lots of phases with colours..The baby blue phase, the apple green phase, the purple phase, the pink phase, the black phase..Dari situ, boleh pick what tone of colour yg sesuai..

Green is the hardest to wear..Salah shade of green, mmg kusam dan tak berserilah pemakainya..That's a real challenge. I started to buy green a lot..and ended up with a few types of greens yg boleh light up my face..

So now i know..i looks best apabila memakai merah, medium dark green and green yg mcm gula-gula and a few other colours..So settle dah satu problem..Move on to other problem lak..

Misi: Perubahan rambut.

Rasa boringlah berambut hitam tak bermaya and wavy hair..So i got it straightened and coloured..Setahun 3 kali tukar warna..Dari situ jugak me tahu apa warna yg buat my face jadi panas dan apa yg buat kulit jadi cerah..I like playing with colors..sebab banyak pengaruhnya pada appearance...

A person can look like a nyonya dgn warna kuning-oren  karat..but looks so gorgeous bila pakai warna merah (and vice versa)..

Have been through it all..warna blonde terang pernah..warna gelap pernah..Tapi kena berani dgn persepsi org..Sbb sometimes people tend to label you macam gitu, macam gini..

Misi: perubahan dari segi solekan

Ini yg paling last sekali. Asalnya, i'm not into makeups..I'm into clothes, bags, shoes..ect..Tapi sejak berforum n rajin berinternet ni la..tetiba tertukar jadi makeupholic..Pakainya jarang..tapi rajin membeli..But me pastikan yg me berpuas hati dgn purchase tersebut.

Start small..Like a lippie.A gloss or whatsover..Bila dan berani sikit..barulah move on to advanced items..Bila dah move on, barulah interested nak tahu lebih mendalam ttg beribu brand yg ada di pasaran..and interested pulak nak tahu how this colour and that colour changes the face..

Kemudian..interested nak korek psl brand yg tak available kat M'sia sbb tanak ketinggalan menerai apa yg mereka kata bagus..Hai..asyik spend je kerja haku..

Tu je la nak cerita..The bottomline is, hampir semua org at one point of their live, pernah dan akan melalui change ini. Take it as a challenge. Gather as much info as you can. Jgn malu bertanya..i stop strangers di tengah jalan to ask what is their haircolour..hahaha..Jika ada peluang lihat kawan di makeupkan oleh makeup artist, buka mata luas-luas and observe. Mulut tutup yea..nanti mengacau pulak..Make a mental note of how the artists does it..Haku la org paling heppy kalau dapat sebilik dgn pengantin yg tengah dimekapkan..

I love dramatic changes..it boosts the self confidence and kita dapat semangat baru, hidup baru..Tp jati diri mcm ikhlas, merendah diri, baik hati tu lah yg menjadikan kita a person..kalau tak kite sekadar jasad yg suka bermekap je..hihihih

[At last..habis jugak..:gila:]

reynna

:clap: :clap: well done, ice!!

terbakar jiwa raga membaca, rasa mcm nak start enjin skang gak!! :bgrin: