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Queen_zeuz,
fr what i heard, if miscarriage at early stage, usually due to hormon imbalance, or genetic prob, blood prob (sometimes percantuman darah moms n dad could get haywire not matched) or could be diet too..
if masalah rahim tak kuat to hold the baby, usually will misc at later stage, say 15w onwards, because by then baby dah getting bigger and weak uterus cannot hold the weight. and diagnosis will only be made after 2 or 3 subsequent misc at same stage of pregnancy.
but again, not necessarily tru sebab me misc at 15w, suspected rahim tak kuat but i survived 2nd pregnancy.
if not mistaken, some dr will do test on the embrio utk kenalpasti reason tak jadi, but im not sure whether we can ask the result or not, supposedly boleh la kan? but me pun tak get back to dr pun.. malas la sebab kat GH, tau la leceh dia kan.. |
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Originally posted by queen_zeuz at 8-2-2007 05:26 PM
So end of january this year, i pun buat upt coz period dah due 10 ari....alhamdullillah mengandung kembali...after nearly 2 years. Kalau ikut tarikh my last period sepatutnya i dah 7 weeks, so bu ...
nasib kita sama gueen...tapi kena bersabar....saya pun 2 kali gugur in the same year..1st bb takder heartbeat..2nd mmg sebijik mcm kes awak..karung bb kosong tak nampak pape pun..padahal masa tu dah 8wks..so gynea soh datang lagi 1 weeks utk tgk perkembangan bb..tapi saya tak pegi sbb saya tawakkal jer....lepas 10 hari gitu...tgh malam kaur coklat2 gitu..sikit jer...dah debar2 dah time tu...tapi saya terus tidur..dan masa tu saya redha jer..dan saya berdoa & minta petunjuk kepada allah..sekirannya kali ni pun masih bukan rezeki aku..kau ambillah kandungan aku ni...
then the next morning baru kuar darah sikit2...dan time tu jugak saya dah tak rasa sakit kat breast!!!mmg confirmed la gugur!!terus gi PPUM..tapi doc ckp kalu boleh biar dia kuar sendiri...so saya balik umah..tgm mlm tu saya rasa contraction...saya bersyukur sangat w/pun saya belum mengalami contraction masa bersalin..tapi ALLAH bagi juga saya peluang merasai mcm mana rasa contraction....memula every 20mins...pastu lepas 1 jam lebih...contraction tu datang every 5mins..then then lebih kurang kul 4.30am baru lah kuar semua...baru la saya bole tidur nyenyak!!!so besok nyer gi PPUM balik doc scan ckp dah kuar semua...alhamdulillah... |
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Reply #159 queen_zeuz's post
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siannya me dgr... me paham mmg susah nak terima sbb me pun dah merasa... sedangkan me yg dah ada anak pun terasa sgt bila gugur, ni kan pulak org yg dah lama menunggu... apa2 pun byk2 bersabar yek.. lg tension lg susah nak lekat nanti... |
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Reply #161 ananur's post
tu la my gynae pun kata lepas i cuci this time she want to prepare me for next pregnancy...to avoid benda macam ni jadi lagi..if ditakdirkan i pregnant. Anyway tu la thats why i nak pergi for 2nd opinion kalau boleh nak tanya kat doctor betul2 apa sebab jadi macam ni and apa yg perlu dilakukan utk mengelak the same thing from happening again.
My my gynae memang ada mentioned yg baby ni tak jadi maybe sebab blood problem yg macam u cakap tu and she also said maybe its chromosome defect. Hmm entah la naik stress bila fikir semua ni.
Faktor diet pulak hmm im quite normal size not big not skinny. You all tau tak kalau faktor makanan pulak? But im a coffee person. Must have one cup in the morning....I hope ini bukan penyebab my baby cannot grow. |
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Reply #162 GubRa_80's post
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Lucky you coz darah kuar sendiri....i nie sampai hari ni belum cuci lagi & tak kuar darah pun. But apa yg i perasaan memang breast dah tak sakit and lagi satu brown spotting tu cuma kuar right after lunch je, malam takde pulak....dah dua hari keadaan macam ni...nak solat pun tak pasti ok ke tak. I just hope im gonna be okay tak sakit till next thursday. You all rasa ok ke kalau i tak pergi cuci immediately??? |
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Reply #163 zaida's post
thanx zaida...memang pada mulanya susah sgt nak terima hakikat ni pergi office pun mata bengkak je...ye la lama tunggu tu. This year dah 5 tahun kita org kawin. At least you ada sorang pengubat hati. Apa yg i buat skrg ni is menumpang kasih kat anak my younger sister...shes one year plus now and dah mula pandai cakap. Excited sgt bila dgr dia panggil i mimi sbb dia belum pandai nak panggil mummy lagi yg my hubby pulak dia dok panggil didi...kelakar la jugak.Kalau anak i yg first tu hidup, umur dia sama dgn anak my sis ni...sbb kita org sama2 pregnant masa tu.
Anyway panjang pulak cite i ni sorry eh...my emotion skrg ni dah ok skit dah boleh accept apa yg terjadi. Slowy recover la kata org...cuma tak boleh duduk sendiri mesti buat-buat busy kalau tak sure melayan perasaan... |
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Originally posted by queen_zeuz at 9-2-2007 09:33 AM
Lucky you coz darah kuar sendiri....i nie sampai hari ni belum cuci lagi & tak kuar darah pun. But apa yg i perasaan memang breast dah tak sakit and lagi satu brown spotting tu cuma kuar righ ...
kalu awak nak tggu..itu i'm not sure..tapi dulu my gynea penah inform kat saya kalu simpan kandungan tu lelama boleh bagi infection kat rahim...biler kandungan tu tak manjadi...dia akan jadi beracun.. lebih kurang gitu la...my advise tio u..better u refer to the gynea...jgn tggu lelama sangat..ader rezeki..ader la..kalu takder rezeki lagi kali ni...mungkin ader hikmah disebaliknyer...hanya ALLAH sajer yg tahu disebalik kejadianNYA..:pray: |
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semoga sesama kita di kurniakan zuriat lagi... :pray: |
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queen.
masa gi jumpa gynae dia tak soh cuci ke?
kekdg kalau awal sgt tayah cuci pun takpe, makan ubat je kasi kuar..
tp risikonya kalau tak keluar habis yg jadi busuk kat dlm i.e infection, whic could lead to other bigger prob..silap2 rahim leh rosak lak or can cause cancer
atleast dr kena kasi antibiotik utk kurangkan infection.
bab pemakan mmg kena jaga, sebab dari mula janin terbentuk tu la masa paling crucial.. kalau boleh elakkan mkn yg tak elok mcm kafein,msg sebab ada kemungkinan dia efek ke baby.. biar beringat lebih dr menyesall.. biar la apa org nk ckp as long as permata yg ditunggu dpt jua akhirnya..
kena ingat tak semua org sama, stgh org mungkin tahan mkn mcm2, mungkin u tak tahan kita taktau..
my fren dulu suka sgt mkn megi, sekali peknen tgk janin tak berapa elok ikut kata dr, but dr kata we try 'bela' dulu, but last2 gugur gak.. |
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kita kena ingat satu je..
apa2 pun terjadi itu yg terbaik buat kita dan baby..sebab tu dah ditentukan camgitu.. cam kalau la katakan betu janin ada genetic defect, kalau tak gugur pun ntah2 lahir tak cukup sifat ke lagi susah kan kita nk jaga.. |
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Reply #170 ananur's post
betul kata ananur tu...
tp... insyaAllah kalau janin tu ada masalah yg kritikal dia akan keluar ngan sedirinya.... dan sentiasalah berdoa semoga dipermudahkan segalanya....:pray: |
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Originally posted by ananur at 9-2-2007 01:16 PM
kita kena ingat satu je..
apa2 pun terjadi itu yg terbaik buat kita dan baby..sebab tu dah ditentukan camgitu.. cam kalau la katakan betu janin ada genetic defect, kalau tak gugur pun ntah2 lahi ...
:setuju: ....itulah prinsip yg saya tanamkan dlm diri saya.... |
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bad news sekali lagi..
scan untuk lapan minggu - empty sac
same case like queen_zuez
tapi sac tu dok ler lekat lagi
bleeding sket pun tak keluar,
baru lepas dnc dua hari lepas, pasal dah tak tahan bisa dah.. tapi dia taknak keluar2 jugak
2nd case happened; missed abortion, dr kata untuk kali ni diorang masih anggap normal abortion... jadik sekiranya berlaku lagi kali ke tiga baru mereka akan buat invesstigation. termasuk yang macam korang sebutkan kat atas tu ar.. blood parents, genetics dan entah hapa2 lagi. dia kata test tu panjang n stressful.. |
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Reply #173 yays's post
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sabar ye yays's.... |
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Reply #169 ananur's post
mel plak dulu masa gi scan mmg xder ape...
rahim dh bersih...
mel pn xtau mel dh pregnant after iui tu...
n xtau pn dh keguguran..
doc kata complete abortion...
mel igt period, patutler lama giler kuar darah.....
n ade kuar sarung mcm kantung pastu kuar seketul daging...
adela jg syak gugur, tp bila wat upt -ve manjang....
tu yg konpius...........
hrp2 adela rezeki mel thn ni.......
INSYAALLAH....
dan utk kengkawan lain juga...
[ Last edited by mmelonberries at 14-2-2007 01:05 PM ] |
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Reply #173 yays's post
sabay yays....
maybe ade rezeki yays nnt....
yays pn xde masalah nk pregnant kan... |
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Reply #173 yays's post
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sabar lah yek yays... ada hikmah di sebalik semua yg berlaku.. |
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yays..
me advise tunggu dulu sebelom try again
ikut org tua eloknya paling cepat pun 6 mth gitu..
tak pe sabar kejap kan
better than risk misc again |
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Reply #178 ananur's post
betul ke kena rest 6 months? mean baru buat D&C 25 january 2007 baru ni. kes empty sac gak la. takde bleeding cuma masa scan tu mmg kosong la karung tu. doc kata april boleh cuba lagi. maknanya 3 bulan je.
so seeloknya rest 3 bulan ke 6 bulan? |
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Originally posted by justmean at 14-2-2007 02:21 PM
betul ke kena rest 6 months? mean baru buat D&C 25 january 2007 baru ni. kes empty sac gak la. takde bleeding cuma masa scan tu mmg kosong la karung tu. doc kata april boleh cuba lagi. maknan ...
kalau nak ikutkan rest lama skit lg elok.. bg rahim kuat balik... tp kalau dah 3 bln tu kira ok dah.. my gynae kata ok... jgn lps dnc terus lekat dah la... mcm me ni, sebulan jer kosong lps dnc, lps tu terus lekat... terus gi hospital utk amik supplemet/vitamin apa yg patut... alhamdulillah x de apa2.... |
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Post time 9-2-2007 08:49 AM
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