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budak sekolah dimanjakan - parents yang tak de adab--
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ibu bapa zaman sekarang terlalu manjakan anak. pada aku kalo hidup terlebih senang tu tak pe la (dah rezeki masing2) tapi jangan le mengajar anak2 hidup
senang memanjang, sudahnye nak wat pe2 semua tak leh sendiri. aku nak story pengalaman kawan aku dua ari lepas.
member ni dua period sebelum balik, dia ada kelas kemahiran hidup kat bengkel. bese le dah wat kat bengkel tentu le bersepah2 barang yang budak ni pakai.
then sebelum balik member ni suruh kemas dan lewat 5 minit keluar kelas. tak lama lepas tu, member dah tutup bengkel naik bilik guru ada le sorang cikgu lain
cakap ada satu parent ni nak jumpa cikgu E ni, dan suruh cikgu E turun jumpa dia kat bawah. ewah2...nak jumpa cikgu, suruh cikgu ngadap dia plak. u nak
jumpa u naik le atas ngadap kite. then my friend ni refused to go sebab bengang dengan parent tu.
tak lama tu parent tu call opis dan marah2 cikgu E ni. bukan sebab lambat 5 minit tapi sebab suruh anak dia kemas bengkel. katanye "ingat anak saya ni
pekerja indonesia ke nak suruh2 kemas bengkel?" amboi..bahasa dia sedap sungguh. dah anak dia guna barang2 kat bengkel kena le kemas balik. takkan le
kemas bengkel atau bilik seni pun salah? (bukan orang lain pakai, ur kids gak yang guna) ada ke patut?
mcm mana forumers? adakah patut parents manjaan budak sampai tak leh nak suruh2 anak2 ni wat keje sampingan di sekolah such as tolong cikgu angkat
buku, kemas2 dan gotong royong? |
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Reply #1 teacher_shakira's post
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p#$%*&k punye parent.. panasnye ati aku |
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:@ tempelak je balik...parent tu..sesedap je tengking2 org.
Hello...dia yang hantar anak di ke sekolah nak tuntut ilmu kan... bukan cikgu tu yg terhegeh2 nak ajar anak dia kan 
Nak tuntut ilmu nih kene la ada adabnya |
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hmmm
mmg it's tough being teachers these days bcoz they dont only hav 2 deal wit kids, but also their parents. dpt plak parents yg langsung x leh ank derang disentuh!  kalau ank bagus tu satu hal lah, ni ank pon x tau wat the future holds 4 them...
i think our parents dulu xde la camni kan...
ramai jugak my frens wit tie noble profession, mcm2 cite la. ade sorang ni, cant r'ber wat triggered sorang parents ni mengamuk kt staff room, marah2 penolong kanan (who is an ustaz) tp the PK didnt do anything xcept kept on apologizing. bile dh smpai satu tahap tu, parent ni dh berapi2 sgt, the PK calmly said tis 2 him "patut la anak encik biadap, encik sdiri pon biadap.".
terkedu parent tu! |
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my nephew cikgu. dia ada citer jugak..dia ngajar area damansara, ada la anak2 org kaya yg sombong dan bongkak. pas tu pengetua siap pesan budak2 ni jgn sentuh langsung, biar jer..kalau nak bodoh..bodoh la..nak pandai..pandai la....ishhh aku sekolah zaman dulu cukup respect kat cikgu. kalau cikgu rotan ker apa ker x berani aku nak balik bg tau mak pak aku...kan apa nnt aku plak kena pelangkung ngan mak pak aku... |
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since my eldest dah form 2, banyakla jugak incidents2 in school yang mac dapat tau.... kereneh ibu bapa memand menjengkelkan.
Ada yang ajar anak berbohong, ada yang direct ajer hina cikgu, ada yang nonstop membodek cikgu.... Perangai parents begini memang memalukan.
Tapi syukur, setakat ni my kids memang rapat with teachers, and cikgu pun treat them macam anak sendiri. So rasa hormat, rasa in awe towards the teachers ada dalam diri mereka. Although ada teachers yg entah apa2, I asked them untk buat biasa ajer. BEcause teachers are human, ada ups and downs juga. Mungkin masa tu dia ada masalah. Even yg racist pun, I would tell my children, as long as cikgu tu ajar you elok2, dia still berjasa pada you. |
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ada kids yang memang manja and mangada kat sekolah. Yang paling mac tak suka ialah kids yang suka show off their wealth.
Mac memang ajar anak berjimat. They will only get to buy expensive stuffs during their birthday and bila dapat good results. And I told them, kita mesti rendah diri, jangan nak show off. Kat sekolah they all, mac tgk, ada kids yang boast what car their parents drive, how big their houses are. I told my kids, the minute you walk in your school, what your parents have DOES NOT matter. But you are being measured as what you are as an individual in school. Your sahsiah diri, your academic standard, the positions your hold in school, your kepimpinan diri, your personality. Tak masuk book pasal gaji mak bapak awak brapa! |
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mac, ur story inspired me....
mmg tak rugi kalau merendah diri..... |
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ramai sgtlah mak/ayah camni.....mostly dlm ranking middle class yg rasa dia dapat gaji besar sebab otak dia cerdik...
jgn terkejut cikgu anak2 yg dilatih camni....memang ada potensi utk memBULLY mak/ayah dia sendiri...i pernah witnessed myself with this kind of kid.....pompuan baru usia 9 thn, anak org berada....dia panggil mak dia "babi" sebab mak dia suruh angkat kasut adik drp terjatuh dlm kolam.....
i bet if were the mother.....i sepak pegi balik mulut anak camtu |
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Reply #1 teacher_shakira's post
tak patut kita as parent buat mcm tu.. kalaupun nak bela anak tu tgk la reason tertentu.. jgn sbb silly reason mcm tu.. memalukan sggh..
mac, byk belajar dari otai mcm u.. nanti i ckp kat my anak mcm yg u ckp tu juga.. kecik2 lagi patut diajar mcm ni..
this happens to my nephew (skang dah form 3).. kalo PIL amik dia dari school, dia suh PIL park jauh2.. just becoz PIL drives an old toyota landcruiser... kalo mak dia amik sikit punya eksen lambai kat kawan semua sbb his mum drives a toyota lexus, sometimes bawa camry
seriously...... i do not know how to handle this kind of situation if this happens to my son... i was freaked out.. dulu rapat dgn nephew ni masa dia kecik2.. tapi after i moved to my own place dah jarang jumpa.. dah besar jadi camni lak... |
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Reply #13 my-alja's post
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ntah la alja... ada makpak miskin, anak leh menjadi, ada makpak kaya anak jadi sampah.. vice versa...... sometimes kesilapan kita sendiri kita tak nampak.. kena tawakal at the same time improve diri sendiri, & guide our anak2 like they way we should |
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Originally posted by tina^^ at 28-3-2008 09:33 AM 
mac, ur story inspired me....
mmg tak rugi kalau merendah diri.....
haah. younger kids, std 1, std2, ni can get affected and rasa rendah diri bila ada kawan2 yg boast.
And ada one time, kawan dia bawak sekolah the things yg dia baru beli..... cantikla, gliterring, girly stuff. Then my girl came back to me, mama... you said I can have that if I get no1, how come that girl can get it from her mom, padahal she always get no 40? My girl memang frust masa tu.
That day i had to talk to her about different expectation by different people, and how important it is to have a goal in our life. I told her, I can buy it for her anytime, but the most important thing is I want her to earn it. Through exam results.
yg mac sakit hati, ini sekolah apalah dibawaknya toy ke sekolah..... (altho in the end, my girl got the same thing sbb dapat no1) |
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Reply #15 macademia's post
hahaha....tu yg bagus anak2 masuk sekolah, semua benda dia belajar..dr anak org kaya, anak org miskin...
anak my fren balik duk tanya mak dia...bila dia boleh pergi LONDON? ..sebab kawan2 anak pompuan pergi/balik london cam balik penang...
tapi i perasan, masalah nie selalu jadi kat anak2 pompuan kannn...anak lelaki nie lain sket dia punya priority...sapa ada transformer plg besar, dia plg besttt |
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Reply #15 macademia's post
Betul... parents skrg terlampau2 mewahkan anak2. Since anak I dok nursery yg agak ramai... around 40 kids dok situ, I more or less leh observe la how the parents treat their kids. I pulak yg risau takut anak I nnt terpengaruh pulak.
Anak I will be in std 1 next year. Skrg dia ok lg tp I risau bila dia dah sekolah nanti because she's going to make more friends, meet more people. I ingat I nak kena pinjam cara you approach your doter ni nanti when the time comes. TQ mac |
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Reply #13 my-alja's post
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mcm zaman ku skolah duluuuu jek...sesaper anak cekgu, eleh tayah anak cekgu, anak kerani sekolah pon berlagak...mentang2 parents derang keje dekat skolah....masa tue rasanyer, naperlaaa abah aku tak jadik cekgu ek?? ekekekek |
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kalau anak panggil mak sdirik 'bab1' mmg harus kena pelempang mulut....
masa ku pegi genting dulu, ku tgh rakam my hb dlm video cam, tp tercapture satu insiden, belakang my husband tue, budak dlm lingkungan 7-8tahun tgh ddduk dkt jalanraya tue, sambil bapak dier pujuk2 dier, and dier pegi tendang kaki bapak dier.....dkt public tue...i saw the parents pon mcm maluu ajek, anak menjerit2 sambil sepak tendang bapak sdirik....
pehtu ku ckp sama hb, if kena anak sdirik, depan2 tue jugak aku kasik pelempang....:@ |
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Reply #18 tina^^'s post
selama ni tak penah pulak sekelas dgn anak cikgu, tapi dgn anak cikgu besar when i was in secondary school.. budak tu langsung tak bangga diri, nerd ada la.. senyap je.. jump class dari form 1 terus to form 3... dpt result SRP je terus gi ozzie school.. skang dah jadi accountant, anak dah 2.. still in touch through emails/facebook.... she is so skinny masa sekolah dulu that we call her 'ranting' wakakaka!!
anyways.. just an old story pasal seorg anak guru besar  |
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Post time 28-3-2008 12:04 AM
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