Anakku Terlalu Leka Dengan Permainan Internet Games..

ksuriyani

Mana - mana kita dengar kerisauan/ keluhan ibu-bapa kerana anak-anak yang asyik dengan games..

Jika games play almost 4/5 hours steady lagi but once ask and dok belajar .. tak sampai 30 min dah boring.. nak makan lah, minum lah, tido and macam-macam lagi..

Frenz here any advice ..

AdamBillionaire

anak akak laki ke pompuan? kalau pompuan single tak? cun tak?

nasihat sy pastikan dia fokus pada pelajaran. nak main tak salah . tp ada hadnye. zaman remaja zaman memberontak. kalau tak dibentuk sikap dan ahlak dah besar jd panas baran dan tarzan jd guna medium slow talk. banding kan pencapaian dia terbaik yg dulu. duduk dgn dia masa dia study. take ur time dgn dia. anak akak ni MANUSIA bukan robot yg boleh di programming kan. jd kena guna pendekatan psikologi. kalau pendekatan sy guna kungfu panda kalau tak dgr ckp adk2 sy dh puas makan kungfu panda sy alhamdulillah 3 bakal jd doctor, yg lain harap2 moga mnjadi. yg penting asas kekeluargaan kak. mak ayah role model. do u best akak

macademia

Time cuti saya kasi anak main games. Time sekolah, tak boleh. Strictly tak boleh. Sebagai parents, kita boleh cakap NO to our kids. Tanpa perlu rasa takut, risau atau bersalah. Let the child knows apa your priority, and playing games is not in the list. Semasa sekolah, once in a while saya kasi main, eg birthday dia, after exam boleh main for a week (provided dia study all out masa exam), etc.

Anak saya pun main games je 24/7... tapi dia tahu time cuti sek je boleh. Time sekolah tak boleh.

misy

anak u umur berapa eh...sama gak le dgn my 10 y.o.. asyik nak main game cuti skolah ni...nasib kat rumah i tak belikan xbox psps etc...cuma dia  main kat aipad... sgt merunsingkan jugak

macademia

misy posted on 31-12-2012 11:01 AM
anak u umur berapa eh...sama gak le dgn my 10 y.o.. asyik nak main game cuti skolah ni...nasib kat r ...

my boy 12 tahun. Tahun ni masuk form 1.... Kat rumah ni, yg dia suka, main PSP, games kat Ipad, internet games. Mmg susah boys ni, celik aje dia ingat main games. Patutnya dari awal tak expose dia pada games ni. tapi yela, yg kat laptop satu, yg my hubby dok beli PSP, sbb dia kata utk diri dia bila boring travelling.... and yg happy sangat my son la kan...

Nak strict 100% mmg tak boleh la, lembik nanti dia huhu... so mac kena psycho la.... kena main tarik tali... Tapi masa dia std 6, mmg setahun la no PSP... kadang2 aje terlepas dia dapat main games kat lappy...

UPSR hari tu dapat 5A, mmg after UPSR aje dia 24/7 dgn games n main2 dgn kawan. Mmg tak ingat dunia la. Ni nak slow down kan dia sikit, nak start control. Nasib baik form 1, belum start belajar apa2 lagi... so ni dalam process nak kurangkan games mcm dulu.

tina^^

my son pon gilakan game internet. siap suruh i bayar lagik game2 yg kena beli online tue of which i say NO.

semalam, his 2nd day at school. waktu maghrib i nampak dier dah mengadap online game. i suruh solat, dier kater nanti.

secretly, i switch off jek wifi dkt rumah nie. lps tue i intai dier dok godek2 lappy and finally switch off and duduk tgk tv pulak. alih2 intai sekali lagi, dah tertido.

internet, i boleh control dgn switch off jek the wifi. i bagitau my husband, never explained to them yg internet tue dari wireless broadband kat rumah nie, sbb itu jek at the moment our controlling measure.

for tv pulak, certain channel i dah block. yg tinggal TVIQ and 613 ajek. itupon sbb educational cartoon.

tina^^

macademia posted on 3-1-2013 11:56 AM
my boy 12 tahun. Tahun ni masuk form 1.... Kat rumah ni, yg dia suka, main PSP, games kat Ipad, in ...

mac, masa sekolah kasik derang tgk tv tak?

selain main game, my son suker sgt tgk tv.

game - i know how to control it. switch off internet and sorok the device (ipad and lappy). setel.

tv - i lock certain channel yg i think non educational like hagemaru sumer tue. but educational channel like 613 tue i biarkan sbb my daughter on the other hand, learns a lot dari channel tue.

my only problem on tv is - my son akan alihbahasakan from english to malay. 2 beradik tue akan bergadoh sorang nak dengar english sorang nak dengar malay. but my daughter at the end akan mengalah. i plak panas telinga dengar cartoon english alih bahasa jd malay.

how to do it eh? i try setting options dalam astro on preferred language tue pon tadek aper yg boleh lock to preferabbly english only ker aper. how ah?

macademia

tina^^ posted on 4-1-2013 10:09 AM
my son pon gilakan game internet. siap suruh i bayar lagik game2 yg kena beli online tue of which i  ...

My son pun siap tanya brapa USD1 in RM, sbb nak pujuk i suruh charge kat my card, I said NO. Dia kata nanti dia bayar dgn duit dia, i said NO jugak.

My son ni bukan gamer tegar sangat, coz he start terdedah kat games pun baru 2 yrs. Unlike some kids yg dari tadika, or dari 3 tahun dah main games. So I'm now tryinghard to put him on track. Ni before g prayers dgn papa dia pun, sempat main satu game tu... hish... kasik chan lagi ni, sbb belum start belajar kat sekolah kannn....

macademia

tina^^ posted on 4-1-2013 12:43 PM
mac, masa sekolah kasik derang tgk tv tak?

selain main game, my son suker sgt tgk tv.

Masa duduk my parents house dulu, strictly no TV on weekdays. Tapi kat my house ni, TV on aje selalu, esp bila hubby balik office. But so far, anak I ni, due to the strict discipline by my mom dulu, dia ikut cakap la jugak. Antara kena leter 3 kali atau kena leter 5 kali, tu je. In the end dia tetap stop main game, or off the TV. Tapi kalau my mom suruh, terus je tutup TV tu hehe... Wan dia garang kalau bab2 mcm ni.

I selalu la gaduh dgn hubby. Bila anak nak exam. I nak anak belajar. Rumah i kecik. I suruh tutup TV aje. Hubby pulak nak tgk TV..... ( i ni pun hantu TV tapi i tgk after kids tidur)

tina^^

macademia posted on 4-1-2013 01:25 PM
Masa duduk my parents house dulu, strictly no TV on weekdays. Tapi kat my house ni, TV on aje sela ...

so strictly no tv during schooldays eh??

i plak malam mesti nak tgk berita. sbb tue ajek masa yg ada nak tau perkembangan luar. but, the moment switch on tv ajek...there goes...... kekadang i guna my kuasa veto - to watch only my selected show, kekadang i let them conquer the remote...

i tgh pk what is the best rule about watching the tv?? kalau che det dulu, abahnyer mmg tak kasik tgk tv langsong kan? lebe kurang gitula....

macademia

tina^^ posted on 4-1-2013 02:25 PM
so strictly no tv during schooldays eh??

i plak malam mesti nak tgk berita. sbb tue ajek masa y ...

eh lupa, berita at 8pm is a must. Tapi time ni pun, time budak2 makan, after solat maghrib. Kat rumah my parents dulu, strictly no TV for them (except berita sbb boleh tgk TV dari meja makan, well more to dengar TV, sbb TV tu jauh sikit hehe) SO during makan, would be family talk, tapi background, berita is on. Tapi at othehrtimes, TV on aje kat living room. Tapi kids will be in Study room.

Having said that, my kids are not deprived of TV pun, apatah lagi good educational programs. My eldest tu, cakap english slang mat salleh, sampaikan her friends (chinese n indian included) ramai tanya, was she born in US ke, masa kecik sekolah kat US ke, sbb slang mcm mat salleh. Infact, I overheard some GUru BEsars saying the same thing masa my daughter masuk competition Choral Speaking peringkat Negeri (my girl got the solo part) They said, dah student cakap english mcm balik overseas, mestila menang. Tapi my girl tak pernah pun pergi US. Bila org cakap mcm tu, mmg dia gelak besar la. She would say. Oh THANK YOU DISNEY CHANNEL! hehe..

eh i pun allergic sangat2 kalau ceta omputih ditranslate to BM. Tak boleh telinga i dengar.

Gegancu

senang je, jangan bagi main INTERNET. setel.

ksuriyani

thanks pada semua yg beri komen/ advice... it such valuable for me and might to other too right?

Just for the record.. within a month i sonyap yo dok pikir strategi camner nak fight with my kids nyer disease.. main games and tenet mengtenet ni.. make us tenat memikirkannya...

What I did:-
1.I've went to parenting skill and baca balik.. plus muhasabah diri. Me and hubby gi "Teknik Mendidik Anak Melalui Kaedah Nabi".. insyallah akan saya postkan apa yg saya pelajari.. It make me review back my function as a mum.
2.Doa banyak-banyak lembut hati depa
3.Mula buat jadual and konsep denda dipraktikkan.. Sun 8:30PM till Sat 2PM NO internet/games etc.. from 2PM SAT-SUN 8:30PM it's all their time.. they decide what to do - kire aktiviti bebas depa.. but internet/games 2HR-3HR for SAT/SUN (jika within that week prangan kira agak-agak OK tambah 1 jam lagi... but if he caught melanggar peraturan NO SAT/SUN internet@games for them).
If within MONDAY-FRIDAY is need to use internet due to school homework I allow it but saya selalu pantau... kira dok sama-sama ngn mrk..
4.La ni I more control myself and slalu dok berdoa me/hubby dipermudahkan dlm mendidik anak-anak and kami yakin and mahu menggunakan teknik Nabi dlm mendidik anak-anak kami..
.. my first one boy is FORM 3.. emmph PMR another boy YEAR 6.. emmph UPSR and the last one is girl YEAR 1.. emmph ujian linus lak... so mmg agak memeningkan plus bisa cepat naik angin lah juga... but as again I try to control myself walau kekadang terlepas lah juga...

ALHAMDULILLAH since i post .. all three kids to dah ada tunjukkan perkembangan yang positif.. but still need to pantau
but just last 2 wk datang lak another cabaran... jeng-jeng will continue lagi.. got to tidur ni.. esok nak ngikut hubby and geng bike dia ke Rumah Anak Yatim kat Perak..