Awek kena hencap sbb mkn di khalayak ramai

Euro_2016

June 26, 2016
Harassed for being seen eating during Ramadan
FMT Reporters



PETALING JAYA: A Muslim woman who is an activist has taken issue with the harassment, verbal abuse and public persecution that goes with moral and religious policing of Muslims in Malaysia.

The woman, who goes by the name ‘Mrym Lee’ on Facebook and Twitter,has ignited a debate on the issue of moral policing in the country.

In a recent posting, she wrote about how she and a friend were harassed in public when they both decided to make a protest against moral and religious policing by deliberately eating and drinking in public during Ramadan, while visibly being a Muslim in hijab.

On one occasion, a restaurant manager in a Kuala Lumpur shopping mall questioned whether she was a Malay and Muslim, and why she was not fasting.

She said that eating and drinking were not against the law, only for the manager to respond to her by saying she was “damaging” the image of Islam.

“I then went to him, explaining how he’s been rude to me as a customer, and he explained that religious authorities could raid the restaurant and mete out penalties for serving Muslims during Ramadan.”

Five minutes later, a Malay Muslim customer at the restaurant with his family came to her table to question her right to eat in public, accusing her of not respecting those who were fasting. He, too, accused her of not respecting Islam.

Mrym Lee said such religious policing of other people’s personal beliefs and rituals was rife and backwards mentality was worrying.

“Get your priorities straight. Go punish our corrupt politicians and fix our messed-up policies. Leave the practice of faiths to the individual, empower each other in society to do good, only then we’ll see productive progress,” she wrote.

Her accounts and subsequent polls on her Twitter account have drawn mixed views. Some commenters supported her, saying she was right to stand up for her rights. Others said that while she was within her rights to eat in public when not fasting, it was disrespectful to do so in front of others, with one commenter saying that eating in front of fasting children made it hard for the children to keep up with their fasting.

Some commenters chastised her and questioned her lack of common sense.

Mrym ran two polls, one asking Muslims whether they ate or drank in public during Ramadan and another on whether they felt it was wrong to do so.

Some 58 per cent of 835 respondents said they did not eat or drink in public out of respect of other Muslims, while 63 per cent of 701 respondents said it was not wrong for Muslims to eat or drink in public during Ramadan.



Sib baik ko tak kena pukul cam pakcik hindu yg makan pisang di bulan romadan

Elok je awek aku makan sushi king dgn aku.. xde yg kurang ajar.. kang terbalik restoran tu nanti

membesar

Tak faham kenapa dia nak kena makan kat public pastu viralkan pulak. Obviously orang period tak boleh puasa. Tapi takpayah kot bagitau semua orang kau tak puasa. Tapi yelah hak masing masing kan... :zz

TuntungReturn

nk cye ke x ni? takot mcm cite kak hasanah

sofiazara

bodoh takde adab

Innrukia

melayu muslim skrg kalo tak vocal tak cool
so announce jerla ....hey aku tgh haid so suka ati aku la nk mkn kat public pun...

member2 non muslim aku sangat respect kat aku yg muslim, hatta kata2 & action mmg berbudi bahasa tak kira bulan puasa....
maybe sbb kawan2 aku ni jenis yg warak juga even depa christian/hindu/buddha or atheist yg btl2 atheist... keyword kat sini: respect & bkn nk buktikan sapa betul @ salah....

Skuau

membesar replied at 26-6-2016 08:49 PM
Tak faham kenapa dia nak kena makan kat public pastu viralkan pulak. Obviously orang period tak bole ...

Apabila 'bukan satu jenayah/kesalahan' diguna pakai dalam persoalan adab dan budaya....

cmf_premierleag

TuntungReturn replied at 26-6-2016 08:56 PM
nk cye ke x ni? takot mcm cite kak hasanah

Kalo ikut cite kak senah...mesti ada part usap ubun2 kepala sambil berselawat
Tp dlm kes ni takde
So bleh le dipercayai      

Wanieesyah

Kenapa mesti makan dikhalayak ramai, tak ada sifat malu ke?
Kalau tak puasa tapau ajelah bawak balik rumah makan..
kita sendiri kat rumah pun tak makan/minum sesuka hati  
depan anak2.  Ini bukan cerita pasal politik, tapi rasa malu dah
tak ada.. enough said..

mesmerize

makan la sorok2 kot ye pun period
aritu ai cuti posa tapau auntie anne pretzel n makan dalam kereta je kat basement parking office .. pastu ada gak ai nampak cikki2 malays makan kat surau.. takde hal la kan..

aHoi83

Kenapa tk ambik je pic "sanita" berdarah n uploadkan di fb utk diviralkan . Lebih terang n jelas gitu

Euro_2016

TuntungReturn replied at 26-6-2016 08:56 PM
nk cye ke x ni? takot mcm cite kak hasanah

Ditegur kerana makan pada bulan Ramadan, Mrym Lee menuntut kewajaran
Kohilah Sekaran, Astro Awani |  Diterbitkan pada Jun 26, 2016 20:25 MYT

Selepas dimalukan secara terbuka, Mrym Lee mempersoal kewajaran orang ramai menegur dan menghina terhadap golongan wanita yang makan pada bulan Ramadan.
Selepas dimalukan secara terbuka, Mrym Lee mempersoal kewajaran orang ramai menegur dan menghina terhadap golongan wanita yang makan pada bulan Ramadan.

Mrym Lee, yang juga merupakan seorang aktivis menimbulkan satu perdebatan mengenai isu pengawasan moral di negara ini menerusi akaun Facebooknya.

Dia berkongsi kisah bagaimana dia dan rakannya ditegur apabila kedua-dua mereka memutuskan untuk membantah gejala pengawasan moral dengan sengaja menjamu selera di khalayak ramai pada bulan Ramadan.

Mrym Lee menyatakan baru-baru ini seorang pengurus restoran di sebuah pusat membeli-belah Kuala Lumpur memarahinya kerana makan di restoran itu secara terbuka.

Menurut aktivis itu, dia cuba memahamkan pengurus tersebut kenapa dia terkecuali, namun beliau menyifatkan tindakan Mrym sebagai “menghina agama’,

“Encik, makan dan minum bukan salah di sisi undang-undang," Mrym menjawab

"Ye lah tapi awak buat macam ini mencalarkan imej Islam," kata pengurus itu kepada Mrym.

“Saya kemudian menjelaskan kepada pengurus itu bahawa dia gagal menghormati saya sebagai pelanggan, namun beliau menjelaskan bahawa pihak berkuasa boleh menjatuhkan hukuman jika menjual makanan kepada orang Islam pada bulan Ramadan," tulis Mrym.

Jelas Mrym, lima minit kemudian, seorang pelanggan Melayu yang berada di restoran itu turut mempersoal haknya untuk makan di khalayak ramai.

“Abang tahu perempuan ada masalah. Apa hak kau nak makan kat tempat umum ni, dik”

Tambah Mrym, ia lebih menyedihkan apabila mereka menghukum wanita kerana biologi mereka.

"Tiada apa masalah langsung dengan wanita yang tidak boleh puasa," jawab Mrym terhadap kecaman lelaki itu.

Mrym berkata pengawasan terhadap kepercayaan peribadi dan ritual orang lain merupakan satu mentaliti yang membimbangkan.

“Berilah perhatian kepada isu yang lebih besar. Banyak perkara yang perlu diberi perhatian. Tinggalkan amalan agama sebagai peribadi orang, sokong satu sama lain untuk berbuat baik, barulah kita akan melihat kemajuan," ujar Mrym.

hayati_soraya

saja nak provoke

akik

Aku tak sokong perbuatan perempuan ni.walaupun dia tak puasa,adab sesama muslim kena la jaga.apetah pula pekerja2 kedai tu islam.kalau non muslim nak makan lantak lah.
Tapi aku kalau kat rumah tak boleh puasa aku makan je depan bapak,mak,adik laki aku.tak kuasa la nak makan sorok2 kat rumah.

Euro_2016

mesmerize replied at 26-6-2016 09:07 PM
makan la sorok2 kot ye pun period
aritu ai cuti posa tapau auntie anne pretzel n makan dalam  ...

Boleh masuk surau kaa? Bukankah perempuan yg ada haid tu seumpama najis mughallazah  

Mary_jane

Kalau jadi kat overseas, takde sapa nak viralkan kisah picisan kau ni dik. Jaga adab, jangan sibuk telanjangkan kepandaian sendiri.

mesmerize

Euro_2016 replied at 26-6-2016 09:31 PM
Boleh masuk surau kaa? Bukankah perempuan yg ada haid tu seumpama najis mughallazah

surau boleh.. duduk ujung2 aje la jangan pulak tengah heavy period ko pegi duduk area tengah2 tempat orang bersolat .. yg tak bole masuk masjid.
jangan tanya aku kenapa surau bole masjid tak bole. sebab aku pun tak tahu

ekod79

apsal ko tak makan depan bos (kalau muslim yg berpuasa) ko aje....tau lak beradab depan bos...kuikuikui....aktivis otak kat lutut...konon tunjuk protes

juliez

Apa sebenarnya matlamat minah ni? Apa yg dia nak tunjukkan? Apa yg dia nak tegakkan? Apa yg dia perjuangkan? Serious i tak faham

Knp ada manusia mcm ni yg merumitkan benda2 yg mudah

mokcikKSKB

Euro_2016 replied at 26-6-2016 09:31 PM
Boleh masuk surau kaa? Bukankah perempuan yg ada haid tu seumpama najis mughallazah

Baru nk seru acong dah mai siap.  

mokcikKSKB

juliez replied at 26-6-2016 09:41 PM
Apa sebenarnya matlamat minah ni? Apa yg dia nak tunjukkan? Apa yg dia nak tegakkan? Apa yg dia perj ...

Dia nk bgtau dia period dan x posa so dia nk gunakan kelebihan x posa tu utk provoke org sesaja...bila dia buat camni makin ramailah perempuan mkn publicly atas alasan tgh period.samada period ke x, idoklah kita tau...