Anak dah pandai membuli, camne ekk

kokocincau

Dear all forumers,

Koko ada satu prblem la, baru kejap ni ada sorang mother tu telepon and bagitau anak dier balik rumah nangis2 semalam. Bila di tya sbb kena buli ngan anak koko and kroni2 nya.
Ada x apa2 tips atau cara2 mcm mana nak bina ayat utk koko ckp ngan dotter nih.
Kalau kat umah, xde la nampak cam ada potensi utk membuli org. Tapi sampai mother budak tu call ni dah kira kes berat..... adus tolong la koko....

uishh berat gak kes ni, anak awk umur berapa ni? tp kan bukan salah kita gak kan sbb bukan kita suruh pun anak tu buli org. tapi apa daya waktu dia buat tu di belakang pengetahuan kita. saya cadangkan cuba awk slow talk ngan anak awk tu. tanya dan kemungkinan dgn teguran awk tu dia akan takut nk buat lg..

kokocincau

Anak I nih Std 3, n budak yg dibuli nih Std 1. Before, dier penah komplen yg budak nih suka pki barang2 dier spt towel, kasut sekolah etc. Tp saya kata biar la , maybe dier x bwk.(dlm hati geram gak) hehehh.
For your info pengasuh kat taska nih xde pun penah inform saya pasal hal anak saya tu. Maybe dier kacau budak tu masa pengasuh tu x nmpk kuts... :cf:

AnitaSabrina

Find out the reason why your girl membuli budak tu.  If it is the fact budak tu suka guna barang-barang dia (your daughter) then inform your daughter she has 2 options :
- tell the victim to stop using your daughter's stuff
- inform kat pengasuh taska budak about it (ni your daughter la inform first).  If still no change then you'll have to inform the pengasuh about it.  
Kids can be possessive of their belongings.  

Let your daughter be responsible for her actions and try to solve the problem herself.  At the same time you can teach your daughter that it is wrong to hurt another person especially someone smaller than her.  What if a bigger person start to bully her (your daughter) sure dia tak suka kan.