I’m Ready To Lose My Virginity At 70 Up for it ... club singer Pam
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By JACK McKAY
Published: 10thMay 2012
A VIRGIN aged 70 yesterday declared she is ready to have sex.
Cabaret singer Pam Shaw said she has always been too busy working to find a man.
And even though she sings under the saucy name The Sexational Pam — and has rubbed shoulders over the years with sex symbols of the time like Tom Jones and Roger Moore — she has never hopped between the sheets.
Pam explained she does not believe in sex before marriage. And as she has stayed single there was no question of losing her virginity.
Stage act ... Pam as Tina Turner
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But she said: “Now’s the time. I’m ready to take the plunge for the right bloke.
“My standards are still very high, though. I’m hoping to bag a tall, dark and handsome millionaire.
“I feel I am ready to give marriage a go and maybe go to bed with a man. You are never too old for anything. Just look at Joan Collins.”
Pam, who dresses in revealing costumes when she performs on Britain’s club circuit, added: “I like to think I’d be a real catch.
Racy ... in flimsy costume
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“I may be 70 but I’m young at heart. People can’t believe it when I tell them my age.
“I think I look great, maybe because I’ve never been married or had kids. I’m fun and have bundles of energy.”
Pam, of Wigan, Greater Manchester, lived with mum Lilian until she died aged 97 in 1995.
The singer’s career blossomed after she won TV talent show Opportunity Knocks in the 1960s.
Pose ... with motor
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She opened shows for comic Ken Dodd and crooner Englebert Humperdinck, performed on stage in Las Vegas and shared a dressing room with The Voice judge Tom Jones, now 71, during a week-long stint at Bolton Casino.
Pam said: “I was never short of offers in my heyday.
“Men saw the outfits I wore on stage and thought I would be easy.
“But I’ve never really been intimate with a man, just a bit of kissing. I had a sexy stage name and dressed sexy but that was all for my career.
Beehive babe ... in 60s
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“There has never been time for me to get a man. I worked so much that sometimes I’d only have an hour’s sleep each night. I wouldn’t entertain the idea of sex outside marriage — and marriage meant giving up on my dreams.”
Even when surrounded by some of the world’s hottest hunks, Pam held out.
She said: “Tom Jones was very good looking and we used to chat occasionally before I went on stage as the opening act. In the late 60s we performed together. There was only a curtain separating our dressing areas.”
Pam told how Eurovision hopeful Humperdinck, now 75, did think about trying it on.
Hunk ... Tom Jones in heyday
She said: “Engelbert and I stayed in the same lodging house in Leeds in the late 60s.
“He always had an eye for the ladies and was eventually banned from bringing back girls to the place. Although he was very flirtatious with me, my mum was my chaperone and wouldn’t allow any funny business.”
Pam, who has also appeared in TV ads, hit show Shameless and Alien Autopsy with Ant and Dec, admitted a couple of guys did catch her eye. She said: “In 1976 I was proposed to by an oil rig worker in Blackpool. I said yes but later broke it off when I realised I didn’t fancy him.
“The only man I thought I could go to bed with was a guy who came to watch me every night when I sang in Malta. But I wasn’t prepared to settle down — so it wasn’t to be.”[email protected]
Nenek 70 tahun siap sedia lepas keperawanannya untuk pertama kali
MANCHESTER - Kesibukan kadang dapat membuat orang lupa. Seperti halnya yang terjadi pada Pam Shaw di Inggris, yang mengaku masih perawan hingga usia 70 tahun. Selama ini Pam mengaku terlalu sibuk dengan pekerjaannya.
Sebagai penyanyi Kabaret, mengatakan, dirinya siap untuk melakukan hubungan seks pertama kali semasa hidupnya di usia 70 tahun. Selama ini dia mengaku terlalu sibuk dengan pekerjaannya sehingga tidak punya waktu untuk bersenang-senang dengan lelaki.
Walaupun pada usia muda dijuluki sebagai penyanyi sensasional, dia tidak pernah memiliki hubungan seks dengan lelaki manapun. Pam berprinsip untuk tidak melakukannya sebelum menikah.
"Saya tidak pernah benar-benar intim dengan seorang lelaki, hanya sedikit ciuman. Saya punya nama panggung yang seksi dan berpakaian seksi, tapi itu semua hanya untuk karier saya," ujar Pam, seperti dikutip dari The Sun, Kamis (10/5/2012).
Wanita yang sekarang hidup seorang diri tanpa orang tuanya itu mengaku saat ini adalah moment yang tepat untuk melepas keperawanan, kerana tidak ada yang mempermasalahkan dan mengkhuatirkan masalah itu. Sejak muda, ibunya selalu mendampinginnya dan mengawasinya dalam beraktiviti.
"Saat ini saya siap untuk mengambil segala risiko untuk memiliki hubugan dengan lelaki yang tepat. Kriteria pria bagi saya masih sangat tinggi, yakni lelaki yang berbadan tinggi, berkulit gelap dan tampan, serta kaya," tuturnya.
"Saya tidak pernah merasa terlalu tua untuk apa pun. Saya memang berusia 70 tahun tapi saya berjiwa muda. Saya masih terlihat menarik kerana saya belum pernah menikah atau punya anak," celoteh Pam.
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