why...selfish?

my-alja

org selfish nie bukan saja kedekut duit, tenaga dan apa saja milik dia....tapi lagi teruk sampaikan takleh nak doakan yg baik2 utk org keliling dia.....sebab apa ehh?

dah lah taknak tolong tapi jgnlah cakap yg bukan kat org tu....

individualistic nie terkenal kat barat...tapi selfishness sgt terkenal kat org kita....

dutchy

Originally posted by my-alja at 10-6-2007 08:57 PM
org selfish nie bukan saja kedekut duit, tenaga dan apa saja milik dia....tapi lagi teruk sampaikan takleh nak doakan yg baik2 utk org keliling dia.....sebab apa ehh?

dah lah taknak tolong tap ...

saper kater selfish more to org kita? then the term Scrooged tuh is from where?

selfish people are people that are sometimes driven to it by bad experience somewhere, somehow, and it shapes them to be such

in life u need to be selfish sometimes, in order for others to treat you with more respect, but do not be so cold hearted, that you are unforgiven or refuse to give a damn abt others people needs and wants


do not do unto others what you do not wish upon yourself

my-alja

Originally posted by dutchy at 10-6-2007 09:46 PM

saper kater selfish more to org kita? then the term Scrooged tuh is from where?

selfish people are people that are sometimes driven to it by bad experience somewhere, somehow, and it sh ...

masa menulis tu teringat cara org2 m'sian pandu kereta.... ..memang selfish gilerrrrrrr

Agul

Selfish=Selfless

wei_loon5063

Originally posted by dutchy at 10-6-2007 09:46 PM

in life u need to be selfish sometimes, in order for others to treat you with more respect, but do not be so cold hearted, that you are unforgiven or refuse to give a damn abt others people needs and wants

Bravo... the middle path..........

you cant be too kedekut till all people scare of you;

nor can you be too generous and give all that you got.

dutchy

Originally posted by my-alja at 10-6-2007 11:45 PM


masa menulis tu teringat cara org2 m'sian pandu kereta.... ..memang selfish gilerrrrrrr

owh tuh bkan selfish dear, that is impaired judgement   

dutchy

Originally posted by wei_loon5063 at 11-6-2007 06:48 PM



Bravo... the middle path..........

you cant be too kedekut till all people scare of you;

nor can you be too generous and give all that you got.  

yin and yang   

wei_loon5063

Originally posted by dutchy at 11-6-2007 08:04 PM

yin and yang    

Not yin and yang larr...

different concept

yin mean teduh, yang mean sinar....

dutchy

Originally posted by wei_loon5063 at 11-6-2007 08:31 PM





Not yin and yang larr...

different concept

yin mean teduh, yang mean sinar....

then what larrr...owh wise one   

wei_loon5063

Originally posted by dutchy at 11-6-2007 08:34 PM

then what larrr...owh wise one    

Middle path la....

Yin and yang is something like this... there wont be hot if there are no cold. Hot is the absensce of cold and vice versa

you need cold to show hot and vice versa

timeoutzone

揝elfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.

Agul

And yet,most people's a re living live of quiet desperation. They are living their parents life, and their son/daughter are living their lives...

redsinner

Selfish is to live life in desperation, as to runaway from every little thing that could leech your soul.

perluke?

by being unselfish you open up yourself and eventually connect yourself with the community....

that is the best...

Mansairaku

insecurity?

alongee

pada along...setiap individu samada secara sedar ataupun tidak akan menjadi selfish...kenapa?sebab sebagai manusia sudah menjadi fitrahnya mempunyai kehendak untuk dipenuhi.....