A or B?

wei_loon5063 · Post time 4-7-2007 12:41 AM

I chatted with my friends.. about future undertaking....

Which one of these that makes yourlife more meaningful?

A: Do what you want. Do not care what other people think or feel.. Including your family and love ones..even it might hurt them.
Do what you want... keep it all for yourself... your money.. donate nothing... keep it all..

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B: Do as what your family or love one wish.....you are no you.. you are what they said

I definately cant say like live in solitary and care not what other people feel...I prefer and enjoy the socialing including neighbours. This is hard to achieve in big cities....

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SONofODIN · Post time 4-7-2007 06:41 AM

Do what I want doesn't mean I gotta be selfish and rude.

wei_loon5063 · Post time 4-7-2007 06:44 AM

But excessive is..........

ajinomotonosuga · Post time 4-7-2007 07:45 AM

ur argument is very blurring lah wei loon

it is not simply like that.

u cannot expect things are the same in every part of area such as country or outback versus cities

u neglect the density factors for instance, meaning u will neglect others relevant factors regarding socio psychio eco. of the people

for a certain area, the density 10000 ppl per mile , wont be the same say for the same area if the density is 1000 ppl per mile

the whole malaysia of 25 million can be placed in Tokyo area of which is now about 27 million ppl of all Japan.

other factors are about the availability of infrastructure..while in kampung, u have to work in team or group to fetch water for instance but in bandar or city, every house has tap or air masuk rumah.

there is no EXCUSE , an individue cannot help himself or herself in a city, everything is modern, up to date, available , u nak jumpa menteri pun mereka ramai tinggal di kota dan bukan luarbandar u can go and ask apa pun, so there is no excuse to progress..help urself, why need others? (life in city)

but in kampung or outback..u need each other, most of the social life is about togetherness even kenduri kawin or orang mati

but in the city kalau u tak kasik tau, tak panggil datang i think most of city dweller kene korek kubur dan urus sendiri kalau ada kalangan keluarga depa mati

dont be surprise i heard one mufti ceramah , nowadays even orang islam ada PAKEJ bila soal mati..5000 rm, 10000 rm..bab urusan kematian segalanya..i think this bandar attitude is conduct of unbecoming already lah wei loon. budaya , agama, kesopanan kesusilaan, tolerances, neighbourhood semua ini hanya MIMPI saja.

the animals of modern life are now in the city and not in kampung after coming out of jungle, jungle becomes kampung and becomes bandar, animals become human and go back jadik haiwan semula

if u rejeted A , that means this world has no einstein, bill gates, steven job etc. btui kan wei loon?