macademia posted on 19-1-2013 10:37 AM 
HAHA you are such a JOKE.
I have been a SR in this thread for a long while.
Mac, jangan layan dia... dia a troll . Troll will shut up if we treat them with a silence treatment. You have helped many with your advice and experiiences..kudos to you
Apa yang akan I ceritakan ini ialah cerita yang terjadi padadiri I. Dulu I bekerja dengan gaji 5 angka sebulan ( 6 years ago). Di rumah adamaid. Truthfully, I was not very good with housework. In fact rasanya pegangpenyapu pun dlm 5 kali setahun kot. Tiap hari I keluar dlm pukul 8 pg dan balikmalam dlm pukul 7ptg. Dulu subang tak berapa jem sangat, jadi I bolehlah sampaisblm mlm pekat. I had a very good maidwho loved my kids very much. Sampai I rasa dia mcm kena buli saja dgn my kids .Oleh sbb tu, I was secured with what happened at my home. My husband pulak aprofessional in what he did until dia kata it is burdening and he opted to be alecturer . Sbb dia was a professional dan I pulak in corporate world, our incomewas enough and we were able to travel much including overseas. I ada jugaktengok my son’s book dan I rasa his handwriting ok dan of course bila bab budaklelaki ni memang nakal dan aktif. Masa mula masuk darjah 1 dia di kelas A……tapibila masuk darjah dua dia di kelas F…… I mmg sibuk dan tak perasan yang diaturun kelas pun. Bila weekend asyik keluar jalan jalan dan thought everythingseemed ok with my kids. Until my hubby kena go overseas and I pulak very busyand think that is high time for me to have a long absence from work after startedworking even though my degree result pun belum dapat lagi. I pun berhenti andwas thinking will work once I balik ke Malaysia. I ada 3 orang anak dan anakyang terakhir ada G6pd yang mana pemakanannya perlu diperhatikan sbb adacertain food that is not compatible with his blood.Anak anak I tiap tiap bulanmesti dlm min kali 4tu kena ke klinik sbb demam etc. Condition anak I yang ketiga iniyang made my standings on being at home with the kids makin kuat. Bila dioverseas baru I sedar yang selama ni my eldest tu punya la terkebelakang ilmupengetahuan dia dan selama ini yang I tengok tulisan dan buku latihan dia yangpenuh dengan works tu ialah my maid’s work. Dia tak pernah pun buat kerja dia…my maid yang buatkan untuk dia. Punyalah I panic dan since that I mmg tengokkanpelajaran diaorang termasuk revamp kehidupan kami. Bila di Malaysia balik sekarang ni my eldestdh masuk sekolah menengah dan jadi Ketua Pengawas di sekolah dia. In fact, masamula masuk tu dia dapat nombor corot ( due to language problem) dan towards theend of year dah dapat no 1. Anak anak yang lain pun I ajar sendiri bila waktumalam with reading books aloud so that I know that they really read. Komputerand Astro card I control sehabis mungkin and they understand. Perangai diaorangpun selalu di puji orang. I sacrificed a lot but the result somehow gave me apeace of mind.Mereka pun jarang ke klinik. My daughter tu dah 5 tahun tak keklinik. Kalau tak sihat I just kata your body is doing something for you. It ispreparing a missile to fight off all the germs. Just wait another 2 days, themissile will be ready and will win eventually. So, I bagi panadol saja so thatdia tahan sakit. And know what, mmg apa yang I kata jadi. So, all of them mmghave confidence in their body mechanism. I do not know what will the future holds forthem tapi as long as I do something to help them with all my might, I redha. Tiap kali solat I jadi imam pada anak anakyang kecil untuk diaorang dengar doa I meminta pada Allah dibaca kuat an not in Arabic. For the time being my husbandduduk jauh and is a weekend husband. Moral of the story is kalau boleh jagalahanak sendiri dan berilah disiplin sebaik mungkin. I bersyukur sangat Allahberikan I kesempatan untuk belajar dari kesilapan. Kalau I masih kerja sekarangrasanya I would be in a very high positon tapi my kids edu and future…. Ngeri memikirkannya.
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