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kalau lelaki kata macam ni : hold on or move on
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dulu2 pun laki ku lbh kurang mcm tu lah ayat2 nya. dia tau aku suka dia....tapi antara ayat2 yg selalu dia dok ulang2 ialah...if you meet someone better...proceed saja. jng tggu dia yg tak pasti tu lagi. as a woman..of course aku sentap lah kan...tapi bila fikir2 balik..ini hal masa depan, melibatkan hati dan perasaan...tak kan aku nak paksa2 dia pulak, so...ok fine...life goes on.
tapi bila aku start to keep a distance dng dia and try to get closer with someone else, dia mcm jadi tak tentu arah. daripada seminggu sekali called dah jadi 2 hari sekali called. bila aku kata aku nak keluar dating with the other guy, dia semacam merajuk (nak marah tak boleh...jatuh la ego dia kan). bila aku semakin jarang nak contact dia, dia lagi mcm gila mencari aku sampai sanggup datang all the way from kl to my office kat melaka semata2 nak tanya khabar....(like seriously..?  )
sampai lah dia proposed pun aku boleh main2 kan dia lagi tanya..'adakah anda pasti dng pilihan anda? (ala2 who wants to be a millionaire.. ) and this time, aku pulak yg jadi tak pasti dng dia...
anyway...kalau dah jodoh tak ke mana kan...and the rest is history...
so utk TT, nasihat saya, just let him go. kalau dah tertulis jodoh kamu bersama, buat lah apa pun, endingnya pasti akan bersama juga, and if you were not meant for each other, chenta mati mcm mana sekali pun, tetap tak kan berjaya utk sampai ke jinjang pelamin.
jng sedih2, insyallah...kalau dia bkn jodoh kamu, pasti akan ada yg lebih baik yg menanti di kemudian hari...yg akan menghargai kamu sebaiknya. |
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housequeen posted on 8-10-2013 04:49 PM 
dulu2 pun laki ku lbh kurang mcm tu lah ayat2 nya. dia tau aku suka dia....tapi antara ayat2 yg sela ...
terima kasih sangat membantyu..
saya akan letgo dgn hati terbuka, sbb kalau hold pon belom tentu dia jodoh saya..
kalau saya lepaskan pon kalau jodoh saya insyaAllah datang balik.
masa tak sesuai
entah la.. terima kasih ye
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kesimpulannya...
dia tak nak kat ko sebenarnya.. tu aje..
saje bg ayat panjang2 konon2 taknak hati ko terguris gituuu |
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Setuju dgn miss/mrs housequeen..kalu ada jodoh..pasti ada caranya..dia kan lelaki..kalu xde jodoh..find another someone..toksah dok kesal..mungkin yg dtg tu lbh baik who.knows..gud luck tt... |
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Dia menolak secara halus dan sopan la tu  |
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ko move on jer...
lelaki mmg gini...
pastu nnt ko tgk la..dlm bbrp bln kang..especially kalau ko dh ada org lain..
mula la depa mcm org gila talak...
perkara biasa je neh...
p cr org lain la...x yah tggu mamat neh |
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juliajie80 posted on 20-10-2013 02:05 AM
ko move on jer...
lelaki mmg gini...
u, the grass is always greener on the other side ..keedahnya.. |
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Sila move on..
Jelas sgt tu |
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Haa..boleh jgk ke nk komen walaupun pmpuan? Ni berdasarkan pengalaman jgk..
Lelaki kalau dia bg ayt2 'terbuka' cmni, taknak komitmen bagai, siap offer suh cari yg lain, tandanya dia pn xberharap pd si pmpuan la. Dia xpikir nk serius dgn si pmpuan tu.
Sbb.. lelaki kalau betui2 dia nak, dia akan kejar dan 'chupp' awal2. Takdenye dia nk suh tggu2 la, sabar la, xready komitmen la..semua tu propa semata2. Xnak kat pmpuan tu, tp at the same time, cuba nk jaga hati si wanita sajorh.
Lgpun, penat tau tuggu lelaki yg kite je nk kene ikut 'terms' dia. Kene lah pilih lelaki yg betui2 bersungguh nak pd kita...
Good luck TT~!! I would humbly suggest for you to move on... |
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satu ayat je nak cakap.. "sila move on" |
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how about this one? let go ke ape? FYI email ni aku dpt thn 2011
I do admit my weakness. I’m not as perfect as u think.
About my career thing, it’s my goal, for the time being.
Living in poverty, sarcasm and how the community looks at u when u r poor really affected me a lot, especially when u r just a little boy.
I do want to change my families’ economic condition, supports them whenever possible.
One truth I seldom shared with anyone, I never dated a single women in my entire life, cause I choose so.
I do believe what God’s prepared for me, and I do embrace that.
Hope all this not affecting our relationship as friends. |
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annehuda posted on 22-10-2013 11:08 AM
how about this one? let go ke ape? FYI email ni aku dpt thn 2011
"as friends" - at least at that point of time.
Last edited by mziskandar on 22-10-2013 12:03 PM
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mziskandar posted on 22-10-2013 12:01 PM
"as friend"
yeah sometimes aku rasa lelaki ni bleh tahan pengecut kan? ko tak suke ckp jelah tak suke. toksahla kasi alasan macam2  man up la!
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annehuda posted on 22-10-2013 12:04 PM
yeah sometimes aku rasa lelaki ni bleh tahan pengecut kan? ko tak suke ckp jelah tak suke. toksahl ...
kalau dia x suka, dia tulis "i hate u!"
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housequeen posted on 8-10-2013 04:49 PM
dulu2 pun laki ku lbh kurang mcm tu lah ayat2 nya. dia tau aku suka dia....tapi antara ayat2 yg sela ...
wah..so suweet..i like hepi ending..hehe..
Anyway,kak..x bf sy pun lebih kurang camni la kata-kata dia..dia x dapat nak bagi komitmen lebih sbb dia still nak jaga org tua,dia harap-harap sy akan jumpa lelaki yg lebih baik dr dia,tapi dia x nak sy jauh dr dia..camno tu..huhu..
Walau pun sy still suka kan dia tapi sy lepaskan dia jer sbb sy x nak jadi beban pada dia..sy buat la solat isthikarah,nak minta petunjuk sebab waktu tu fikiran sy sgt berserabut..setelah beberapa kali sy buat solat isthikarah tu,hati sy jadi yakin pada dia..yg ni lagi buat sy runsing..huhu...apa pun,sy harap ada ending yg baik utk sy juga..
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mziskandar posted on 22-10-2013 12:53 PM
kalau dia x suka, dia tulis "i hate u!"
so ckp jelah 'i hate u'. tu lg bagus n honest drpd ayat2 mcm ni.
ntahle lelaki ni kalau tak menipu diri sendiri dan orang lain bkn lelaki kot?
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annehuda posted on 4-11-2013 04:25 PM
so ckp jelah 'i hate u'. tu lg bagus n honest drpd ayat2 mcm ni.
ntahle lelaki ni kalau tak me ...
bcoz he doesnt
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mziskandar posted on 4-11-2013 04:37 PM
bcoz he doesnt
yeah now i hate him more than everything 
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annehuda posted on 4-11-2013 04:38 PM
yeah now i hate him more than everything
emo aih....dh mmg dia tak benci takkan nk kata benci.
Tak suka as a special gf doesnt mean he hate u |
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Category: Wanita & Lelaki
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Post time 8-10-2013 04:49 PM
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Post time 22-10-2013 11:08 AM
