Apa perasaan u all bila dapat result ???....

hasmania

Apa perasaan u all bila mendapat keputusan peperiksaan anak-anak baik tadika ataupun sekolah rendah dan juga sekolah menengah????????? adakah hanya dengan nasihat sahaja atau ada cara lain yang akan dilakukan oleh ibu bapa apabila mendapati keputusan peperiksaan anak-anak tidak memuaskan?????adakah ibu bapa akan menghantar anak-anak ke kelas tiusyen????atau membeli lebih banyak buku-buku latihan subjek yang lemah???? atau ibu bapa hanya sekadar bersikap sambil lewa dan hanya berharap anak akan segera memperbaiki kelemahan tanpa bantuan ibu bapa??? atau ibu bapa bertindak mengurangkan waktu menonton TV atau mengurangkan aktiviti bermain????......

KakFie

Originally posted by hasmania at 18-7-2006 05:30 PM
Apa perasaan u all bila mendapat keputusan peperiksaan anak-anak baik tadika ataupun sekolah rendah dan juga sekolah menengah????????? adakah hanya dengan nasihat sahaja atau ada cara lain yang aka ...

kalau yang level tadika akak selamba saja, tak kisah sangat asalkan dia show minat untuk belajar.
Kalau yang dah sekolah kena serious sikitlah.  Kalau keputusan tak memuaskan kena buat review kenapa jadi macam tu.  Cukupkah usaha?  Di mana silapnya?  Review diri akak sendiri jugak, mungkin approach yang akak guna tak betul, tak kena dengan learning style dia.
Waktu report pick up akak  jumpa cikgu subject yang lemah untuk tahu mcm mana kita boleh tolong prestasi dia.

buncis

citer pasal result peksa ni.baru2 ni aku dapat result peksa anak aku yg sulung irfan.
dia baru 4 thn.heeheh yg kelakornya aku tak tau pun dia ada peksa kat sekolah.alih2 balik sekolah ada result peksa.ermm dari situ aku tau kelemahan anak aku kat mana.bab writing dia lemah.so aku ngan hb cuba baiki kelemahan dia kat situla.

ajor sket2.

Izzana

Izzana pulak kalau result tu memuaskan, Izzana akan puji anak2 Izzana. Yang mana yang kurang memuaskan, kami suami isteri go through the test paper dan lihat apa silapnya. Kalau memang silly mistake (dorang taknak check betul2) kena marahlah. Tapi kalau memang soalan tu susah, kami terangkan pada mereka apa silap mereka. Sebelum periksa kami janjikan ganjaran. Maksudnya. Kalau semua subject A, dapat main xbox 3 minggu dalam cuti skolah. Kalau 2A 2B, potong satu minggu. Dan begitulah seterusnya.

anis710

Happy.. tapi jangan tunjuk kita happy sangat, but mesti tunjuk tanda kesyukuran kita... bagi reward macam belanja makan ke, bawa berjalan ke.... so one person score,semua adik beradik tumpang seronok

mder

Originally posted by KakFie at 19-7-2006 09:43 AM


Di mana silapnya?  Review diri akak sendiri jugak, mungkin approach yang akak guna tak betul, tak kena dengan learning style dia.

K Fie,
      I like ur approach......kita kena muhasabah diri dulu.......maybe kita punya approach yg silap or we create stress to them or they just do it as a sign of protest....

macademia

mac pulak tak perlu tunggu report card nak tau prestasi anak..... review preparation dia for exam pun dah dapat agak dah...... so basically what I do was make sure preparation tip top.... meaning dari preparation kita monitor..... so insyaAllah bila results exam.... dapat yg memuaskan....

Example.... exam bulan Aug ni..... mac dah start kasi test kat anak mac.... apa yg tak paham, mac akan review dgn dia........so by the time exam in Aug.... kira dia dah prepare......

pada mac, we can also assist to make sure we are not suprised when getting their results.....

macademia

also..... jangan lupa..... BASICc are very important....... meaning that budak tu masuk darjah 1 dah tau baca...... then easy for the child to proceed to a higher level.....

Tapi kalau darjah 1 dah merangkak2...... faham2 ajelah......

macademia

Tapi kalau dah usaha..... results kurang memuaskan..... pada mac takde rezeki ajela..... because yang penting, your child has done his/her best, and you have done your best to guide dia.... so.... takde nak rasa ralat kan....

putumayam

Originally posted by hasmania at 18-7-2006 05:30 PM
Apa perasaan u all bila mendapat keputusan peperiksaan anak-anak baik tadika ataupun sekolah rendah dan juga sekolah menengah????????? adakah hanya dengan nasihat sahaja atau ada cara lain yang aka ...

setiap kali dia bawak balik paper yg dah dimark, mesti dorang tunjuk.... hhhmmm kdg2 rasa happy, kdg2 rasa ok, kdg2 rasa geram.... rasa happy if they have fought against themselves to excel.. rasa ok kalau tau that's all they can do after working hard for it.. and rasa geram bila tau they could have done better...

selalunya overall picture boleh kita tau bila ada perjumpaan dng teachers dorang... apapun, aku tak suka kalau anak2 aku compare dng org lain.. aku suka kalau dorang fight against themselves... i sort of know their capabilities, but i also know the level of vitamin M(malas) dlm diri dorang... adeeehhhhh... sabo jek laaa...

tapikan, bila gi review kat sekolah, tension tol dng cikgu lelaki.. nak taknak jek review nyeee!!! sabo jek laaaa...:geram::geram:

[ Last edited by  putumayam at 20-7-2006 12:14 PM ]

rafadiena

Anak I memang dah tahu sgt pattern dia kalu dpt kertas periksa tu bagus, belum masuk umah lagi dia dah sibuk2 tunjuk paper tu tapi kalu paper yg result kurang sket tu dia senyap aje.. nak bercakap dgn kita pun payah sampai kena tanya kertas periksa dah dpt ke belum?

Kalau result bagus, I will congrats him kalau tidak memang kena leter! bukannya apa I tak nak dia ambil mudah. Kalu dapat A aje ada ganjaran nak bagi encourage supaya dia ada target. For those result yg lemah tu I belikan dia buku latihan or ajar mana2 yg dia tak paham.

macademia

betul putumayam...... i always suruh anak i challenge themselves.... takde nak compare dgn sapa2...... if your last exam you got 90..... then this exam try to get 92.......

gorgonz

Originally posted by KakFie at 19-7-2006 09:43 AM
kalau yang level tadika akak selamba saja, tak kisah sangat asalkan dia show minat untuk belajar.
Kalau yang dah sekolah kena serious sikitlah.  Kalau keputusan tak memuaskan kena buat review  ...

sama dgn sis... tadika... tak kisah sgt....
lagipun my doter ni... byk main .... dia prefers belajar + main.... bukan serius learning....
attention span nya sket+ pendek sgt....

tak salahkan cikgu.... tp kita as parents kat rumah kena kreatif....

LostSoul

tahun pertama my son... semester pertama dia dpt no. 1, aku cam tak caya.. gelak jek... pehtu dia tunjuk result, mmg sungguhpun.. banggala siket..

2nd semester.. dia tunjuk result, dpt no. 6, aku gelak jugak.. aku ckp, nama tak dpt no. 30 ke 40 ke? dia gelak.. heh heh

aku rasa biasalah bebudak ni turun naik...

MrsJohn

anak sulung tadika aje, exam ari tu dapat nombor besar. Suke betul die. Cikgu pulak panggil parents ambil report book. cikgu cerita, budak2 yg dapat no 1,2,3 kene gelakkan sebab dapat nombor sikit. Budak2 ni suke nombor besar2...kids...:love:

btho

Originally posted by hasmania at 18-7-2006 05:30 PM
Apa perasaan u all bila mendapat keputusan peperiksaan anak-anak baik tadika ataupun sekolah rendah dan juga sekolah menengah????????? adakah hanya dengan nasihat sahaja atau ada cara lain yang aka ...

itulah yg paling i takut.
like most parents say..., diorg nak periksa, makbapak dah seram sejuk!
my children ni ader ups and downs.
tak penah nak maintain.
contohnya, last semester punyer exam my son dpt maths B (paling corot punyer B lah!).
baru2x ni ujian, boleh pulak dpt A.
actually budak2x nih, diorg bole buat tapi sikap malas nak bukak buku aje sbb byk tarikan luar yg buatkan diorg lalai mcm computer, tv.  
ini pun kitorg dah tahan playstation.
i always give them warning - bukak buku, no more Bs.  mama want As in your report book.

macademia

budak2 selalu lalai, mereka lelan dgn hiburan mereka...... tv.... playstation....

as a parent we have to make them aware, time main.... mainla puas2. Time belajar, belajarla bersungguh2. And its our responsibility to make them understand that, and also remind then time and time again on the importance of being good in their studies.

I am very strict with them when education is concerned. But I'm also the best mom they've ever had bila time mereka nak enjoy........

On more thing.... to me its too early too pressure the kids when they are still in kindergarten... as long as they can read and coount at the age of 6... it's good enough. ( I read here somewhere that anaknya yg tadika 5 tahun buat homework sampai pukul 2 pagi.... i dont really understand this)

btho

Originally posted by macademia at 24-7-2006 10:58 AM
On more thing.... to me its too early too pressure the kids when they are still in kindergarten... as long as they can read and coount at the age of 6... it's good enough. ( I read here somewhere that anaknya yg tadika 5 tahun buat homework sampai pukul 2 pagi.... i dont really understand this)  ...

absolutely agree with you.
time diorg kindergarden dulu, i tak kisah sgt.
tapi by 6yrs old i dah tetapkn yg diorg mesti dah tau membaca dan mengira.
persiapan awal nak masuk sekolah rendah.

aja_cute

anak Aja yg sulung baru tadika 5 thn.. but Aja tak pressure dia sgt ler.. Alaa 5 thn tuh Aja hantar gi tadika supaya dia tahu socialize himself jer.. Cuma ajar ler gak, kalau ada homework jgn lupa settlekan, pastuh dia boleh main bola @ pegi taman dsb..

Nanti bila dia dah masuk darjah 1 barulah akan strict sikit on education..

macademia

mmm.... masa ambik result mid exam dulu, hati dah berdetik that my std 5 girl didnt do well.... there was not much preparation on her side, kalau ada pun prepare main2 aje, and for the 1st time mac tak monitor langsung sbb I was not well for almost 2 months.

Although dah predict results dia teruk, feedback dari cikgu pun not good.... i came back home blaming myself for not assisting her, for not being there for her.... mac sedih, sememangnya sedih bec results dia betul2 menjunam.....

she was hit hard by the bad results, pressures were not from me, but from her teachers and friends..... I heard one of her good friends said to her, "awak belajarla betul2 lepas ni.... awak janji ye....." . A few of other friends peluk dia and beri semangat.

For aug exam, I sat down with her, go tru with her on topics that she's not strong at..... give her the support, although at times, dia macam lelan dan lebih interested with tv, i controlled my temper but continue bersabar dgn dia .......

syukur alhamdullillah, her results meningkat tinggi kali ini.....

after she got her results, she waited for me at the living room, she hugged me, saying thankyou for being patient with her, for understanding her, for motivating her and for guiding her.