why...selfish?

my-alja

some people i met...are extreamly selfish...

why?..why?...why? .....bagaimana cara org2 begini berfikir?....

wisteria

they r self oriented kot .. huhu

tak pun .. kiasu

shut87kdown

think inside the box ..=p

ajinomotonosuga

selfish is a life code for survival

seribulan

terlalu selfless pun tak bagus juga...

monterez

sometimes u need to be selfish..
but depends on situation...
better u have less selfish rather than selfish je sokmo...gheeee

SleepyFish

Survival mode. The fear of lack..thats the root. Its their thinking that there is not enough to go around. So jadik selfish jadik tamak etc.

wisteria

survival mode. fear of lack .. can be said as kiasu?

wei_loon5063

Originally posted by my-alja at 8-6-2007 08:57 AM
some people i met...are extreamly selfish...

why?..why?...why? .....bagaimana cara org2 begini berfikir?....

One and only one reason......... fear of losing

read my personal experience =,="

http://forum.cari.com.my/viewthread.php?tid=277058&extra=page%3D3

my-alja

Si Kedekut pernahkah kamu depan dengan si kedekut yang teramat kedekut? yang takut rugi; takut kalah; penting kan diri dulu dalam semua hal walaupun orang lain dulu dia pun tak rugi saya kene berhadapan dengan orang sebegini tiap tiap hari...... bagi kes kes......... Kes A housemate saya... kami pergi supermarket... ada jualan sayur... 2 sawi... beli satu free satu.. saya pun share dengan dia la.. balik masak... ok.. masak sama sama.... tau apa dia cakap? ok.. kita share masak.. saya satu sawi kau satu sawi. kau ambil tiga helai daun sawi kau aku ambil tiga helai... pas tu masak.. atas pinggang... nak bahagi 2 pulak Kes B housemate saya pulak... kata nak share benda kat rumah.... dia share makanan... housemate saya lain share periuk nasi ada satu hari.. housemate saya yang lapar ambil maggi yang kedekut itu... si kedekut kira maggi dia hilang satu.... satu per satu dia tanya orang kat rumah pas tu kira duit pulak... RM0.50 kat rumah pun selalu ambil kicap; telor; ayam orang lain..... kalau orang ambil minyak dia sikit dia pun kira   kes C masa keluar makan... ada ayam yang secukupnya untuk semua orang... dia takut habis sapu... dia ambil dua peha letak kat pinggang dia.. pas tu ambil satu lagi makan......... kes D houseowner saya.... anak dia tinggla dengan kami.. semua rosak akan baiki.. anak dia cuti... paip bocor baiki kurang dari Rm10 pun dia tak mau......... ada depan dengan orang cam ni?? macam mana nak atasi mereka?? ni yang ringan la... makanan sahaja... kalau bagi dia seinchi nanti dia nak sekaki pulak........

hehehehe....loon...akak paste kat sini ekkk...utk tatapan kekawan kat sini

masalah kita lebih kurengggg....gaji kawan nie 30k, tapi berkiranya.....aduhaiiii

bagaimana dgn selfish benda2 lain....keje dia siap, org lain tak siap nasiblah.....padahal satu team bekerja....

my-alja

Originally posted by SleepyFish at 8-6-2007 03:17 PM
Survival mode. The fear of lack..thats the root. Its their thinking that there is not enough to go around. So jadik selfish jadik tamak etc.

yeah....agree with you, some authors called it.."scarce mentality"...

pemikiran yg selalu rasa dia punya kurang, apa yg ada pd dia sentiasa kurang...tak boleh nak beri pd org lain w/pun sedikit sebab dia selalu berada dlm kekurangan....

bukan hanya tertaluk pd duit tapi kederat..masa...segala-galanya....

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my-alja

Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 8-6-2007 02:14 PM
selfish is a life code for survival

of course u survive..and ONLY u

my-alja

Originally posted by monterez at 8-6-2007 03:11 PM
sometimes u need to be selfish..
but depends on situation...
better u have less selfish rather than selfish je sokmo...gheeee

is a need esp when people don't care about you.....

but please dun be selfish on the road....

my-alja

apa beza antara "individualistic"....and "selfish"

wei_loon5063

Originally posted by my-alja at 8-6-2007 08:51 PM
hehehehe....loon...akak paste kat sini ekkk...utk tatapan kekawan kat sini

masalah kita lebih kurengggg....gaji kawan nie 30k, tapi berkiranya.....aduhaiiii

bagaimana dgn selfish benda2 lain....keje dia siap, org lain tak siap nasiblah.....padahal satu team bekerja....

apa kau buat dah?

kalau kawan ok.. tapi kalau suami isteri susah la.. ada saudara saya. pergi pasar. isteri tak cukup duit. balik suami minta balik.. tau jumlah dia??





RM 2.00

[ Last edited by  wei_loon5063 at 8-6-2007 09:28 PM ]

wei_loon5063

Originally posted by my-alja at 8-6-2007 09:03 PM
apa beza antara "individualistic"....and "selfish"

Individualistic is more to people who live in isolation.

selfish is more than individualistic and towards paranoid

SONofODIN

At certain times we have to be selfish.

my-alja

Originally posted by wei_loon5063 at 8-6-2007 09:26 PM



apa kau buat dah?

kalau kawan ok.. tapi kalau suami isteri susah la.. ada saudara saya. pergi pasar. isteri tak cukup duit. balik suami minta balik.. tau jumlah dia??

RM 2.00   

dah byk kali kena dgn dia....dah fed-up, nasib dialah...selama nie org dah warned tapi selagi tak kena..dok lah sabar dgn kerenah dia ....

now...semua org boikot dia termasuklah myself...

p/s dia pernah mintak ganti tomyam paste yg cuma 2 sudu, kawan dia pinjam...wakakakak
citer2 lain, wa simpan lah...huhuhu

Atomic_Omnikid

Originally posted by my-alja at 8-6-2007 20:51
Si Kedekut

pernahkah kamu depan dengan si kedekut yang teramat kedekut?
yang takut rugi; takut kalah; penting kan diri dulu dalam semua hal walaupun orang lain dulu dia pun tak rugi

saya k ...

http://ihatemyflatmate.blogspot.com/

teringat blog nie yg dedulu haku suka baca..

redsinner

kiasu is more like....'u cannot be better than me thus i will do anything for u to be less better than me.'

but selfish is more like...me, me, me. i can do it but u cannot.
i betol, u salah.

i selfish people, they tend to be a bunch of obsolute mindless narcissists! :@