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Post time 3-1-2013 02:59 AM | Show all posts |Read mode
Kiah baru bersalin 44 hari...nak tau betul ke tak boleh melakuan hubungan seks selama 100 hari? Mohon kongsikan pengalaman n pendapat...
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Post time 3-1-2013 03:31 AM | Show all posts
boleh kalau ko boleh tahan kesakitan. wife ku 3 bulan lepas bersalin pun masih ada rasa sakit.. untuk makluman.
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 Author| Post time 3-1-2013 03:52 AM | Show all posts
Owh ye ke? Kalau gitu kene tunggu betul2 sihat la eh, sb kiah operate..
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Post time 3-1-2013 11:57 PM | Show all posts
suami besabo la sikit. biar betul2 sembuh isteri tu.
lagi satu isteri, open minded la sket, boleh je guna tangan isteri utk puaskan suami..
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Post time 6-1-2013 12:55 AM | Show all posts
pantang ni adat melayu je..40,44,100 hari.... dlm islam .. kalo wifey dah suci bleh je nak projek balik....

depends on individu... kalo xsaket kasi on teruskan... hubby plak tolong la bertimbangrasa sket... kalo insteri xlarat jgn laa dipaksa..... xpun having sex without intercourse....

jgn laa ikut kan kehendak je... kalo dah xtahan sgt.... melancap sendiri laa.. or mintak tlg wifey... dah pancut ok laa balik...


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Post time 6-1-2013 09:40 AM | Show all posts
MengkuduMasam posted on 6-1-2013 12:55 AM
pantang ni adat melayu je..40,44,100 hari.... dlm islam .. kalo wifey dah suci bleh je nak projek ba ...

mslhnya ramai yg tak open minded dlm hal ni.. mcm oral sex sehingga kemuncak adalah satu kesalahan walaupn melibatkan suami isteri.
ada isteri yg tak suka suami buat mcm tu.. ada yg suami mesti nak ada kemasukan.. xde tolak ansur
so tu yg kadang2 jadi masalah rumahtangga kt luar sana.. sbb masing2 tak kreatif.

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Post time 6-1-2013 09:54 AM | Show all posts
kazaraf posted on 6-1-2013 09:40 AM
mslhnya ramai yg tak open minded dlm hal ni.. mcm oral sex sehingga kemuncak adalah satu kesalahan ...

sex masih lg taboo dikalangan kita especially malays.... which is good in general... tp kalo melibatkan hubungan yg sah jgn laa terlalu rigid...

ramai yg masih igt sex tu melibatkan vaginal intercourse je.... tu blom masuk bab yg ikut adat membabi buta...
elok laa tuh....couple yg too naive sex + ikut adat... berposa la laki to sampai 100 hari.. 3bln lebih... itu yg jd kes isteri dlm pantang... laki dah pi mkn luar.... mane tahan kot air da naik kepala....

pokok pangkalnya ilmu... bykkan membaca... do define what is adat what is syariat...
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Post time 6-1-2013 10:02 AM | Show all posts
kiahbosan posted on 3-1-2013 03:52 AM
Owh ye ke? Kalau gitu kene tunggu betul2 sihat la eh, sb kiah operate..

operate xde maslah kot... sbb xde kelukaan kat vagina...

so bleh je kalo dah suci... tapi carefull ngan stitches kat perut tu... try to find the best position to avoid complication...

tp kalo ade rase saket je... jgn teruskan or ubah cara lain....

alaa... mcm having sex mase preggy laa... adjust laa mane patut.. but please.. .pesan kat hubby use protection takut nanti lekat balik... almaklumlah lama xdpt... lepas geram laa... tembak kaw2 punye...

kalo yg buat c section ni doc advise atleast 2-3 thn br preggy... ealier than that.. too risky... posibility for the womb to ruptured is high..

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 Author| Post time 6-1-2013 01:46 PM | Show all posts
Mmg selama pantang tak de intercourse just do oral sex ...alhamdulilah hubby faham...no complain so far...
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Post time 7-1-2013 02:36 PM | Show all posts
kalo operate takyahla cergas sangat.. u can always satisfy your hubby with any parts of your body..
apa yg penting, kerjasama..

dah abis event memuaskan napsu somi, boleh la bagitau kat somi.. "hebat chef Michael".. ala2 kukus gril panggang nye iklan tu..
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 Author| Post time 7-1-2013 04:01 PM | Show all posts
Haha Parin!!
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Post time 8-1-2013 05:15 PM | Show all posts
setakat nih..aku dah ada 3 orang anak..aku start projek dalam 50 hari ke 60 hari..pelan2 la...jangan la main ganas2 sangat...
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Post time 15-1-2013 10:38 PM | Show all posts
Seks semasa mengandung macam mana pulak? Sekarang ni perut kecik lagi boleh la.. Nanti dah start masuk bape bulan kena stop ye? Ada sesiapa tau tak.. Nak tanya doktor malu pulak, doktor pun takde cakap pape pun pasal ni. Bahaya tak kalau main time 7/8 months nanti.. Malunye tanya camni..
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Post time 16-1-2013 03:14 AM | Show all posts
Lalajack posted on 15-1-2013 10:38 PM
Seks semasa mengandung macam mana pulak? Sekarang ni perut kecik lagi boleh la.. Nanti dah start mas ...

kene bkk benang baru kot..

tp melalui advise doc + pembacaan + antenartal class + experince xde plak ckp xleh having vaginal intercouse (non penetrative sex is out of the scope). Depends on individu..

slalunya to some 1st trimester tu wifey akan rasa unconfortable to do it..but when toward end of 2nd trimester until deliver pertukaran hormon sometimes wifey akan rasa nak sgt..if this is you case... encik somi akan senyum je laaa

but please take note when there is bleeding during or after sex...stop immidiately..do consult with doc..mcm kes aku laa sbb wifey ade complication sket...ade bleeding.. doc trus ckp.."please stop sex kejap".....mcm tau2 je doc tu...padahal bleeding bkn sbb tu.....tp kalo dah ok on je la blk...

you may not opt to do it in normal position... try to suit with your growing belly... kalo awal2 preggy xde kaco sgt...tp pesan kat hubby jgn lasak sgt...and during week 30 onward advice not pancut dlm sbb kandungan dlm semen to sometime bleh buat false contraction..(try google sbb ape )and ade org ckp kalo baby kuar kepala ade kesan putih2 sbb kononya laki slalu pancut dlm ms preggy...which is totally rubbish...ms preggy la best sbb xpyh pk nak pancut mane...confirm xlekat

in general bleh je nak buat bebila.. some doc ckp ujung preggy lg bagus sbb kasi laluan tu senang baby kuar...and bleh buat emotially bonded.. si isteri xrase dipinggirkan during preggy...especially jenis pompuan yg pk lpas beranak da xcantik..hubby da xnak..it da gelebeh..ini da longgar.

and please jgn malu nak bertanya kat doc...depa lg arif..kalo bleh join antenartal class &bykkan membaca both hubby &wife ..trust me it really help a lot sbgai persediaan jd parent..

Last edited by MengkuduMasam on 16-1-2013 03:18 AM

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Post time 16-1-2013 10:41 AM | Show all posts
mak sy suruh pantang bersama dgn suami selama 101 hari...tukang urut sy pun ckp benda yang sama.. sbb kita org perempuan ni badan nak pkai lama..so kena la jaga betul2...bukan luar je kena mantap, dalaman pun kena mantap jugeks..

pantang ni ada eloknya...jgn main redahhh je..skrg memang la ok..nanti dah tua baru la terasa sakit-sakitnye..
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Post time 16-1-2013 11:13 AM | Show all posts
Lalajack posted on 15-1-2013 10:38 PM
Seks semasa mengandung macam mana pulak? Sekarang ni perut kecik lagi boleh la.. Nanti dah start mas ...

aritu wife tanya nurse, dia tak galakkan melakukan seks sehingga minggu ke-22 sbb baby masih fragile. takut mudah keguguran.
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Post time 16-1-2013 12:13 PM | Show all posts
aLieNzDaToR posted on 16-1-2013 11:13 AM
aritu wife tanya nurse, dia tak galakkan melakukan seks sehingga minggu ke-22 sbb baby masih fragi ...

Alamak yeke, saya skang 11 weeks selamba je ngan suami, tak sakit pun Hari tu pun baru scan baby okay je? Mungkin sebab tu doktor tak cakap pape kot Maklumlah bunting pelamin, tak puas lagi
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Post time 16-1-2013 03:46 PM | Show all posts
Lalajack posted on 16-1-2013 12:13 PM
Alamak yeke, saya skang 11 weeks selamba je ngan suami, tak sakit pun  Hari tu pun bar ...

sebenarnya bergantung kepada individu tu sendiri. langkah terbaik, tanya ur doc la. xyah segan2. nurse yg jumpa wife i dulu xsegan2 pon. ckp je sume sbb benda penting.

tapi selalunya selamat. kecuali bagi sesiapa yg rahim xkuat.
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Post time 1-3-2013 04:02 PM | Show all posts
kazaraf posted on 3-1-2013 11:57 PM
suami besabo la sikit. biar betul2 sembuh isteri tu.
lagi satu isteri, open minded la sket, boleh j ...

Guna tangan??
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Post time 1-3-2013 05:43 PM | Show all posts
KakManja posted on 1-3-2013 04:02 PM
Guna tangan??

ada je isteri yg 'benci' suami dia 'puaskan' diri sendiri. dan dlm ms sama dia sendiri pun 'benci' nak 'puas'kan suami guna tangan beliau.
sbb tu kdg2 jadi gaduh mcm2 kes. hehe


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