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Siapa lebih kedekut, lelaki atau wanita sewaktu dating?
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wow. dapat gegirl yang jenis suka makan, semua pun dia hadap. lagi2 kalau pergi pasar malam. syorgaaaa makanan. 
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kalau i date pompuan yg suka makan...i akan usik dia "Awak, saya nak beli seluar baru kat awak."
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itu menunjukkan u ni memang kedekut...
u jgn tengok circumstances...be polite and courteous...
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Edited by green~tea at 4-2-2021 09:27 PM
Biasa i tengok lelaki tu gentleman ke tak, bila dia yang auto keluarkan duit masa 1st date... my husband is this type.. penting sifat ni sbb lelaki yg bertanggungjawab, dia akan rasa malu nak menyangkak hadap pompuan sponsor.. laki yg bertanggungjawab, malu nak spedo pompuan...
and husband i jenis berterus terang.. dating ngn heols, heols tak kisah belanja makan, tp dont expect fancy restaurant pun... iols okay jer.. mujur dia pun bukan jenis hadap standard sgt.. biasa weols gi mekdi gitu je.. sbb anak iols nak makan fries and nugget happy meal |
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neyssa replied at 31-1-2021 01:14 PM
mengikut pengalaman saya.. pas 2 bulan berkawan secara online , kami plan nk kuar date .. tup tup.. ...
Terbalik sikit.. awal2 iols tak suka tengok movie sbb susah nak dapat timing utk ngedate, sbb kena jaga anak summore..so time is precious, any available time, iols akan spend betul2 utk borak dgn bf (now husband)... |
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Sblm kenal my husband iols jenis berlagak sikit.. sgt2 menjaga level kayangan and jaga bergaul within clan iols je... huhuhuhuhuhu....
Dinner and meals iols usually svago, chilis, tony romas, chakri palace, sushi zanmai, dome, chinoz, melur thyme, dotty 's, urbean... bfast iols usually illys, coffee bean, starbucks, busuk2 pun set old town tu... but then my husband ajar i berpijak bumi nyata... heols yang ajar i tone down lifestyle i... heols yg ajar orang normal makan budget range begini2 sajork, lepas kawen iols bfast kat rumah je.. awal2 dulu husband yg prepare bfast lepas kawen... |
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very inspiring story...untung u ada husband mcm tu...
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ifanonline replied at 4-2-2021 09:39 PM
very inspiring story...untung u ada husband mcm tu...
Yeah.. heols mmg aim utk didik i lead simple lifestyle... abis2 nak reward diri pun setahun sekali je dia benarkan.. few months after kawen heols beli i keta axia and he asked me to use that car utk ulang alik kerja & utk shopping groceries...
Awal2 tu iols literally cried inside the car sbb rasa malu kena drive keta cheapskate camtu... sedangkan iols ada kereta sendiri yang lain 
Few months jugak baru iols dpt adapt dgn new lifestyle gitu... husband ckp iols deep down just a simple woman & dibesarkan dgn cara simple je, tp sbb dah terbiasa lifestyle circle i lepas mula kerja.. itu yg tetiba acah2 kayangan |
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Its not really about kedekut ke apa.. but its about being prudent in the spending for our own future.. |
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perempuan kot
pernah dulu aku berbuka puasa kat food court
meja yg aku duduk ada kosong datanglah couple ni tanya ada org dah ke
aku pun kata kosong lg ni duduklah
aku mmg jenis mkn xminum air walaupun time bukak puasa kecuali dahaga sangat
tiba2 yg laki tu belanja aku air
walaupun kitaorg langsung xkenal pun
mungkin dia nak tunjuk depan awek ke xtahulah
tp ramai yg pelik bila tengok aku mkn xminum air
selalu mcm tu klu mkn kat kedai
sampai ada acik kedai ni bg air kosong siap kata ni free
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hahahahah kat mana pulak i ni kedekut..
i happen to date and marry responsible man tu namanya rezeki
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good quality in a man i must say. try to educate the partner. nice to read about you and your husband punya dynamic.
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aku mmg kedekut skit bila dating
x kira la ...aku yg ajak dating ke...dia ke
yg kuar duit tetap dia
kecuali la aku mmg sendri nk banje |
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org kedekut tak kan mengaku dia kedekut...
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Edited by mbhcsf at 5-2-2021 05:41 PM
hi Green Tea- from your list offine -dining restaurants tu , i am just curious ye, jap nak tanya - yg tony romas tu ada jual alcohol ke awak? saya dengar memang org biase pi situ, a few yg saya tahu - but saya takpernah pergi sebab syubhah, tapi ade ke? if yes tak pe , i tak naklah.
lagi satu Chinoz in the park klcc tu - ade serve alcohol , tak , dok lalu je
yg Chakri tu - is itlike certified halal...?
kat klcc food court tu yg i yaqin - paya serai, 4 fingers hahaha and a few - Cakri tu i nampak tapi i tatau halal ke tak...is it halal?Dotty's my friend pernah bawa- sedap jugak, sekali sekala bolehlah 23 kala habis kopak i ...ahahah
thanks.
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ramaramu replied at 4-2-2021 01:54 PM
tiket movie lagi murah dari makan.. ish laki ni dah kenapa nak remind you macam tu?
nak ajak date ...
Hihi tak tahu sy. Lepas dia mesej mcm tu, sy terus tak reply. Dan tak keluar pun dgn dia. Dia bengang. Dia bg karangan berjela2 kate saye ni pempuan berkira dan kedekut. Hehe..ntah ape2 la mamat tu. Bg pandangan sy he is the one yg kedekut. Hihi |
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sebenarnya nak tengok seriousness pasangan kita dlm hubungan adalah melalui sesi makan-makan...
i think most women ada pandangan yg sama...walaupun sewaktu dating, dan secara umumnya lelaki akan bayar semasa date, you should insist..once in a awhile to pay for the date...even though lelaki tu insist jugak utk bayar, you pun kena berkeras juga utk bayar...this shows your commitment in the relationship...
dalam perhubungan, kita jgn jadi parasite...ramai wanita di luar sana anggap lelaki perlu bayar setiap kali date dan dirinya menjadi parasite...
bagi saya, saya akan tahu wanita itu dlm kategori parasite from the first two date sahaja...dating ni ada 3 point rules...dulu saya ada share point2 ni... |
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persoalannya : adakah patut dilabelkedekut? atau is there any better term?
lazimnya sapa yg selalu membayar : a guy or a lady?
kedekut ni , is quite judgemental , i think.
sebab lazimnya by convention, aguy usually pays for the meal for two if they are seeing each other or in the relationship, lazimnya - it doesn't have to be a 'must' atau pun all the time begitu.
sebab si lady tu pun kene sedar dirilah sikit sebba si guy tu bukan halal pun lagi dan si guy tu bukan hak dia pun nak kene bayar untuk your meal.
so kat sini si lady kene main peranan kot gives and takes.
kalau in a relationship.
kalau professional , then okaylah te guy lah.
kalau tak cakap awal awal going Dutch jelah.
tapi kalau a guy with certain persona like dr kim Hay Kyong te psychiatrist in dinner mate - takkan dia nak suru si lady bayar , say going out pun kat marry brown , an
hahahahah
adehh laaa...
heheheheheh
contoh aje. contoh tak ada kena mengena pada hisup atau mati
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ifanonline replied at 5-2-2021 10:52 AM
sebenarnya nak tengok seriousness pasangan kita dlm hubungan adalah melalui sesi makan-makan...
i ...
Please share semula 3points rule tu... |
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My bf yg bayar masa our 1st dating.
Masa 2nd date, i yg bayar sbg denda i lambat... hahaha.
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 4-2-2021 03:04 PM
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