P.U.L. (Pure Unconditional Love)

yellow belmont · Post time 5-4-2007 12:05 PM

Originally posted by dutchy at 4-4-2007 10:41 PM

but is it? is there such a thing as Unconditional love? There are always expectation in love

isn't there? Ur question tuh susah for me to answer as I myself, do not believe that it exist~~
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yup .. i guess there will always be expectation in love .. what differentiate it is to what degree is the expectation .. different ppl different degree of expectation ..

Agul · Post time 6-4-2007 09:14 PM

Originally posted by yellow belmont at 5-4-2007 12:01 PM

try me .. so far u might be kinda strange .. but not to the extent of a freak .. poyo watsoever .. hehe so dont worry ..

now what is this HUNA? .. Hawaiian term? ..

Yes, it's Hawaiian...

B.L.A.S.T is based爋n燼燾ertain燾oncept燾alled爃uapopono'爋r爏omething...燞ehe sounds funny, isnt't it?

I燿on't爇now爐he燾orrect爏pelling燽ut爄t爏ounds燼燽it爈ike爐hat.

Huapopono is based on three point while B.L.A.S.T. is... five. Developed by certain doctor or author I think... That's what my friend tell me.

Pretty good concept to those who want to think more positively and flush put thoughts such as hatred, envy, fear,燽lame etc..

In short it stands for,

I bless you,
I love you,
I appreciate you,
I燼m sorry,
Thank you.

Sort of we express gratitude to whatever happens in our live. Taking full responsibilities for our lives and our feeling.

If you have someone爕ou like or don't like (for example your mother in law) you can just B.L.A.S.T. him or her.

yellow belmont · Post time 10-4-2007 02:17 AM

Originally posted by Agul at 6-4-2007 09:14 PM

Yes, it's Hawaiian...

B.L.A.S.T is based on a certain concept called huapopono' or something... Hehe sounds funny, isnt't it? I don't know the correct spelling but it sounds a bit like t ...

ic .. how simple it is yet very (err dunno how should i say it) .. now i understand ..

but would need a lot of positive energy to keep it working .. whatever it is .. BLAST ..

wei_loon5063 · Post time 26-4-2007 03:59 AM

This is a love letter that I wrote to my girlfriend.... share with you all about my perspective on love.......

For me; love in dictionary do not define my feeling but it is my feeling that define the word.....

here it goes..... :malu:

I am always searching the meaning of life since I was 5....
what is life???

I just want to know the meaning of why we life and all those things we do....
Don`t you think that we are programmed to follow what society tell us ought to do???

Study, go to college, work, save money, buy car, house, retire then go around the world...
This is the life that we are programmed to believe to be true as it suppose to be....

Is it?
I do not want to say no to those life style....
I will still carry on with those lifestyle...
Just that I want to seek the meaning behind all these....
Also... remember what I told you what I felt for u....
Even though I always said I love u, but that love word do not portray what I felt for you even a bit..... no.....
not to say I do not love you... what is love???You think.....??

again.... I am searching who I really am... I ALWAYS have this feeling deep inside... searching who I am... asking me who I am.... I can tell you that I will never stop looking....

and sometimes I feel lost like my mind are not connected to my body.....
and, by meeting darlin, darlin makes me feel me.... yes... you make me feel me...

real me... the one I am always searching for.... ME..deep inside...

even though i still have vague picture of the me inside but by meeting u makes me feel the me inside......

Hope can seek the truth of who I really am....

this is how I feel for you... I do not know what word suits best.....
All I can say for your simple mind is that, I love you with all my heart

remember......... this is how I really feel for you... beyond the meaning of love.....

peace..........

Disclaimer I know I am romantic... YES..... I am just sharing... not for you as a reader..... Dont fall for me

Agul · Post time 26-4-2007 09:49 AM

Bravo for your courage to share this in the open space...

Much credit for you...

dutchy · Post time 26-4-2007 02:59 PM

woww......u blow me away

luckily theres a disclaimer

Agul · Post time 26-4-2007 11:55 PM

[quote]Originally posted by dutchy at 26-4-2007 02:59 PM
woww......u blow me away

luckily theres a disclaimer

wei_loon5063 · Post time 27-4-2007 12:35 AM

how old are you??? hmm????

I realise this...typical malaysian.... when reach middle age, they rarely become romantic... they claim it is shameful to do on such age....

I`ve seen this old couple in UK... the husband order the wife`s favourite food when the wife goes to toilet...

the wife knew about it and hug the husband and say thank you and kiss on the cheek

You don`t get to see that every day in malaysia.....

SleepyFish · Post time 27-4-2007 03:52 PM

reading u all punya postings just makes me smile

wei_loon5063 · Post time 28-4-2007 01:26 AM

just don care.......

I`ve seen one loving old couple in KL

about 70++

the guy hold the lady`s hand cross the road and the lady is jz like small girl put her hand on his shoulder..........

you know?? even though people criticize; they do not despise them

but they envy them........ I mean how many couple could be like that?

still loving after so long

dutchy · Post time 28-4-2007 10:34 AM

when u r young,maybe you don't quite care abt
peoples perception....I guess if u r comfy enuff abt it, then by all means go ahead :love:

Love is a great thing to be shared

wei_loon5063 · Post time 28-4-2007 04:07 PM

yeap........

btw.......... how do you know I am young??

5063.....

it might be my age or year of birth

dutchy · Post time 28-4-2007 06:03 PM

I THINK that you r young, or r still studying, since
I saw ur postings, correct me if am wrong at LATY

or u wanna tell me :bgrin:

wei_loon5063 · Post time 28-4-2007 06:18 PM

yeap........

Doing my final year in UK now... doing mechanical engineering...

I am doing "affective engineering" for my final year project.... a.ka. emotional engineering

it is the study of human emotion; psychology; sociology; consciousness interaction toward product characteristic..........

get it??

put it this way.... HP... why you love HP? why pretty HP attracts you more than boring one....

It is this project that makes me study very very deep about human mind and search of pleasure......

I mean among 10 people you ask them.. how many want to suffer; how many want pleasure......... why??

p.s. hope I am not too technical........

by the way....
I`ve read a lot of journal...
many of us now are being controlled by mega company.. our emotion; thoughts etc...

are being controlled by them.."cultural engineering"...... whether you know it or not....

need me to elaborate more???

[ Last edited by wei_loon5063 at 28-4-2007 06:23 PM ]

Agul · Post time 1-5-2007 05:13 PM

Originally posted by dutchy at 27-4-2007 07:58 PM

come...come...do share with us, am sure, I'll be blown away 牋

Emm... no.

I don't know where it is. I can try to remember爐he

wei_loon5063 · Post time 1-5-2007 05:15 PM

Originally posted by Agul at 1-5-2007 05:13 PM
Emm... no.
I don`t know where it is. I can try to remember the 10+ love poems (based on something that happens at an island ) but..

here it is....... found it

Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?

Thou art more lovely and more temperate:

Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,

And summer's lease hath all too short a date:

Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,

And often is his gold complexion dimm'd;

And every fair from fair sometime declines,

By chance or nature's changing course untrimm'd;

But thy eternal summer shall not fade

Nor lose possession of that fair thou owest;

Nor shall Death brag thou wander'st in his shade,

When in eternal lines to time thou growest:

So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,

So long lives this and this gives life to thee.

Atomic_Omnikid · Post time 1-5-2007 05:18 PM

Originally posted by wei_loon5063 at 1-5-2007 17:15

here it is....... found it

Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?Thou art more lovely and more temperate:Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,And summer's lease hath ...

William Shakepeare's Sonnet 18..

Agul · Post time 3-5-2007 12:29 AM

Originally posted by wei_loon5063 at 1-5-2007 05:15 PM

here it is....... found it

Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?Thou art more lovely and more temperate:Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,And summer's lease hath牋...

em... actually all my poem are in malay except two of them. And it's not shakespearesque... :bgrin:

Agul · Post time 3-5-2007 12:34 AM

I think P.U.L. is sort of an amalgamation of feeling, which can consist of,

loving kindness, gratitude,......

Let us try to add to the list together...

dutchy · Post time 3-5-2007 10:11 PM

Originally posted by Agul at 1-5-2007 05:13 PM

Emm... no.

I don't know where it is. I can try to remember the 10+ love poems (based on something that happens at an island ) but...

that was pevious me. Mentally, physically ad emot ...

do I sense some modesty here? or some anguish from past love?

come do share, a love poem mirrored what we felt at the moment, eventhough some may not be relevant anymore

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