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kak fie..
mak kite pon ade cite sedih dia gak...
gi sekolah kayuh basikal pegi balik 4 kilometer (ke brp km tah...dah lama lepas zaman dia kuat membebel nii) ... lepas balik umah buat bendang dgn my tok.....
'itu pon ibu dpt 18 agregate" (pure science)... "abih korang ni sekolah bagus2 idup senang lenang...buku cukup cikgu cukup sekolah kat bandar takkan tahap belas2 jugak kott"
grrr..anak2 tensennnnn |
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Originally posted by Delifrance at 9-8-2007 10:18 AM 
kak fie..
mak kite pon ade cite sedih dia gak...
gi sekolah kayuh basikal pegi balik 4 kilometer (ke brp km tah...dah lama lepas zaman dia kuat membebel nii) ... lepas balik umah buat benda ...
adduussssss.....ini lagi power dari Dr Fadzilah Kamsah punya motivation.
Kalau bagi kursus motivasi macam ni kat budak-budak sekarang mesti derang blurr..."apa benda nak buat bendangnya?..beli je la beras kat Giant"  |
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my 11 yr old girl loves to prepare apa2 berkaitan eggs..... scrambled eggs ke, bulls eyes ke. Sapa ajar pun tak tau la..... maybe from observation kut.....
ok gak tu......
Sebenarnya mac tahu, dia angan2 dia chef kat restaurant, pastu dia suruh kakak and adik2 dia order..... hehe |
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my son usia 3 tahun i memang encourage dia buat semua benda sendiri.tapi ofcourse under my supervision laa..dia dah pandai bancuh sirap,buat milo,dan susu untuk dia laa...
bila time mandi sendiri sabun cuci gigi sendiri...lepas tu i pulak check,bersih ke tak..
time i masak pun dia nak join sekali.ha,yang ni minta maaf i cakap dengan dia,dapur adalah forbidden area for him.
time makan memang dia makan sendiri..lauk semua dia nak ceduk sendiri..cuma satu dia tak suka..sayur!my son ni memang rajin kalau suruh cepat je di pergi..satu perangai dia yang i tak mampu ubah lagi..suka buang barang...
yang kecik tu 3 month...kerja dia makan tido,gelak je.... |
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Reply #30 gemini75's post
me pernah jumpa mak yg tak ajar anak dia makan sendiri....alasannya, nanti takut sepahh...anak tu sekarang dah umur 6 thn,..dan masih bersuap
i wonder how the mother thinks |
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btol tak kalo me kata, anak2 yg dijaga emak sendiri nie...tahap berdiakri dia agak kurang dgn anak2 yg dijaga oleh org (nursery)....
dan anak2 yg dijaga maid kat rumah lagi less berdikari dr yg dijaga mak sendiri...sebab mak2 nie bila dah penat, pepandailah dia suruh anak tu...tapi maid lain |
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Reply #32 my-alja's post
most prolly kot... sbb my baby dok nursery, by 10m dh pndai mkn sdiri. since then mmg die mkn sdiri je... sbb dh biasa mkn sdiri, bila die mkn mmg xde bersepah pon. compared 2 my niece yg dok umah & my fren's child yg dijaga maid, die agak independent la... for example, since die kukuh berjalan, every time aft mkn, he wud put his plate & cup lam sink on his own... pastu kalu die buat sepah, katalah he spills water ke, he wud get a towel & clean his own mess...  |
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This is a subject very close to my heart. Especially so since I got rid of all my maids. For me and hubby its very important for our sons to be as independent as possible. We work hard to ensure they understand that they need to be responsible. This covers not just stuff around the house eg. cleaning up, washing, keeping things tidy but also their school work and general well being. Since hubby and I work from home we have the flexibility of monitoring them closely. But there are times when we have to leave them alone and so far alhamdullillah they have been okay. They look out for each other. My older son (11) can cook simple meals such as lasagna, spaghetti, nasi, fancy omellete etc. I'm blessed to have both boys who are very easy to talk to and are able to understand what hubby and me tells them.
This is my crude independence list for my kids :
1. They can earn money with certain chores & spent it on whatever they desire.
This is to teach them to be careful and thrifty with their money.
2. They both have bikes which they can ride within the neighbourhood
This is to teach them independence and self-reliance - no need for us to take them to the park etc and also as exercise. But they know not to venture beyond our neighbourhood (which they can't since we are in a gated place)
3. Repair broken things
I just love the look my son has when he successfully fixes something! He can fix shower heads, do small repairs to his bike, etc. Recently he learnt to sew (cikgu sekolah ajar). Wonderful!
4. Self-defense - ni kira independece ke?
This is important for their own protection. Hubby says "A man should have the idea that he can take care of himself, that he can protect those who are his own, and that he can be in charge of the situation."
Meleret-leret pulak. But really, if we can in our own small way make our children independent, it'll be a better world. I can see the difference between my kids and the kids raised by Indonesian/Filipino maids. |
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Reply #34 AnitaSabrina's post
Wow! 11 yr old boy can cook lasagna? Me pun x pandai. Bg resepi. he he...
This is my crude independence list for my kids :
1. They can earn money with certain chores & spent it on whatever they desire.
This is to teach them to be careful and thrifty with their money.
Me, sometime do the same. Bila penat sesangat/sakit me just ask my kids to do some hse chores. And of course, they'll get upah.
My eldest, baru2 ni dia citer yg dia selalu jual ais krim and other stuffs kat sekolah. From there he gains some money. According to him, his classmates r really lazy to go to the canteen. So he buys some favourite foods esp ice cream with his own money and then sells back to his frens. He manages to get up to 50 sen from the "sale"
Pas tu pandai plak dia ajar mak dia jual ais krim malaysia kat rumah. nanti kwn2 dia boleh beli. Hu hu! Tp mak dia x cukup rajin.
[ Last edited by HOTlips at 7-9-2007 10:07 AM ] |
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Reply #32 my-alja's post
bukan tahap berdikari rasanya.... tp tahap disiplin. Mak dah ajr berdikari. Tp anak2 degil ya amat! Buat bodo jek! Hari2mau mak jadi harimau!
Balik sekolah 2 x sehari. Ada 2 anak, sesi lain2. So 4 kali mak jerit2 suruh letak socks dlm kasut. Simpan kasut kat rak. Beg bawa masuk dlm bilik. Jgn sepah kat hall. Waaaaa!
hari2 ulang ayat yg sama.  Belum lg masuk bab yg lain. |
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Originally posted by HOTlips at 7-9-2007 10:06 AM 
Wow! 11 yr old boy can cook lasagna? Me pun x pandai. Bg resepi. he he...
Me, sometime do the same. Bila penat sesangat/sakit me just ask my kids to do some hse chores. And of course, they'll ...
Hotlips, yr son ni business minded betul la...... elok la macam tu...... bagus sangat tu utk diberi galakkan..... |
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Reply #34 AnitaSabrina's post
thank you for sharing anita....
for now, i just focus on house chores for my son, lipat baju, kemas baju...kemas bilik dia, luar drp rumah ...blom lagi kot, tunggulah dia cerdik sket
p/s...lasagna is not a simple meal for me ...byk keje wehhh, white source segala... |
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Reply #36 HOTlips's post
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memanglah...kalo tgh byk keje, malas nak marah...me buat semua sendiri, jimat tenaga drp duk suruh2 sampai nak berbuih-buih mulut nie |
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Post time 8-8-2007 04:33 PM
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awat tak suruh masak sekali...
...hahahahha
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