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Berapa orang anak yg kita ada : Quantity vs Quality
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Originally posted by macademia at 9-8-2007 09:47 PM 
anak2 brapa tahun kak yan?
yang sulung 9 , no.2 - 8 thn , no.3 - 5 thn dan yg kecik tu 3 tahun...3 girls and a boy..& I'm 34 this year. |
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Originally posted by my-alja at 9-8-2007 09:49 PM
aminnnn kak yan....
dah berapa usia suami akak...kekadang lelaki nie, bila dah masuk 40thn...dah taknak lagi sebab takut dia dah bersara, anak masih lagi bersekolah...logik jugak kann
Cik abang 37 ...dia bukan apa kekadang rimas anak2 bising and buat perangai...dia memang ada tolong keja rumah , but most of the houseworks dan urusan anak2 kak Yan yang buat... |
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Reply #14 tina_turner's post
kat sini mcm normal lak....
some couples dah tua baru nak anak. reason being, by that time, diorang dah financially stable so ada byk masa to stay home & raise babies/kids......
and mentally pun dah matang la konon nye gi tu...... |
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dah ada sorg gegurl...baru 8bln...nk tambah lagi...tp tatau baper...lps spt 2nd baru decide kot... |
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after much consideration.. i decided to have only 1..
but i don't mind adding the sum if my financial condition permits it.. not more that 3 tho'
as to quality vs quantity.. of course, i opt for the quality
ni yg org ckp modal insan kan..  |
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Originally posted by yantisa at 9-8-2007 10:48 PM
Cik abang 37 ...dia bukan apa kekadang rimas anak2 bising and buat perangai...dia memang ada tolong keja rumah , but most of the houseworks dan urusan anak2 kak Yan yang buat...
Mmm.... mmg time ni anak2 kak yan time lasak and nak attention...... so maybe kak yan tunggu la dulu bila yg no 3 and no4 besar sikit.
Tapi sebenarnya, dapat anak sekaligus lagi senang, walaupun masa tu rumah macam kapal pecah, tapi just for a yr or two.... lepas tu senang sesangat.............. |
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Originally posted by paulinevoon at 10-8-2007 08:51 AM
after much consideration.. i decided to have only 1..
but i don't mind adding the sum if my financial condition permits it.. not more that 3 tho'
as to quality vs quantity.. of course, i ...
kalau sorang sikit sangat kut.... kesian dia takde kawan..... |
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Reply #29 macademia's post
mac, my friend cakap ari tu.......kalau ada 1 kid only, and something bad happen to the kid camne? Mase tu kite dah tak boleh preggy..dah tua.. ape rase? isyy.. i dunno...
(Nauzubillah..ini qada & qadar jugak)... |
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one mmg plan nak 5. mungkin ade yg kata ramai gak tu tapi for me mcm enjoy life ni. kalau 4 pun one bole terima kalau 2 lelaki + 2 pompuan.
lagipun setakat anak-anak yg ade sekarang, sentiasa ade rezeki yg menanti mereka. bab quality mmg le penting tapi one akan buat setakat yg mampu.
cthnya bab tadika... mungkin one tak hantar anak ke tadika yg mahal-mahal dan terkenal sebab one kena fikir utk anak-anak lain jugak. cuma one kena luangkan masa utk mereka lebih so extra work la agar mereka ni tak tercicir. setiap anak akan one jaga dengan seimbang dari semua segi. |
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i rasa seronok pulak baca benang ni...
klu i dulu2 lah sblm kahwin nak nak 7 org...
but dah kata jodoh di tgn tuhan ..i married lambat sikit ..when i was...31yrs
so tak boleh sebyk tulah kot :geram: ..now my doter 1 yr...i dah sebaya ngn yantisa...so klu dpt 3 atau 4 alhamdulillah ...
btul nowdays semuanya money concern...tgk lah jugak kemampuan i and my hubby jugak..klu ok macamtulah impiannya...
anyway for quantity or quality of coz i pilih quality..try to jaga & didik anak2 sehingga berjaya..macam my parents jaga we all 8 adik beradik boleh dikatakan semuanya berjaya w/pun my mum tak pandai membaca... |
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Reply #35 paulinevoon's post
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u looks younger than ur age lah...so dont worry...age is just a no. lah sis |
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salam semua
umur saya 32,anak dah 4 orang. cukuplah kerana sekarang ni kos semua meningkat. saya nak besarkan anak2 supaya berkualiti. dah lah kami bekerja, tiap2 hari balik rumah 8 mlm, terkejar masa, nak masak, tengok anak2 belajar. yang sulong boleh belajar sendri, yg no-2 lelaki, kalau kita tak tunggu dia pakat melukis, homework tak siap, tahun depan yang no-3 nak masuk tadika, lagi tak cukup masa. saya memang takde maid, semua kena buat sendri.
tiap-tiap hari tidor pukul 12-1am, pagi bangun pukul 5.45am. letih sangat rasanya.
nasiblah hb menolong sikit2.
bagi saya kalau anak ramai tapi kita tak dapat bagi anak kita yang terbaik pun tak bagus, kesian anak kita. sekarang kita kena pentingkan quality. |
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Reply #10 yantisa's post
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anak an 3 orang..sama mcm hang laa...teringin nk baby lgi..yg sulung dh form4...2nd form1 n youngest darjah 2...pastu yg tinggal cma yg youngest ngan i...boring tahap gaban...:mad2: |
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Post time 9-8-2007 10:45 PM
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