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My son is hyperactive (ADHD) and mild autism. I baru discover dia ada ni masa dia Darjah 1 masuk sekolah..Sebelum ni langsung tak tahu dia ada penyakit ni. Dia tak boleh bercakap sampai umur 5 tahun. yg dia boleh cakap mama ,papa and baby talk, bubbling saja. i tak tahu bcoz no experience.Masuk kinder, teacher tak cakap pun he ada problem.
Bila masuk darjah 1, cikgu cakap anak i tak boleh baca , tak boleh cakap. luckily he can understand english. sbb masa 5 tahun tadika q-dees belajar words in english.bahasa melayu langsung tak boleh.
atas nasihat teacher di sekolah, i hantar dia tu PPUM.from there they do test.Bnyknya. IQ, Hearing, Speech.findingsnya hyperactive & mild autism. According to the doctor, derang ni cerdik tapi u kena active and stimulate kepandaian mereka. jika tidak blh jadi problem student.bcoz have problem in social and interacting. Alhamdullilah, berkat kesabaran, dia boleh bercakap english very good.bahasa ada pelat sikit. bcoz masa mula2 ckap dulu english yg tu dia dpt pick-up. doc said he has this hyper active bcoz genetic.I delivered him caesarian, suka fast food masa pregnant dia.But i notice budak hyper derang ada certain2 benda yg dia extraordinary kepandaian compare to budak normal. |
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Reply #21 iddine's post
iddine
mind me asking ye...
wen u 1st discovered his disorder, how did u feel?
i mean, did u 4 one second question takdir ke ape ke?
or frustrated ke...
sori if i sound insensitive ke... if u dun mine sharing ye...  |
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Lupa nak add up points. masa dia umur 1 - 5 thn punyalah aktif seminit tak boleh duduk diam. i pernah pukul dia sbb tak tahan sepjg hari tak duduk diam lgsg. ada je kerja. dia pernah makan ubat gegat and operation perut. cari dalam closet. pening tak??have to monitor dia setiap masa , mata tak boleh lepas. cepat berpeluh, tgn fidgetting, always look over excited, mengamuk kalau tak dapat barang.kalau bagi makan coklat lagi bertambah tambah tak boleh dikawal.
kdg2 ada gak dia over excited melompat lompat sekrg, but we control him and ask him to behave and listen. problem dia listen and receive instruction. masuk sekolah darjah 1, i minta tolong kakak kedai buku, kantin sekolah, pak guard sekolah tlg tengok2 kan dia.i even kept their phone numbers. i told them my child ada problem sket.even bus driver also has to give extra attention to him. Bnyk yg membantu di sekolah..tx alot to all this people. |
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iddine.... u go girl! I can "see" the semangat in u in assisting anak u....
My advise, do read up about his problem and be fully updated on his condition. I know u already have, but it has to be continous.
Yes, anak2 begini, ada special giftnya.... maybe yr next goal would be to find out what makes him tick.....
I saw on tv a real life story pasal this boy yg istimewa, but i cant remember what his condition was. But what i know was the professors at the Uni were very impresessed with his music talents.... padahal dia tak pernah belajar music.... but he can compose complicated song.... a true genius, prof tu kata.... |
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Reply #22 mummydhani's post
Masa mula2 dapat tahu i rasa sedih teramat amat.Rasa macam kenapa lah i'm so ignorant sampai tak nampak problem anak i.i dont blame anybody. my hubby pun cuma mcm x blh terima kenapa tersedar lambat.tak pernah pun salahkan takdir. yg kita org pikir how to solve this problem.
Doc kat PPUM kata i hantar anak dah terlambat.should have send him masa dia umur 1-2 tahun bukan masa sekrg ni 7 tahun.
Too late and maybe tak boleh buat apa2. 1 of the doctor even dah keluarkan surat suruh hantar anak i to special school (u know school yg bercampur dgn budak down syndrome, hearing problem, dyslexia, etc...)
I jumpa psychologist kat PPUM minta nasihat. doctor ni bagus dia kata x yah hantar special school tapi u kena keluar duit banyak bantu dia ambik class to build his social interactive problem, at the same time masalah belajar. i hntr anak i mental arithmatic classes, reading classes kat smart reader.centre kat usj tu tolong i bagi extra coach utk anak i in speech dgn student lain. i told them my kid problem. they're helpful. not all cente can help u on that.
I masukkan anak i taekwando.cuma music class je i x masukkan.dah tak ada budget dah untuk dia tiap2 bulan. Dia belajar agama kat KAFA problem sesangat bcoz he doesn't undestand even a single thing ustad cakap. 2 kali tukar KAFA private. At last, i hantar dia to Genius Aulad. they use english medium. alhamdullilah. asma ulhusna boleh baca semua.ayat kuran boleh hafal.bacaan sembahyang pun ok.
All my SIL pulak tu (husband py adik) masa anak i kecik dok perli i . i rasa sedih sgt sampai at one time i tak nak balik rumah MIL bcoz i dont want to see them and bully anak i. cakap depan2 anak i dia tu bodoh lah , lembablah, tak tahu cakaplah, bla bla..My PIL ok pulak sayangkan anak i yg sorang ni. SIL siap cakap kahwin dgn melayu anak jadi macam ni..i rasa sedih sesangat. keep comparing my son with another nephew where the mother is Chinese. tapi my kakak ipar yg chinese ni tak kisah pun & jaga hati i.
Now bila anak dah ok, SIL siap cakap, macamana dia boleh jadi baik ye, pandai pulak cakap english. i diam malas nak jawab. |
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hyperactive ni satu masalah /penyakit kan? Yang i pernah dengar..anak anak yang hyper ni.,kalau kita bercakap dan renung mata dia..dia tak akan tengok mata kita. Maksudnya dia tak boleh static macam tu ajer..dia sentiasa berakiviti dan tak boleh tumpu pada satu perkara untuk masa yang lama walau 2 minit pun.
One of my friend ada anak sedara yang hyper..tapi dia memang cakap English sajer walau mak ayah nyer tak paham sepatah pun. dapat dr cartoon kat tv. mak nyer tak buat treatment apa pun sebab jauh katanya nak ke hospital...depa dok Felda mana ntah |
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Reply #25 iddine's post
iddine
insya allah, u've tried your best & i know u will keep on trying 2 provide watever necessary unt your son...
psl org perli2 tu, it happens... ye la, sbb kite kt msia ni, x exposed 'bt all these disorders sume...
i hav a fren whose child was diagnosed wit dyslexia... she said b4 she actually sought professional help, she was vr frustrated... tp wen she started reading, she was more open & she was able 2 cater 4 her son's needs better... |
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Reply #21 iddine's post
ermmmm....lambatnyer u tahu anak u ada masalah ....
dun get me wrong idd, byk sgt me jumpa mak2 kes yg sebegini....dan cikgu sekolah pun boleh buat dunno padahal dia pun mengajar ... manalah sifat prihatin sorang pendidik kat sini....
yg me kesal dgn masyarakat kat sini, silap haribulan depa kata kita paranoid sebab rasa anak kita lain drp org.....sebab me pun pernah kena |
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Originally posted by AmMiNafeesa at 12-9-2007 03:55 PM 
hyperactive ni satu masalah /penyakit kan? Yang i pernah dengar..anak anak yang hyper ni.,kalau kita bercakap dan renung mata dia..dia tak akan tengok mata kita. Maksudnya dia tak boleh static ma ...
i think that one is more on autism....tapi isu2 camni kena diagnose by specialist, very thin line between autism, hyperactive...but of course it's a sickness |
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Originally posted by sha_n at 12-9-2007 02:48 PM
emm...that's why la sha open thread nih..
nk tanye pndpt korang sume..
coz..ramai yg kate..."aktif tu tanda nye anak cerdik la"..coz otak die pon aktif..
tu yg duk nk tanye nih..what's ...
aktif tu tandanya sihat-walafiat...tu sebab dia boleh meneroka alam
hyperactive tandanya ada penyakit...sampai takleh duk seminit dua
yg ramai kata tu, knowing org melayu nie suka berkias....dia tak suka cakap anak tu jahat sebab nakal, dia tukar cakap anak aktif tu cerdik....memang cerdiklah sebab dia kreatif cari masalah(nie kata my dad) ....selagi kita tahu anak kita sihat, alhamdulilah...... |
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pernah dulu kat sekolah,
kat pra class,ada budak sorang ni mmg paed dah surekn dia hyper,
tgh cekgu menjagar dlm class,dia boleh kluar berlari sesorg nk kluar ke gate..bahaya sngt gitu
kalau berbaris lagilah,duk cuit2 org,kacau2..dia seolah2 dlm dunia sendiri.
budak kalau aktif mcm manepun biler,time cekgu ngajar dia dpt concern,
kalau budak hyper nih,
dia x duk diam ada je kojernya. |
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pernah dulu kat sekolah,
kat pra class,ada budak sorang ni mmg paed dah surekn dia hyper,
tgh cekgu menjagar dlm class,dia boleh kluar berlari sesorg nk kluar ke gate..bahaya sngt gitu
kalau berbaris lagilah,duk cuit2 org,kacau2..dia seolah2 dlm dunia sendiri.
budak kalau aktif mcm manepun biler,time cekgu ngajar dia dpt concern,
kalau budak hyper nih,
dia x duk diam ada je kojernya. |
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Reply #30 my-alja's post
lgpun x baiklah kalau budak tu nakal/panjat2 ni kater,"nakal/jahatnya budak nih"
aktif tuh kira lasak n buaslah. |
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Reply #30 my-alja's post
yg ramai kata tu, knowing org melayu nie suka berkias....dia tak suka cakap anak tu jahat sebab nakal, dia tukar cakap anak aktif tu cerdik....
alja
i rs as parents, kite x patut gak ckp anak kite nakal (walau anak kite nakal pon...)
kan kata2 mak ayah tu satu doa...
so dr guna words yg negative, lebih baik guna words yg positive...
ye x?
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Reply #33 luv_ma's post
btul... btul...
nakal sounds vr negative kan...
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Reply #34 mummydhani's post
lerrr...btollah tu me tulis tu
melayu pantang cakap benda2 negatif, sebab tu kita selalu dgr, mak/ayah suka guna perkataan "anak bertuah"..w/pun anak cam %^&*+@!... |
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Reply #34 mummydhani's post
betul..
dr zaman dulu lgi,org duk ckp gitu..'bertuah punya anak!' kan? |
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b4 ni..sha pnah terbaca tips dr DR Fadzilah Kamsah...
tp tk ingat kt mane..
katenye..
"Bagi anak2 yg dah azalinya active or hyper-active, kurang (or jangan) pakaikan baju warna orange sebab warna ini boleh merangsang secara aktifnya tindak tanduk anak (ie. akan lebih nakal), sentiasa bersemangat waja & exuberant".... |
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b4 ni..sha pnah terbaca tips dr DR Fadzilah Kamsah...
tp tk ingat kt mane..
katenye..
"Bagi anak2 yg dah azalinya active or hyper-active, kurang (or jangan) pakaikan baju warna orange sebab warna ini boleh merangsang secara aktifnya tindak tanduk anak (ie. akan lebih nakal), sentiasa bersemangat waja & exuberant".... |
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Originally posted by iddine at 12-9-2007 03:38 PM
All my SIL pulak tu (husband py adik) masa anak i kecik dok perli i . i rasa sedih sgt sampai at one time i tak nak balik rumah MIL bcoz i dont want to see them and bully anak i. cakap depan2 anak i dia tu bodoh lah , lembablah, tak tahu cakaplah, bla bla..My PIL ok pulak sayangkan anak i yg sorang ni. SIL siap cakap kahwin dgn melayu anak jadi macam ni..i rasa sedih sesangat. keep comparing my son with another nephew where the mother is Chinese. tapi my kakak ipar yg chinese ni tak kisah pun & jaga hati i.
manusia bodoh saja kata budak kecik bodoh......aku cukup pantang bab-bab nih........ i think i can understand the frustration on your part.....memang kena put a lot of focus, and kena anticipate their next move.......memang letih.......but I hope u banyak banyak bersabar, just ignore what other people is saying......since people tak merasa, so people like to assume things......bukan senang nak ajar diaorang even basic skill that for others kids we simply take it for granted......
tapi banyak case of speech delay ni yg i dok perati, depa ni lagi senang cakap english dari cakap melayu..... |
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