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Apa yg dimahukan oleh isteri dari suami masing2?
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kesetiaan/loyalty/fidelity/honesty mmg maha penting in a marriage...but they arent something we can really see...susah nak diukur dgn mata kasar. the man can say dia setia, but who knows behind ur back he's cheating on u left, right and center kan? i came up with the ciri2 di atas based on something that we can more or less see....from their day-to-day behaviour towards us. ada hbs yg bagi seme di atas, but still pasang lagi satu. sekurang2 nya...kita tak lak rasa shortchanged sgt, psl dia bagi kita apa yg kita nak...dari laki yg dah lah treat us like dirt, pas tu pasang lagi satu lak...yg ni mmg kita jadik menyampah and benci seumur hidup! apa yg kita nak pun tak dibagi, ni ada hati nak layan pompuan lain...lebih kurang la.
ada jugak yg laki yg mmg tak main pompuan, but hati dia kering la yg teramat..yg buat kita sengsara jugak...sebab hari2 kena jalan hidup dgn dia. at least ciri2 yg di atas are the ones yg membuatkan our daily lives more fulfilling and endurable.
thanks all for participating...ur the best!  |
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haku nak sgt hubby memahami diri haku ni...sbb biler dia tak faham ini akan jadik faktor yg menyumbang kepada pergaduhan... selain tu menghargai haku n anak... |
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tak leh nak vote pasal aku kena tick semua yg di atas  |
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aper yg dilistkan kat atas tu semuanyer telah pun dipenuhi...maybe cuma kemewahan jerlah..but I dont need kemewahan..apa yg ada skrg nie dah mencukupi...alhamdulillah..aku cuma nak kitorg hidup aman bahagia smp bila2...insyallah.. |
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wife, aku nak share the 5 main needs of spouses, male and female.
1) Words of affirmation: i love you. i appreciate your help. i treasure you..
2) Quality time: kidnap for lunch, walks in the rain, sembang2 giggle2 mcm kids
3) Receiving gifts: tak mahal, but it's the thot that counts
4) Acts of service: tolong buang sampah, tukar bulb lampu, tolong bayar bill
5) Physical touch: foot massage, holding hands, cuddles
everyone ada priority tersendiri. recognise yours and your spouses' as well. you'll be surprised at the results.
eg: i used to think my hubby prioritise acts of service and physical touch, rupanya dia suka words of affirmation waaaayy above physical touch.
myself pulak suker acts of service and quality time, tapi hubby ingat receiving gifts and words of affirmation.
think about it. after we fulfilled each other's needs, conversation and intimacy became easy. who knew there was a science to it. |
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Yang kat atas tu satu jer yang tak dapat lagi....tolong aku wat kerja2 umah..penat weh..yang lain alhamdulillah.... |
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Sebagai seorang suami yg kini sudah melebihi 24 tahun berkawin dgn isteri yg ada sekarang ini...ada beberapa perkata dalam list tu tidak dapat AN penuhi..tapi mejoritinya AN tak ada masalah utk dipenuhi...no hal la tu.. |
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Originally posted by Anak_Nogori at 19-9-2007 02:43 PM 
Sebagai seorang suami yg kini sudah melebihi 24 tahun berkawin dgn isteri yg ada sekarang ini...ada beberapa perkata dalam list tu tidak dapat AN penuhi..tapi mejoritinya AN tak ada masalah utk d ...
yg mana tu....?  |
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Reply #30 wifeorg's post
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No 8 dan no 9 tu.. |
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no 9....boleh la...kena belajar sikit. |
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majoriti nyer, korang mahukan PERHATIAN dari suami.....................
PERHATIAN yang macam mana korang mahukan....................? |
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bagi attention kat kita... |
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jgn balik umah, pandang anak aje... |
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attention?Perhatian?...kdg2 org pempuan pun x sedar yg seganas2 kite ni sebenarnye nak jugak cam pempuan rase...i mean perhatian dr segi lain la..bkn jage mkn dan minum je..more tu pyscally touching or dimanjekan ke..klu kite je bg tapi pempuan x..tu yg lame2 malas..bile da jadi cam tu ckp kite x syg..x romentik la...cane tu? |
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banyaknyaa permintaan..nabi pun tak larat kasik seme tuh tau
mintak satu jek tokleh ker?
kene pandai pilih laa..dengan permintaan satu ni semua lain dapat or being optimised
but nak carik pompuan bijak susah laa nih..lazim kalo emosi depa dah menguasai..bijaksana tu ilang dah..tu ramai drama nangis akhirnya kan? |
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alaaaaaaa..... nk sume laa........... |
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Originally posted by wifeorg at 19-9-2007 03:54 PM 
bagi attention kat kita...
PERHATIAN yang macam mana korang nak tu......................? |
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Post time 19-9-2007 10:41 AM
