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nak minta nasihat ttg poligami/ hidup bermadu..
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Skg ni, hanya Allah jer yg tahu perasaan sy..huhuhu
nak kata, saya tawar hati pada hubby pun mcm betul jer..tp sy usaha ketepikan perasaan tu..
Doa bnyk2 agar dpt terima hubby..huhuhu
Rasanya betul kata mbhcfs tu..
Sy kena fokus benda lain agaknya..smpi tak terfikir pun pasal benda ni kan? huhuhu |
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Reply #21 darkness's post
aka dah kahiwn berapa tahun? anak berapa org? umur berapa anak anak tu?
If you wish TO share..kalau tak nak tak pa . Saya tak paks yer Puan. It's ok. niuntuk my own thought jer |
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Reply #23 darkness's post
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aka pi lah kelas hmm ..swimming , join kelas memasak Indah ker , gymnasium ker |
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Reply #22 darkness's post
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tissue tu nak bagi nama aper , akak ? hihihihi ( say buli akak ni ) kekekekek |
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Originally posted by mbhcsf at 8-4-2009 00:17 
u takut nak kahwin ? u okay kot i yg nyilu trauma i tengok Malay guy ni treat their wife....u know something In, to be the person who is FACING the music......it really hurts...mmg zahir tak teu ...
aku tengok malay girls...they are quite nice..and shy..biasanya...and salu down to earth..
sygnya laki melayu suka amik kesempatan on these malay girls.. |
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Originally posted by mbhcsf at 8-4-2009 00:44
aka pi lah kelas hmm ..swimming , join kelas memasak Indah ker , gymnasium ker
huhuhu bestnya pg swiming pool..kelas memasak lagik?? mmg fav tu! 
tp skg ni akak, tgh arrange nak ker kelas agama..huhuhuh |
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Originally posted by makcikmengamok at 8-4-2009 00:56
aku tengok malay girls...they are quite nice..and shy..biasanya...and salu down to earth..
sygnya laki melayu suka amik kesempatan on these malay girls..
huhuhu ntahla makcikmengamok..
tp sy bukan org melayu..huhuh dok sabah ni..sabahan aka kadazan.. 
hubby lak org sabah la jg..bajau erhh.. |
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Reply #28 darkness's post
oh my godddddddddddddddddddddddddddd....so sorry
you are 24 well lady
you have a lot to do with your life
well god... u know umur satu pemberian anugerah
well lady start planning ahead .............your husband just u know treat him as a duty basis lah but you keep your focus and develop yourself banyak boleh buat at the age of 24 ..............
anyway tahniahlah sebab dah married , tak per ker ni ...u are lucky .u know..u really are . Believe me. |
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i think you are protecting yourself from getting hurt sebab alaa ni macam once bitten twice shy gitu...well ..i guess take your time....give yourself time to heal lah..i guess you are deeply hurt ni seba tu nyilu nak sayang balik nak bagi balik that love tu because that's why you have gotten left , right? kalau u bagi sekali lagi and he failed to appreacite the love again ..i know ..it 's gonna be lagi teruk lah kan...the trust is not there, kan?
ni yg most men tak tahu ni- ladies nikan selagi faktor affect emopsi tu tak settle dia susah nak feel "happy" but i guess well...take your time lah kot............time will tell.... |
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well....u know yep it's complicated kan? |
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Originally posted by mbhcsf at 8-4-2009 01:21
i think you are protecting yourself from getting hurt sebab alaa ni macam once bitten twice shy gitu...well ..i guess take your time....give yourself time to heal lah..i guess you are deeply hur ...
i think you are protecting yourself from getting hurt <-- tepat skali~ tp bukan pula sb malu ker apa..sb, mmg teramat sakit hati satu ketika dulu..yeah, i'll take my time to heal myself..maybe, masa boleh mengubah hati ni..hmm..
Tp, tak dinafikan..hati ni masih sayangkan hubby..cuma takut utk menyayangi dan dicintai skg ni~ huhuhu apesal ekk...
kalau u bagi sekali lagi and he failed to appreacite the love again ..i know ..it 's gonna be lagi teruk lah kan...the trust is not there, kan? <-- betul sgt2!..sb kite ni dah letakkan kepercayaan dkt dia..once he broke, abislah..barangkali hati ni dah terlalu jauh utknya  |
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My, mudah lagi darkness ni. Tapi dah berapa lama kawen? |
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Originally posted by seri_air at 8-4-2009 12:38
My, mudah lagi darkness ni. Tapi dah berapa lama kawen?
baru nak masuk 4 tahun .. |
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Alamak, kesiannya.
Akak pun tatau nak advice camana (kalau kat FD tu lain citer hi hi hi) sebab apa yang terpikir sume Syida dah tulis.
There is only one way to go thru this without losing your sanity - talk to HIM.
Be strong, dek. |
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salam,
Sabar-sabar jelaa darkness. mom baca pun, darkness ni memang kategori strong and positive woman. Ada sepasang anak yg comel, dah nak start buka bisnes, ada hobbi, lepas tuh nak plan belajar agama. Hal suami masih sayang ke tak lepas bermadu nih, itu diluar kemampuan kita kan. Tapi sama-sama kita pecaya Allah itu lebih Mengetahui dan sentiasa mendengar aduan dan permohonan kita. Darkness doa minta dilembutkan hati suami untk tetap menjalankan tanggungjawab dan berlaku adil, melayan darkness sekeluarga dengan kasih sayang dan timbang rasa.
Mom tabik dan menyokong niat darkness untuk ikut kelas agama, maksudnya darkness ingin lebih mendekati dan mengenali Kasih sayang Rabbul Alamin, maka Allah itu akan dua kali lebih dekat kepada hambaNya. Darkness, adukan segala permasalahan darkness di dalam solat sunat tahajjud setiap malam, dan yakinlah Allah akan memberi ketenangan dan me'lepas'kan darkness daripada perasaan2 dan situasi2 yg membebankan. Insyaallah. Wallahu a'lam.
[ Last edited by mom2003 at 8-4-2009 16:52 ] |
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Post time 8-4-2009 12:43 AM
hehhe promote anak dah nih 
