Da'i Syed Didakwa Rogol, Bawa Pulang Gadis Ke Rumah?

Normabaru

pinksarah replied at 1-12-2020 07:17 PM
Mcm susah je pompuan2 mangsa ni nak menang..

Pembuktian lemah longlai..

Tu yang si akhi jengkawi tu suh charge mcm2..

tp ntahla..

Ssh gk sbnrnya nk sabit.. Klu tgk kes norita dgn yg razak baginda tu pon blh lepas.. Kes shahidan pon lepas.. Kes jason lo pon lepas.. What makes this one sangkut bila semuanya blaku kt rumah si jantan ni?

Secara jujurnya dia xbuat dgn bdk bwh umur.. Pastu dia tak paksa diorg ikut.. Semua kerelaan

And pasal oral sex.. Kalau betul kena paksa.. Kenapa xgigit je anu dai gatal tu? Nak kata takut di apa2kan..mamat tu pon bdn kepeng je.. And kalau btol rogol.. How u elok je blh naik grab..pakcik grab xtny ke..u xnangis lgsg ke..

Susah nk explain kt sini sbb sume akan ckp bdk skrg mudah kena tipu.. Mudah cair.. Etc.. Arent most of playboy mmg buat gitu?

Element cabul rogol semua kena ada consent... Hanya seks luar tabie je yg xkira consent..so ntahla.. Kaka harap mmg ttangkap. Tp pada kaka, ianya xde la menunjukkan perempuan2 ni suci or baik pon.. Coz in the first place bila ko berdua2 an org yang ketiga adalah syaitan..

phonon

fuyupoktek replied at 1-12-2020 03:53 PM
Tp seramai2 mangsa rogol xde satu pon trus buat report lepas kena rogol cabul oleh mamat ni kenapa

sebab mula2 ingat bole kawen dgn dai' pujaan.... lama2 baru sedar diri kena tipu dgn buaya darat bertopengkan da'i jer...
so sekarang semua mangsa2 pon ikut trend #metoo.....  padahal sendiri punya salah jugak

me12345

Aduhh ..6 org yg tampil report..harap dpt hukuman seberat beratnye

budaktua

susukambingbest replied at 1-12-2020 02:47 PM
Seks luar tabie llaki sama llaki, gay atau pondan. Tp klau laki tala kot bontot pompuan pun dikira ...

oral seks juga (guna mulut) juga dikira seks luar tabiee...

jgn ingt jolok bontot je yg luar tabiee....

pinksarah

Normabaru replied at 1-12-2020 11:32 AM
Tu yang si akhi jengkawi tu suh charge mcm2..

tp ntahla..

Pompuan2 yg kena dgn mamat ni pon kena go for kaunseling..

Past is past, tp in the future jgn terjadi lg..

Tgk pd kelembikan para mangsa, x mustahil lah boleh berlaku dgn pemangsa lain pulak..

On the other note, apa yg u question tu semua boleh disangkal pihak mamat ni..

Yg nama buruk yg malu tetaplah org pompuan..

me12345

Jijik aku citer pendakwah gini....merosakkan kepercayaan masyarakt. ...harap dia tak lepas daripada hukuman maksimum

Normabaru

pinksarah replied at 1-12-2020 08:24 PM
Pompuan2 yg kena dgn mamat ni pon kena go for kaunseling..

Past is past, tp in the future jgn  ...

Td tgk berita masuk jadi topik utama.. Hmm hamek la dai oi. Nk pemes sgt konon nk org tgk bakat ko

Now semua cash.. Mmg hidden talent semua keluar

Well.. Lelaki baik xtny kisah silam perempuan. So dorg ok ok ja.. Janji lawa gedik2 nnt for sure ada laki nak.. Asalkan #metoo movement ni tercapai. Agituhhh. Hihi

miss_strangers

Bolehla pasni budak ijad buat sambungan drama NUR 3. KAlini plot twist, hero ustaz adam terpesong jadi watak cam dai Syed...watak nur selamanya redha dgn action suami...syg pulak watak setadz hamadi dah mati..tapi leh tambah plot, setadz hamadi ada kembar..tapi kembar dia ni jenis baik...

makadek

Muka tk dak nur kusam malaps

Normabaru

Ni plak pendapat loyer anti lebai even sendirik kawen pak lebai


Yg ni plak.. Pendapat tentang pelamin anganku musnah vs naif



Dan kedua2 pendapat org Dm+loyer ni sama je pendpt mcm meran dgn netizen kat luar sana...so so so? Whats next

SepupuBen10

Dia ni keturunan jamalullail

Kerabat utara kan

Mestila budak budak tu takut nk report awal awal..dahla lebai, keturunan raja pulak..ni kira habis berani la budak budak pompan ni mereport. Syabas! Tumbangkan serial rapist!!!

getarsukma

Kesan dari kes ni mmg besar... Bukan si syed ni sorang tapi para Syed Sharifah yg lain, dai yg lain, juga ahli keluarganya.. masyarakat kita dari segi tertentu masih tertutup :

1- adik beradik lelaki dia susah nak dapat pasangan gara2 perbuatan dia... sapa nak bg anak dara beriparkan perogol..

2- adik2 pmpn dia pun turut tanggung malu.. bapak dia sebut lan dlm fb anak2 yg lain diejek disindir..

3- sepupu-sepapat pun kena tempias kalau org tau terkait hubungan darah dgn dia ni.. susah nak pinang anak orang pasni..

4- para pendakwah lain pun diragui credibility mereka lepas ni..

5- seluruh ahli keluarga of coz menanggung malu..

Sapa ingat kisah anak Mona Fandey kena tolak pinangan ke apa sebab status dia sebagai anak penjenayah... Mmg berat dugaan utk keluarga si Syed ni... Kalau bukan orang popular tak jadi isu besar sgt... Tp popular sbb masuk tv dan juga bak jadi cerita turut bertitle.. ada kait mengait dgn istana... All the best saja la...

haryatie

mangsa2 ni semua peminat tegar dia ker
bila rasa diri dah dipermainkan
si syed ni xde hati pun nak ajak kahwin
baru nak repot ker

Normabaru

Women regret casual sex less if they are the ones to initiate it — here's why

There is a commonly-accepted narrative when it comes to casual heterosexual sex and the women who participate in it — that, afterwards, they almost always regret it.

For a long time, this narrative went unchallenged. But, according to a new study from researchers at the Norwegian University of Science and Technology and the University of Texas, people who identify as women are less likely to experience regret after casual sex if they are the ones to initiate it.

Men and women can feel regret after sex, but people who identify as women tend to feel it more often.

In the study, 547 Norwegian and 216 American heterosexual university students were asked about their sexual activity. Researchers noted three distinct qualities that appear to lead to regret after sex for all genders — worry, disgust, and feeling pressured into sex.

Sexual gratification, sexual competency of a partner, and taking initiative, on the other hand, resulted in less regret.

The study found that people who identify as women generally bear the brunt of most of the negative qualities of sex, particularly worry and feeling pressured (feelings of disgust after the fact resulted in postcoital regret for both men and women).

Women who initiate sex tend to be more comfortable with their own sexuality than those who don't.

But the study also found that feelings of overall regret are less prevalent among women who initiate sex. Professor David Buss of the University of Texas said that this is due to two important factors these women have.

"First, they are likely to have a healthy sexual psychology, being maximally comfortable with their own sexuality," he told BBC News.  

"Second, women who initiate have maximum choice of precisely who they want to have sex with. Consequently, they have less reason to feel regret, since they've made their own choice."

The takeaway from this study does not seem to be the idea that initiating sex whenever possible will minimize regret among women.

Rather, what it appears to imply is that women who maintain a certain level of comfort and awareness regarding their sexuality and desires are more likely to know when they truly want to have casual sex, as opposed to going along with someone who approaches them just because.

So, at the end of the day, whether someone engages in casual sex or not isn't the most important thing when it comes to feeling regret afterward. What is important is coming to terms with yourself as a sexual person and knowing what you want and when you want it.

Or, as many wise people have said before — know yourself and know your worth. Then add tax.

https://www.insider.com/women-regret-casual-sex-less-if-they-initiate-it-2018-3

kakikuDibibirmu

Ya habibi, ya maulana, cabut gigi, pakai spanar

  

annehuda

Pengalaman aku dulu, masa 16thn balik sekolah kene tarik masuk semak dan hampir dirogol. Takde penetration pun nsb baik ada kawan lain lalu situ. Tu pun aku amek masa seminggu nak report polis. Seminggu jugak aku tak keluar rumah berkurung dlm bilik. Aku bertuah sbb parents aku support aku emotionally, takde nak paksa-paksa aku report polis, takde nak tuduh aku perempuan garit la ape la.

Imagine ye, aku yg stakat kene cabul mcm tu pun take time jugak pegi report. Dah pegi report, yg tny tu polis lelaki, tanya aku mcm2, aku kenal ke perogol tu, aku pakai ape, kenapa seminggu baru nak report, sampai mak aku sound, ni sape yg penjenayah anak saya ke perogol tu?

Aku pun bernasib baik gak sbb pencabul aku tu dlm sebln tu mmg die dah pegi cabul 4-5 org budak sekolah pakai modus operandi mcm aku gak. Mangsa dah ramai, saksi dah ramai, polis terpaksa amek tindakan dan pencabul tu berjaya ditangkap dan dihukum. Kalau tak mau jugak aku kemurungan dan trauma seumur hidup tapi aku kuat sbb parents aku supportive tu je. Tu pun parents aku pekakkan telinga bila ada yg komen kenapa parents aku biarkan anak dara diorg pegi mana sorg2, ada yg tuduh parents aku terpaksa pegi report polis sbb aku dah takde dara sbb dirogol. Eh mcm2 la.

Kalau tengok pencabul tu dahla penagih dadah, kurus kering je. Ikutkan mmg la nampak dr luaran boleh sepak kote die, tapi benda berlaku sekelip mata ko mmg tak smpt nk fikir ape. Dlm kes daie ni, aku sebagai mangsa pun rasa, masa kene rogol tu diorg helpless dan tak sangka kan seorg yg berpendidikan agama boleh buat mcm ni kt diorg. Kenapa ambil masa nk report? Sbb tau kalau report pun masyarakat akan blame diorg jugak.

Bg aku metoo ni movement yg bagus. Sudah2la nak agungkan lelaki, aku percaya lelaki yg baik tu mmg ada. Kalau bkn sbb abah aku lelaki yg baik dan mendokong aku emotionally aku pun trauma dgn lelaki. Tapi lelaki yg jahat tu mmg ada and there is no excuse for them to hurt women. Lg2 mcm daie ni, guna imej agama. Ko daie tapi bawak perempuan balik rumah. Yg tu kenapa tak nak dikecam?

Mayb ada yg kate kes aku tak sama sbb aku mmg ditarik dlm semak, tapi the victim blaming tu same je. Dlm kes ni dok salahkan mangsa2, yg ikut daie tu balik rumah what do you expect. Kes aku plak, ada yg blame aku, balik sekolah sorg diri ikut jalan kampung mmg beri peluang kt perogol la. Walaupun aku hari2 pegi balik sekolah ikut jalan tu.

Kes daie tu, makbapak tak ajar ke jgn ikut lelaki balik rumah? Kes aku, makbapak aku pegi mana kenapa biarkan aku pegi sekolah lalu jln kampung sorg2?

So yes, dah mcm kitorg plak penjenayah. Victim blaming mmg sedap sbb org malaysia dr dulu smpi skrang mmg suka kecam kecam je. Sampai lupa sape penjenayah sebenar.

Minami2013

kakikuDibibirmu replied at 2-12-2020 12:38 AM
Ya habibi, ya maulana, cabut gigi, pakai spanar

Muka pun psiko.. takat pandai cakap bahasa arab je mamat ni.

borrow

yg mana - rogol , zina then nyesal or perempuan psiko cam gone girl. Taktaulah. 3 drama top - full house , Because This is My First Life , Hotaru no hikari  berkisar gurl dok serumah dgn lelaki yg tak dikenali . Seb baik drama romantik , klo horror , hari ke- 2 semua dh jd rape victim.

utk yg persoal why rape victim (real victim) tak terus report, imajin Madhan Arivalagan(perogol kat india)  masukkan zakar ke dlm miss v chuols. Tinggalkan air mani dlm tu. Ada victim mebi akan terlalu marah n trus gi report polis. Ada yg marah dan dlm masa yg sama rasa jijik dgn diri sendiri , tgk cermin pun tak sanggup, nak berdepan dgn shuben lagi. Jd akan ada yg pretend tada apa berlaku , ada yg ambil masa lama utk kumpul kekuatan. Tu belum lg 2nd stage - pergi polis , ulang balik stori. 3rd stage , dikutuk peguambela tertuduh.

N ada juga kes , victim trus berkawan dgn perogol. Ni mcm indenial , nak wujudkan keadaan seolah2 tada apa berlaku. So deyols boleh terima diri sendiri. Ai pnh bc kat paper , pengakuan sorang victim. Akhirnya sheols melayan penyerang(ayah kandung) tetiap mlm n rasa hepi.

Normabaru

Ni mmg klaka

Normabaru

Ni plak utk mangsa